Lifestyle is far too often overlooked. In my opinion, people spend way too much time thinking of what to say and how to act, when what they should really worry about is how to live. There is no true one way to live your life, and no one can tell you to live a certain way. Only you can do that. Therefore, the 'VIP Lifestyle' in the title of this post is completely subjective - it will be different for everybody.

The only universally negative 'lifestyle' that everyone can share is not living the lifestyle that they want to. Kind of vague, but I'm sure you can agree that the definition of a VIP Lifestyle isn't too hard.

VIP LIFESTYLE 101

1. Sitting inside when you know you should be out socializing.

Of course, some nights you need to get things done and you can't party all the time. What you really need to ask yourself is this:
"What am I going to be doing instead of socializing?"
If it is something more productive and leads you towards another aspect of your personalized VIP lifestyle, then you shouldn't regret staying in as long as you actually work towards this goal. If you sit inside watching TV, napping, eating, crying, playing Call of Duty, or looking at porn all night when you could be out socializing, having a good time, and picking up women (/ practicing your game) then you need to rethink your agenda.

2. Hobbies, hobbies, hobbies.

This is where YOU come in. Everyone's own personality and likes / dislikes will alter this section. Do what you want to do. Want to go skydiving? Go skydiving. Want to take wine tasting classes? Take wine tasting classes. Want to become an actor? Take acting classes and get an agent. All of these things that you want to do you need to act on. Stop dreaming and start being. Do what you dream, be what you dream, and as cliche as that sounds (and as cliche as 'as cliche as that sounds' sounds as well..) this couldn't be more true.

There are some other hobbies that are recommended whether you like them or not, though, that greatly add to the VIP lifestyle, like exercising, eating healthy, socializing regularly, pursuing goals, pushing yourself, a career / job, school and education, and the list goes on. The time for rest comes later, and the time for action is now.

That's it for now. The VIP Lifestyle may sound superficial, but it is only about being the you that you want to be. It's about living for life, and living for you, fulfilling your aspirations and quitting the negative vibes. And building an attractive lifestyle is integral to your success with women.

Let me know what you guys think, positive or negative feedback appreciated.

TBH the "VIP" lifestyle it's too often looked at for PU. And in my opinion overly so.

You're right in that being productive is awesome, it can really get you places. However I still would be reluctant to call mere enjoyment a waste of time.

Pleasure is pleasure, I think it's good to just enjoy something for i's own sake, sometimes fun doesn't actually need anything else to be tagged onto it for it to be a worth-while past-time.

In all honesty I am one who believes PU is all about how you act and what you say... and as a result of these what you convey about yourself, and once you have the correct mixture of arousal, attraction and rapport it's all just logistics.

A productive lifestyle will help you practise more in PU and develop attractive qaulities to use but it's direct effect on PU outside of that is minimal.

TBH the "VIP" lifestyle it's too often looked at for PU. And in my opinion overly so.

You're right in that being productive is awesome, it can really get you places. However I still would be reluctant to call mere enjoyment a waste of time.

Pleasure is pleasure, I think it's good to just enjoy something for i's own sake, sometimes fun doesn't actually need anything else to be tagged onto it for it to be a worth-while past-time.

In all honesty I am one who believes PU is all about how you act and what you say... and as a result of these what you convey about yourself, and once you have the correct mixture of arousal, attraction and rapport it's all just logistics.

A productive lifestyle will help you practise more in PU and develop attractive qaulities to use but it's direct effect on PU outside of that is minimal.

Good insight here. When I was emphasizing the 'go out and do big things' part, I actually overlooked the smaller things that matter.

Like you said, if you're doing things for the right reasons, any thing at all - whether skydiving or hanging out with friends, it all contributes to what I described as a 'VIP Lifestyle', but which could also be referred to as a fun and happy life.

I'd agree with you right there, if you are living a life, such as you are doing precisely what you want to be doing every day. Then you are in a good life.

However I tend to reserve some concerns for this subject.. ..A "good" lifestyle is a great trait to have but I think it's a good trait to have for human beings, period.

Would you care to explain to me, why, it is a trait that should be particularly focused on a PUA?

Women are attracted to lifestyle. I think you'd agree that a miserable, unhappy, unfulfilled and unexciting guy who doesn't do anything would be less attractive to a woman than an exciting, adventurous, happy, fulfilled guy who lives the lifestyle he chooses.

But yeah, I see where you're coming from here. It's kind of a universal trait, it isn't particularly specific to PUA alone. But women are attracted to not only a man's personality, but an attractive lifestyle, which is what I was trying to emphasize here.