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| Author: | Reo [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 6:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My Thoughts on Girls Inviting Her Friends On Your Date |
My thoughts on going on dates and/or public places with girls you've just met. I’m seeing a lot of you guys do this here. If a girl insists on inviting her friend/s with the 2 of you don’t do it. Most men think she’s inviting me out with her friends she must really like me!” Don’t be a fool this is not the reason why. She’s inviting other people just a protection barrier for herself it doesn’t benefit you at all. By agree to her terms all you’re doing is insuring that you don’t get any action that night. You’ll be subjected to a night of being trying to impress everyone, being a gentleman, trying to be liked by all her friends. It’ll be one long exhausting night for you when you really just wanted to concentrate on getting your girl back to your house but your stuck playing court jester to her and her all her buddies . Now the moment you go to the bar or restroom, her friends are feeding all sorts of opinions causing her to have mixed feelings about you and they don’t have to be negative either. Example girlfriend # 1 says “Oh he’s such a sweet heart or such a nice guy.”( translates to momma’s boy) Girlfriend # 2 says “Oh look at that “other guy” over there he’s hot”(translates look that other guys more your type your guys not important) Girlfriend # 3 says “I’ve seen “your guy”(You) out before he is a loser I don’t like him”(translates to ditch this loser or you’re getting kicked out the club) Your Girls thoughts “Nice guy, sweetheart, loser, well there are other guys here (these words won’t help you get laid) Come the end of the night you’re thinking she’s coming home with you guess again she’ll make up any stupid excuse like I have to take care of my friends tonight or we came together we have to leave together. So your left settling for a good bye hug Summary Average girl weighs between 110-148 3 girlfriends each weighing around 130lbs so 3 x 130 = 390 lbs of cock block If a girl is bent on inviting other people along don’t accept her terms. She doing this because she’s not comfortable being alone with you, only sees you as a friend, or is just plain too chicken to tell you no |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 6:13 pm ] |
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Quote: Summary
fucking lol'd Average girl weighs between 110-148 3 girlfriends each weighing around 130lbs so 3 x 130 = 390 lbs of cock block  .You're right, you will be judged by all her friends if you go out with them. Don't do it. |
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| Author: | Prosp3ct [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 8:40 pm ] |
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That's true, but what if you can win her friends over? When you're at the restroom, they will pump your girl so much about how cool you are that you'll get her on a silver plate when you're back. And what her friends think about you is very important to girls. |
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| Author: | Reo [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 12:19 am ] |
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Quote: That's true, but what if you can win her friends over?
As i said I don't put myself in situations where I have to play by her rules. Inviting a crowd of her friends along on your date only creates more unnecessary work for youself. Plus there no guarantee her friends will like you wise men don't assume things will go like that little fantasy you have of everyone just loving you.
When you're at the restroom, they will pump your girl so much about how cool you are that you'll get her on a silver plate when you're back. And what her friends think about you is very important to girls. |
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| Author: | Random T. [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 1:02 am ] |
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She already suspects you of being interested. It *is* a shit test : - You say no : You are afraid of the judgement of her friends, thus your intentions are not respectable. - You say yes : You will be tested like an hamster on trial (let's say in France it's funny). => You have to say YES. DEFINITELY. It is not a date, nor a day 2 anymore : It's a fun adventure with THREE friends. Like the previous members said, you have to win her friends over. But you have to treat her like a "friend", but with only feather-light signs that you may be interested, or mixed messages, still light. For instance, make her big, romantic declarations, but so comical that the simple *idea* of you being attracted to her is funny. Well that's what I'd do, I think 
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| Author: | Bloodmuffin [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 2:25 am ] |
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A possible countermeasure if possible would be to bring along your friends to meet her friends so her friends are more likely to be distracted. Also, if her friends think your friends are cool than that will increase your value. Everyone wants to be near the person that can find a bunch of attractive people. |
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| Author: | Reo [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 2:56 am ] |
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Quote: A possible countermeasure if possible would be to bring along your friends to meet her friends so her friends are more likely to be distracted. Also, if her friends think your friends are cool than that will increase your value. Everyone wants to be near the person that can find a bunch of attractive people.
No that is not a counter-measure now you've got one big party and even bigger problems and if you turn out to be a tool hmmmm well she'll just go for your friend or maybe her friends won't like your friends vise versa........
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| Author: | jurupa [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My Thoughts on Girls Inviting Her Friends On Your Date |
How is this a bad thing? I see it as more of an opportunity to get your date's friends on your side and using them to your advantage. Because there is no doubt your date's friends are going to analyze you to no end. Why not use this to your own advantage? Because if you can get the two friends on your side, they are only going to say good things about you to your date in turn giving you more social proof and approval from your date's friends. |
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| Author: | Prosp3ct [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 12:44 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: That's true, but what if you can win her friends over?
As i said I don't put myself in situations where I have to play by her rules. Inviting a crowd of her friends along on your date only creates more unnecessary work for youself. Plus there no guarantee her friends will like you wise men don't assume things will go like that little fantasy you have of everyone just loving you.When you're at the restroom, they will pump your girl so much about how cool you are that you'll get her on a silver plate when you're back. And what her friends think about you is very important to girls. I understand what you are saying, and I wouldnt like that she'll bring her friends on a date also... so I'm 100% with you on this. I'm just saying that you dont have to be like ''it's me or her friends''. I went on a date few months ago and she came and after 15 minutes her girl friend called and she asked me if it's ok if she comes along. I said ok, and then I won over her friend, I showed respect to my girl, when I went to the restroom or for a smoke she was talking to her friend about me all the time, and when I came back I had to do 50% less attraction work. And in the end my girl paid her girl friend a taxi so I was able to go home with her alone. But like you said I prefer if I'm alone with a girl because it's less complicated than, you can fuck up less times 
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| Author: | Mr Archer [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 3:55 pm ] |
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It depends a lot when she wants to do this. If this is maybe the first or second date after you met then something is up. But it's not exactly unusual for a girl to want her friends to meet you at some point in the whole process assuming she's somewhat serious about you. |
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| Author: | Narlodapanda [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 5:06 pm ] |
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HAHAHAHHA THATS ALOT of cockblock! and I agree, if the girl wants to bring friends, then say no and ask why she dosnt feel comfortable enough around you, try to offer a compromize, take her out to lunch or if your pretty close to her, then surprize her, tell her to meet u somewhere for coffie and you will be going dutch (Everyone pays for themself) and that its all no strings attached and then you will be secluded and you have the perfect set for absolute game! I hope this helps, just my thoughts in a bottle. -Narlo |
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| Author: | Narlodapanda [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 5:08 pm ] |
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but having said that, you can do alot with minimal amount of friends, like what was posted above, if it is one friend (Ideal) or two (Stepping into dangerous territory) or three (U better be a damn good magician and entertainer while trying to game on your mark) if you can win there friends trust and attention, your F$*King golden! |
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| Author: | Prosp3ct [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 7:07 pm ] |
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It's not that hard. You just game them all, you tell DHV stories, you show personality, with the only difference that you dont kino escalate her friends but only your girl. |
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| Author: | Reo [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 7:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My Thoughts on Girls Inviting Her Friends On Your Date |
Quote: How is this a bad thing? I see it as more of an opportunity to get your date's friends on your side and using them to your advantage. Because there is no doubt your date's friends are going to analyze you to no end. Why not use this to your own advantage? Because if you can get the two friends on your side, they are only going to say good things about you to your date in turn giving you more social proof and approval from your date's friends.
Quote: Well if you want to be a good pickup artist, you'll have to learn how to make her firneds love you.
I'll answer both questions at once. Who is going to care about you being such a great PUA because ran a set of 4 women. No one cares...why create more obstacles for myself by inviting along 3 other women along who should have never been a factor to begin with. Thats like trying to swim across a raging river when there's already a bridge available.... Quote: depends a lot when she wants to do this. If this is maybe the first or second date after you met then something is up. But it's not exactly unusual for a girl to want her friends to meet you at some point in the whole process assuming she's somewhat serious about you.
It's perfectly fine to meet her friends after you've accomplished your goals with the girl first what ever that may be... My perference is after I"ve gotten her naked.Quote: if the girl wants to bring friends, then say no and ask why she dosnt feel comfortable enough around you, try to offer a compromize, take her out to lunch or if your pretty close to her
You didn't read what I wrote... This is not about some girl I"m close too, its about girls you met once before 2nd you dont ask why she's not comfort with you and you don't make no compromises with her......and if she didn't what to go out with you one on one what makes you think she'll want to go to lunch with you other than the fact she'll expect you to pay for her meal. Thats not benefitting you at all.
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| Author: | Prosp3ct [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 7:24 pm ] |
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Yeah but if you have hard time making her friends like you than you'll have a really hard time getting any closes with girls on night game. |
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