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Author:  Jav [ Wed Dec 23, 2009 1:36 am ]
Post subject:  The excuse thread.
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ex·cuse (k-skyz)
tr.v. ex·cused, ex·cus·ing, ex·cus·es
1.
a. To explain (a fault or an offense) in the hope of being forgiven or understood: He arrived late and excused his tardiness in a flimsy manner.
b. To apologize for (oneself) for an act that could cause offense: She excused herself for being late.
2.
a. To grant pardon to; forgive: We quickly excused the latecomer.
b. To make allowance for; overlook: Readers must excuse the author's youth and inexperience. See Synonyms at forgive.
3. To serve as justification for: Brilliance does not excuse bad manners.
4. To free, as from an obligation or duty; exempt: In my state, physicians and lawyers are excused from jury duty.
5. To give permission to leave; release: The child ate quickly and asked to be excused.


Your ego loves excuses. It loves them so much that it'll grab the nearest oppertunity to make one.

"I need to get to the grocery store, nah it's too cold"

We make up thousands of excuses a day, just to keep us in our comfortable zone.
This kills progress, it kills oppertunity. Girls you thought didn't like you because you rationalized that somehow and made an excuse out of it, would probably be down to fuck. But you could have never known since you didn't try. You made an excuse without trying.

"That girl probably has a boyfriend"

You are not psychic, there is only one way to find out in this case: Hi, I wanted to talk to you but I thought you had a boyfriend.

"I probably couldn't close her"

You are not psychic, yet again. There is one way of finding out. CLOSE MOTHERFUCKER.

"I'm just very picky"

Or are you scared to approach and need to justify that?

yada yada

1.) Realize when you're making an excuse to not do things.

2.)Do them nonetheless


Push the envelope.
Author:  Jav [ Wed Dec 23, 2009 2:05 am ]
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Thing is, it's a good enough excuse to move on from this girl, as she was rather dull company overall, and I persisted because it was the only option available at the time.

You never need an excuse to do anything.
Author:  Bormad [ Wed Dec 23, 2009 12:00 pm ]
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One of the excuses I used to use was that the sets were too big to approach :oops:
Author:  trackjunkie [ Thu Dec 24, 2009 1:19 pm ]
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As a waiter if I make a mistake, I don't blame the cooks. I tell them "hey sorry I forgot to ring this in, I'm going to ring it now, and put a rush on it, it should be out shortly"

Everyone is understanding, nobody likes to be lied to including yourself.

If I show up late for work the managers love to ask me why am I late, I smile and ask them if the lunch shift was busy, and just get their mind off it.

I think you guys are kind of taking it to an extreme. If you honestly don't find a girl attractive, why approach her. Sure she might have hot friends, but there is no sense in leading her on.

A relationship can shake you up pretty bad if you break up, there is something to be said for wanting your alone time, not to sulk but to enjoy the things you enjoy doing.
Author:  Jav [ Thu Dec 24, 2009 1:55 pm ]
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I think you guys are kind of taking it to an extreme. If you honestly don't find a girl attractive, why approach her. Sure she might have hot friends, but there is no sense in leading her on.

A relationship can shake you up pretty bad if you break up, there is something to be said for wanting your alone time, not to sulk but to enjoy the things you enjoy doing.
All I see are excuses.

If you want a hot gf you'll have to approach loads of people.
If you want to screw alot of hot girls you'll have to approach loads of people.

If you don't want to progress, you don't have to approach alot of people.

Everything can shake you up.
But:
"Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising every time we fail."
~ Confucius
Author:  Truncheon [ Thu Dec 24, 2009 7:42 pm ]
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but buttholes, butcheekes and bolluxes.
maybe, maybe there's no tomorrow!
sometimes, sometimes i wish i had a larger beard then i was santa!
Author:  trixsta [ Thu Dec 24, 2009 11:19 pm ]
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I'm just very picky"

Or are you scared to approach and need to justify that?
Yeah this is my excuse a lot of the time, I'm sorting it out as soon as I get back to Newcastle (no girls are worthy of approaching in my home town - I'm serious)
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Thu Dec 24, 2009 11:45 pm ]
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Great damn post Jav. Thanks for paraphrasing me Hobbit(lol).

Basically,it comes down to inner game;which is my niche in the community.

Too many of us[the ones trying to get laid only instead of becoming social in general]are looking for magic bullets and quicc fix shit instead of investing timein this.

Im more focused on becoming great socially than getting laid. Get your inner game up guys!!!
Author:  Jav [ Fri Dec 25, 2009 1:03 am ]
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I'm just very picky"

Or are you scared to approach and need to justify that?
Yeah this is my excuse a lot of the time, I'm sorting it out as soon as I get back to Newcastle (no girls are worthy of approaching in my home town - I'm serious)
Thing is, just be social and talk to them. Gets rid of that hotgirl/uglygirl bias aswell.
Author:  trixsta [ Fri Dec 25, 2009 1:12 am ]
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I'm just very picky"

Or are you scared to approach and need to justify that?
Yeah this is my excuse a lot of the time, I'm sorting it out as soon as I get back to Newcastle (no girls are worthy of approaching in my home town - I'm serious)
Thing is, just be social and talk to them. Gets rid of that hotgirl/uglygirl bias aswell.
I suck at club game. SInce I;ve been at uni I've relied on meeting girls through accommodation and through friends introducing me to girls and it's been fine, was seeing three girls at one time however I can't rely on this stuff forever. I need to take control of meeting my own women and better my club and day game. I find the idea of stopping a girl on the street a bit nervewracking, but if other people can do it, I'm sure I can with a bit of effort.

Happy Christmas everyone btw!
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