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Author:  ~Finesse [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 1:41 am ]
Post subject:  Needy girls...
Is there any way to make them un-needy without making them lose interest. I find this happens more commonly with the very innocent type of girls, and the 'less fortunate' (lookswise). It's really quite annoying, because it has happened with hot girls who I have been really into, or initially really into, but once the needyness starts, its just so damn irritating and puts me right off. The only way I've found to deal with this is by ignoring them/cutting them off for a while, this has resulted me in losing a reallly good friend however, and I'd rather not have to lose more people.

Any ideas/thoughts/suggestions greatly appreciated.

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Author:  Corey [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 6:03 am ]
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I dont know, I'd say that needy is good to an extent. It shows that they won't fuck around on you. But yeah, after a certain point it gets annoying. I dont know, I've tried talking to this one girl I was kind of with at the time about it but she didn't listen. I guess being a prick who plays games helps.
Author:  Jav [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 12:51 pm ]
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I had a talk about this with my natural buddy the other day.

He said: You first tell them you don't like it when they constantly text you, because you are a busy person, then you can be all sweet and stuff and won't have to worry about the drama later on.
Author:  ~Finesse [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 4:33 pm ]
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Okay, I had a response to this elsewhere aswell that raised a cool idea, that lead me to other ideas about it, I'll shae as it may be useful/encourage a new direction to this thread.

Gonna be a bit of a cut+paste job, so forgive if doesnt directly respond to your points.
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There is probably also a reason why you're attracting similar girls like this.
It's not *every* girl that I attract, but it is a fair amount of them. I'm wondering if it may be the indifference/push pull type of crap. 'cause some of them don't start of *that* into me in the first place. I think it's possibly in the way I'm building attraction etc, 'cause it tends to happen in a 'falling for' way.

Ah, whilst typing, I'm starting to wonder if theres much difference between the girls that I'm bugged about being needy, and the girls I'm not bugged about. I think it may be a case of the girls getting too needy too quick, like, where some guys may sexually escalate too quick, these girls are erm, emotionally escalating[?] too quick I guess you could say.

I don't want to start going for girls who would be considered 'much more difficult to get' just for the fact that they are less likely to get attatched so quick, but maybe this is what I'm going to have to do. Argh, nusance. Is all good though.

Thanks for input, guys.

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Jav, I tried something like this, and it works at first, and for a while, but It's kinda hard to keep, a lot of them start thinking you're not interested, then whinging about that. It's all this fucking assuming the reason you arent in a good mood, or the reason you havent been able to respond instantly to them is something to do with them. All this bullshit need of reassurance really sucks. I would tell them this, but then they go cry, and thats annoying too. Then they come back and apologise. Can't they just fix up and be normal, I found them really cool at first.


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Author:  expat_of_love [ Mon Dec 07, 2009 1:11 am ]
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I love needy girls. Pretty much every girl in Eastern Europe is needy. The men are for the most part jerks and society can be cruel to them. They are not raised as princesses or have boys chasing after them. Hence, they need affection and compassion. The opposite is what I have seen in America - Spoiled Bitch Syndrome. Broads who think they don't need men. Who think they can have it all. I prefer girls who are innocent, needy, beautiful, and respect me as a man. I am not made to neg. girls. In America/UK the neg is a must. A needy girl should never be negged.
Author:  kasabi [ Mon Dec 07, 2009 11:42 pm ]
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The ugly needy girl needs to be fucked. Period. She sees you fucking all the hot girls around you and she's thinking, "I'm ugly, ugly, ugly . . . I need attention, attention, attention." You need to fuck her.

Just put a virtual brown bag over her head for one night and go through the whole gig. She knows you're a fucking playboy. It's OK . . .she just wants to be validated as a woman. She needs to know that she's fuckable and she doesn't look like a hunchback to horny guys. After the "dirty deed", you go, "our friendship is too important to me. I am not ready for a relationship, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah."

She'll take 2 weeks to take some time off. (Industry standard)

Then she'll be back as a great friend . . .

Done . .
Author:  ~Finesse [ Tue Dec 08, 2009 4:06 am ]
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LOL@IndustryStandard!!!

But yes, of course she is getting plugged. Every chick is getting plugged. The purpose of this post however, is to find a way to get rid of there needy behaviour. Whilst keeping them as more than a friend. It's not neccessary, and probably wont play much part in my bigger goal. But it would still be useful to know.

I've had some useful responses to this question eslewhere however which have created plenty of new ideas and thoughts.

But its not always the case of an ugly girl, some of the girls, are very hot, but very sweet and innocent. And are not seeking validation of their looks. But rather, seeking something else, I know what it is, but unable to think of the correct term right now.

So yeah, the only advice im seeking on this is how to make them stop being needy, while keeping the attraction etc.

I have some very useful answers in a different forum, but stil havent found a full solution yet.

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