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| Author: | Johnny B. [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 11:15 pm ] |
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DEEP ATTRACTION GAME ( D. A. G ) Introduction: In order to create a deeper connection between you and your target, avoid shooting those everyday questions like; what do you study, where do you live, what do you do for living. These questions in it self doesent include any emotional value and there fore it doesent ” shock ” her in anyway ( it doesent wake up any strong feelings inside her ). Most of the answers to those previous questions are pretty much social facts. Some of them are even given without any input of hers ( for example her name ). But yes, these questions pretty much appear in every conversation and im not suggesting that ” dont ask her name ”. Im just saying that dont expect anyting special to happen if you do so because if you really want to stick out from the ground and create rapport/ comfort than your questions should be related to something that goes more deeper and makes her emotionally open. Something that moves something inside her which basically disturbes/ shakes her emotional day time ” mental balance ” and creates the crave of getting to know you better. When you go deeper ( for example to her childhood ) than what the modern society is constantly telegraphing through media ( the importance of your outer existance; your cloths, money and your over all wealth ) you are getting back to the root of the attraction which basically was formed in a long time ago before any of us could even speak. Yes, your money and wealth can make an impression but its not the key to the attraction. Its not ” absolute value ” which would always get you laid but can boost your game in certain circumstances. Attraction goes far deeper than what you can provide with your outer shallow surface. When you are interacting with a girl in a deeper level ( talking about her desires, her passions, her childhood, her perception concerning the perfect man, the way she sees the world, etc. ) at the same time you are forming a strong kongnitive bond between you and her ( kongitive bond= her emotions, feelings, vibe, idea and valuation concerning you and the bond between you ).While so, you are something fresh and new in her daily base interaction which not only make her feel exited but also brings up feelings into the surfice (= you are seperateing and reflecting the real attraction that is hard wired in our brains through evolution instead of the image that the media is sending you ). Its very hard/ impossible for you to satisfy her emotional needs in a long run through your outer glam and shoulndt be something to rely on when looking for a healthy relationship/ better succes rate. I believe these pointers are the keys among the others while building up attraction. Deep Attraction Game ( D. A. G ): ” Lets play a game ” ( You are being dominant. A group leader ) ” Give me you hands and close your eyes ” ( You are building kino, anchoring her up coming good feelings to your touch+ when she closes her eyes her other senses gets stronger. ) ”Good, imagine that its a warm summer day and you are walking on the street” ” Now, while you are walking, theres is a really hot guy coming toward you at the very same street.” ” The guy who you are seeing is the most hottest and attractive guy on earth ” ” Now, lets assume that you have the courage to stop him and ask 3 questions without any fear of rejection what so ever in order getting to know him as well as possible ” ” Ok ? ” ” Imagine those 3 questions in your mind and after that, open your eyes and tell me three perticular outer traits this ideal man of yours had. Not the 3 questions but the 3 physical traits he had( when you tell her to open her eyes, she will know at the same time that everything around her is still fine. Keeping her eyes shut in a long period of time may make her feel uncomfortable in a strange environment. Further more, after she has pictured her ideal man and opens her eyes she sees you. At the same time she is qualifying herself to you telling something that is related to her desires ! ) Her:” 1, 2, 3” ” Good, now close your eyes again for a moment and go back to your childhood where you met your big crush but were affraid to talk to him ” ” Are you imagining him? ” ” Good, now what was holdin you back instead of asking those 3 thing from him ? Her: ” blaa blaa ” ” Ok, now open your eyes ” She opens her eyes* ” Now, ask me the three questions you have always wanted to ask ” Conclusion/ benefits: 1) She is qualifying her self to you. She is telling what kind of man attracts him and everytime she opens her eyes she sees you. 2) You can use cold reading in this if you want. This game gives you tools to build up even more rapport/ comfort later on by benefitting the profits and knowledge you got from this. 3) You are dealing with the concepts of her childhood, love life and further more she is telling you what she finds attractive in a guy 4) You are pretty much anchoring her emotions toward you because you are switching places with the ideal man of hers 5) Her answers give you a good solid frame about what to ask later when you want to build up a stronger bond between you two [ Johnny B ] |
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| Author: | Guidosaurus Wrecks [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 12:54 pm ] |
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This needs a bump. I know Johnny spent alot of time working on it so im doing it for him. I know this is only to be used during mid game when you already have some attraction/comfort with the girl, but what if she asks "What is the point of this?" Ive been trying to think of a solution that when you ask her these questions, in the middle of asking she isn't going to blurt out "why!" All in all a very good stuff, it mixes allitle bit of everything and brings it into one routine. I like 
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| Author: | TheJ [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 1:36 pm ] |
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Yeah, it's a shame these post don't get the traffic they deserve. I read it and thought it was very good and well explained the first time around but didn't bother posting a "good post" post. Don't get discouraged Johnny! Keep on writting these awsome posts :) (and maybe link them in your signature?) |
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| Author: | Johnny B. [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 7:48 pm ] |
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Thanks for both of you. You just made my day alot better  [ Johnny B ] |
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| Author: | DirtyDreams [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 8:40 pm ] |
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Johnny, check ur private messages!! |
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| Author: | Slywalker [ Fri Dec 04, 2009 11:28 pm ] |
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Good post Johnny! I really like games like this and I'm gonna try this myself, it seems like a lot of fun! And I have already told you about my "spin-off" to this, I will make a post of that later, but I will credit the whole thing to you! Good shit Johnny!
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| Author: | Mind Hacker [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 2:24 am ] |
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Awesome post! Keep them coming Johnny! I'll field test this soon... |
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| Author: | Mind Hacker [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 2:05 pm ] |
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Well, I tried that last night. Girl played along, closed the eyes, and told me the best qualities in her perfect man were the eyes, the hair and the smile. She tried to open the eyes at the wrong moment and I told her "No! Keep your eyes closed!". Then after she opened her eyes and closed again for the second part it went ok too, but in the end when I told her to ask me the questions she always wanted to make she kind had a weirded out face and said "That's weird!" and followed with "I don't know if I would ask 3 questions...". I don't know I did it right or if it will have any result in the future. But I thought I should post it. |
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| Author: | Johnny B. [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 4:33 pm ] |
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Quote: Well, I tried that last night.
Thanks for your feedback Trying2bpuaGirl played along, closed the eyes, and told me the best qualities in her perfect man were the eyes, the hair and the smile. She tried to open the eyes at the wrong moment and I told her "No! Keep your eyes closed!". Then after she opened her eyes and closed again for the second part it went ok too, but in the end when I told her to ask me the questions she always wanted to make she kind had a weirded out face and said "That's weird!" and followed with "I don't know if I would ask 3 questions...". I don't know I did it right or if it will have any result in the future. But I thought I should post it. Ok, i wanna point few things out about what you did. The first thing is that she keeping her eyes shut aint whats the purpose behind the game. Its just a nice add to the game and pretty much indicates how much she has trust toward you ( IOT= Indicator of trust ). Like i said in my orginal post, keeping her eyes shut is something that can sharper her other senses ( I also indicated that keeping eyes closed a long period of time can make her uncomfortable ).. So if she opens her eyes at a wrong moment, dont panic. Its not what you are trying to benefit from the game. Instead, what you are really trying to achieve by useing this game is that she would be investing emotionally to you.. She is telling how she feels, what she finds attractive and pretty much shows that you care and listen what she has to say. Via this she should be able to trust you more in the future because you know more than just her name or what she does for living ( This is important when she is battleing in her mind whether she should have an ONS with you or not... Does she feel comfortable and safe enough to have sex with a stranger ) Pointer two. If you made her qualify her self to you in the stages 1 ( which was the phase where she would be qualifying her ideal man to you ) and 2 ( why she didnt ask those 3 questions from the guy she found attractive in her real life ), you allready have gained material what to use later on.. So basically even if she would come up with the anwser that " she actually wouldnt ask 3 questions in a real life", you still have made a deeper connection than what you would have achieved by asking something that doesent shock her in any way. Telling something that has real emotional value like those questions you asked from her aint as easy to anwser than what the guys normally do when they " try to create a connection " ( for example whats your favourite food, are you having fun, etc. ). So over all, what you need to understand is that you are just trying to make her open up to you more in a deeper level which actually has some proper value. When she is investing to you emotionally, at the same time you are building trust between you two due to the fact that you actually know something about her. This is kind of a " lock in " situation where the kongitive bond which ties you two together aint as easy to breake as it would be if you wouldnt have received any of her real interest/ emotions what she has deep in side of her. This is actually the reason why so may patients fall in love to their therapists. Its because they seem to be the persons who actually listen and care what they have to say. They are investing emotional value to a person who than anwsers back with compassion and understanding. I believe this term was called the " transference " [ Johnny B ] |
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| Author: | joc2009 [ Wed Jan 20, 2010 1:15 am ] |
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Great post. I understand that connecting with a girls emotions is vital to the game - is that building comfort rather than attraction or both? |
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| Author: | Cowboy_09 [ Wed Jan 20, 2010 1:39 am ] |
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Great post. Am really getting into speed comfort / seduction patterns at the moment and i think if used properly, at the right time, this could go down amazingly. Will field test and get back to you. Mostly doing daygame so will have to build decent comfort first. CB |
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| Author: | Nihro [ Wed Jan 20, 2010 3:06 am ] |
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Dude, I've run this routine twice this week. Holy crap it works really well. Great work! The thing I've been doing, at lease with women on day 2s or whatnot, is allowing them to run it on me after. Seems to make for a pretty awesome moment .
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| Author: | tret [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 1:17 am ] |
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im excited to use this in field |
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| Author: | Celestias [ Sun Feb 28, 2010 6:37 pm ] |
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Excellent! Very NLP-like. |
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