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| Author: | SandTiger™ [ Fri Sep 04, 2009 2:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 3 Day Rule Sucks! |
As an alpha male, take charge of the situation and call when you feel it is necessary regardless of the any stupid “3 day rule”. Just keep the conversation brief and straight to the point, 5-15 mins maximum. Ideally the conversation should be just be long enough to build attraction and set up a date, any idle chit chat is a waste of your time, save the chit chat for when you meet for the date. |
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| Author: | Jav [ Fri Sep 04, 2009 3:56 pm ] |
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Different people need different rules. |
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| Author: | Cock_roach [ Sun Sep 06, 2009 7:38 am ] |
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Right, but in order to reject 3 day rule you must earlier build more attraction with a chick. If the rapport was good, she will wait a bit more, but I prefer sticking to its rule. In some cases though, under particular circumstances, waiting longer or shorter could bring better results. |
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| Author: | Visionxxxxxx [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 8:12 am ] |
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i think youre spot on cock_roach the better your initial performance the longer she will wait ...if your initial encounter was poor and brief...she probably wont even remember you after 3 days so you would need to go in sooner. |
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| Author: | SandTiger™ [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 2:04 pm ] |
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All those rules you have heard about waiting three days before calling apply only if your game is weak and you need the 3 days to subcom un-neediness. The 3 day rule is bad advice for anybody who is actually working on the pickup skill set. |
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| Author: | pushkidman [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 2:51 pm ] |
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I agree. If a girl is at least a little attracted to me, I always call her the next day to continue gaming. The reason is, that after 3 days she might not really remember you (most probably because of a very social and outgoing life style + a lot of men approaching her) and you'll have to rebuild the attraction from the scratch. The 3-day rule is supposed to build-up anticipation, however, it never worked for me. |
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| Author: | Slywalker [ Wed Sep 09, 2009 8:37 am ] |
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3 day what?? I thought this was something AFCs used to try to play it cool, I always call the day after, and it has always worked great for me. My trick is to have a very brief call, preferably under 5min. Keep it fun, call with only one purpose, to see her again! make sure she get's that. Now if you got her number after a long time of flirting and talking to her, (maybe you know each other since before, or you just had several hours together when you met) then it is easy to keep the phone call brief. Just say you want to see her soon. If you just picked a number real quick from a girl off the street she might even forget you after 3 days. Just call her, say that it feel impersonal to talk on the phone and set up a date. If you talk to long on the phone the first time you may come off as desperate. First time I call a HB I usually do it while I'm doing something else so I have a good excuse to keep it brief. |
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| Author: | trackjunkie [ Wed Sep 09, 2009 9:01 am ] |
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personally i wait as long as possible, when i go out I either try to get as many numbers as possible or just one chick for the night, then I'll send a mass text to every number i got "hey, huge event at >>>tonight are you going to be there" Meet with one or two there or three, and it's perfect because they all came to see you. |
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| Author: | Gifted1ne [ Wed Sep 09, 2009 10:48 pm ] |
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Damn this sounds awful waiting till 3 days I had a girl ask for my number and we exchange with her saying you better call me and her friend saying I better take care of her. I didn't text her till a day after since I was spending time with my family because I went back home for labor day. I just think that its funny how people actually think about not texting or phone a girl till 3 days it just sounds like you guys are not busy and dont have a life. Gambler says always text or phone a girl after you get the number when you are busy the first time exactly what Slywalker is talking about. |
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| Author: | Seto [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 8:03 pm ] |
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Any time I've ever waited 3 days or more, the game usually ends up not working out as well (Lots more work). I usually call any numbers the next day or the day after. It shows interest and confidence in my opinion. |
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| Author: | pushkidman [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 8:50 am ] |
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I, however, believe 3 days rule is much better after day 1. It worked for me quite a few times. It usually worked for me along with another routine of mine I call 'Romantic acting'. I used to hug girl from behind or holding her by the hand and telling her some romantic stuff, that you can usually read in the books or see in hollywood movies (obviously overacting and making it look funny). The girl would usually text me within next 2 days asking smth like "Where are you gone? You ok there? I am still waiting for that star you promised to get for me from the sky" |
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| Author: | sequoia [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 4:49 pm ] |
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If Jesus waited three measly days to resurrect i'm sure you could wait three days to make a call. |
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