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Author:  Corey [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:37 am ]
Post subject:  The idea of virginity and preselection
I dont think what I'm gonna say is gonna help us virgins any but I find it to be the truth so here it goes:

Example: Notice how if you're at a bar (or God forbid a club) and you notice a guy with one or more girls he's probably gonna get more female attention seeing as it shows that women like him as compared to the single guy who comes in?

Brings me to my point, I really think those who are virgins are fucked (not in the good way, obviously) as compared to the non-virgins. Why I say this? Because the ones who've already fucked, well it shows that girls've been interested enough in him to fuck him, unlike the one who hasn't gotten laid which shows that no girl's really been interested that much. See my point?

So what are your ideas on this?
Author:  Turn Up the Night [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:38 am ]
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Fake it 'til you make it. These girls don't know you're a virgin, they're not mind readers.

Act like your succesful, read books on body language and use them to your advantage, then use the lessons you learn within and use them in the outside world.

How's she supposed to tell whether or not you've been fucked unless you're asked in which case you can probably get out of a sticky situation pretty fast as long as you're quick witted and remain comfortable.
Author:  870 [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 3:24 pm ]
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Want to know what all non-virgins have in common? They were once virgins :p

The issue of your virginity only matters as much as you let it matter. If you're all worried and stressed out about the fact you've never fucked, it creates a self-perpetuating cycle where girls aren't attracted because you're worried and stressed out, so you never fuck. The best thing you can do is just chill out and recognize that it's just not that big of a deal.

I guarantee once you're not a virgin anymore you'll say, "THAT was sex?! Jeez, talk about overrated ..."

Your boy,
870
Author:  Turn Up the Night [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 4:57 pm ]
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In fact there was a whole topic on it in 'Lay Reports' by a guy who was surprised at how underwhelming it was. :wink:
Author:  TX changeup [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 9:24 pm ]
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I guarantee once you're not a virgin anymore you'll say, "THAT was sex?! Jeez, talk about overrated ..."

Your boy,
870
Definitely not overrated lol, otherwise these forums wouldn't exist. But it really isn't a big deal, just act confident and think positively. Use what you have learned about pickup and social skills to your advantage and keep trying to lose that V-card!!
Author:  Corey [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 4:52 am ]
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I brought this up because my recent ex was weary about wanting to fuck me (which she didn't) because I'm a virgin and she brought up the attachment issues thing which is probably another reason why virgins dont have much a chance. However, you guys do bring up good points.
Author:  expat_of_love [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 5:06 am ]
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I guarantee once you're not a virgin anymore you'll say, "THAT was sex?! Jeez, talk about overrated ..."

Your boy,
870
Definitely not overrated lol, otherwise these forums wouldn't exist. But it really isn't a big deal, just act confident and think positively. Use what you have learned about pickup and social skills to your advantage and keep trying to lose that V-card!!

Well these forums and the PUA business exist because there are enough horny teenage boys out there who are virgins. Sex is one of the most overrated things on earth. Not that it is bad, but once you have had it and know you can get it you probably would rather watch a ball game or something. It is a whole different thing if you are really in love, but I don't think most on here have any idea what love is.
Author:  Turn Up the Night [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:03 am ]
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I brought this up because my recent ex was weary about wanting to fuck me (which she didn't) because I'm a virgin and she brought up the attachment issues thing which is probably another reason why virgins dont have much a chance. However, you guys do bring up good points.
Why did she have to know you were a virgin. If I were you, I would have slept with her first THEN told her.
Author:  -Achilles [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 6:40 pm ]
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In deed, fake it till u make it.

I'm a virgin, not for lack of opportunities.. I just dont wanna be a Don Juan, screwing anything that comes along and allows it. Also I stick to my religon, at least in that way.

but lets not talk about being a virgin or not. They dont even know me. If I get friends tomorrow and I introduce myself by saying "Hi I'm jhon. I'm a virgin and a level 87 shaolin in 9dragons, that MMOGRP, u know it?" they'll believe me. If I say "Hi I'm jhon, you guys know that awesome nightclub 'XXX'? I own it with my cousin.. tomorrow we can hang out I know the hottest girls" they'll also believe me (maybe it'll be a bit more difficult haha).


you can be ANYTHING (casanova - player - virgin - WWWBAFC) as long as u mezmerize urself with ur own fictional character. Convince urself that u are a badass mPUA - eventually you'll not be living a lie anymore.

THAT is inner game for me.
Author:  Corey [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 9:32 pm ]
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I brought this up because my recent ex was weary about wanting to fuck me (which she didn't) because I'm a virgin and she brought up the attachment issues thing which is probably another reason why virgins dont have much a chance. However, you guys do bring up good points.
Why did she have to know you were a virgin. If I were you, I would have slept with her first THEN told her.
Actually my friend told her and even if he didn't, it would've probably come up at some point and I'm not the dishonest type.
Author:  trackjunkie [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 9:35 am ]
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turn your mind set around..

you are the prize, and you haven't found a girl good enough to fuck..

if you fake it, believe me you'll just look like a d-bag.

You make the decision if youre going to have sex or not, not her.
Author:  JLaw45 [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:17 am ]
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Just based on my own(admittedly limited) experience, I think its best to keep the virginity thing under wraps around a hot girl. You might get lucky and find a hot girl who is a virgin(rare), but in the 95% chance that you don't, it could easily be a deal breaker. It certainly was with the last girl I tried to date, though admittedly she was kind of a hoe.
Author:  Jav [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 12:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The idea of virginity and preselection
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I dont think what I'm gonna say is gonna help us virgins any but I find it to be the truth so here it goes:

Example: Notice how if you're at a bar (or God forbid a club) and you notice a guy with one or more girls he's probably gonna get more female attention seeing as it shows that women like him as compared to the single guy who comes in?

Brings me to my point, I really think those who are virgins are fucked (not in the good way, obviously) as compared to the non-virgins. Why I say this? Because the ones who've already fucked, well it shows that girls've been interested enough in him to fuck him, unlike the one who hasn't gotten laid which shows that no girl's really been interested that much. See my point?

So what are your ideas on this?

limiting belief bro, with that mindset you'll stay a virgin forever. Unless you find some fat chick.





p.s.


You can say everything to chicks.
Author:  kasabi [ Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:23 am ]
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Not sure why this would even come up in a bar or club setting. What do you do? Stick a post-it on your announcing to everybody that you are either a virgin or a non-virgin?

Guys go out LOOKING to fuck, so I can see why this might be a big topic for you.

Girls want fun. . . they want adventure. Fucking might be part of the deal but more than a rod in a hole . . . they want FUN. Offer them fun . . . and you'll get your idea of fun in return.

Why fake what you don't even need to fake? This is like telling your teacher that your dog ate the homework that is due next week.
Author:  Waffle [ Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:59 am ]
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I must disagree... at least in my case. lol Usually no girl ever pegs me as a virgin, and even when they find out... the fresh meat glaze goes over their eyes. :)
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