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| Author: | Ezo [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 6:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Overcoming problems is the way to sarge, you know her cards |
Inspired by a thread about mixed sets and how you deal with them... I know many people here have had difficulties in their lives that make it hard to face a certain situation. I know that it is easier said than done to "just do it". I also know that many of us fear the unknown, fear the difficulties. Let me list some of the most common fears: 1. What if she tells me to go away when I open. 2. What if she finds me boring. 3. What if there is another guy in the group. 4. What if she is not alone. 5. What if she tells me that she has a boyfriend. 6. What if they all know each other and I come in as a stranger. 7. What if she realizes that I try to pick her up. 8. What if I get AMOGed. 9. What if she asks me to buy her a drink. 10. What if she negs me back. All these statements could be written with questionmarks but I just didnt. These fears are things that could potentially destroy your game, yes. They are things that may present a problem. What do we do with problems? We solve them. A decent PUA would realize that these problems are simply annoying things that we put a bit more effort into and they will go away. A good PUA welcomes these things because they are really opportunities to show his value. A very good PUA realize that the girl is telling him what she wants, not in all cases but in most. So these problems are opportunities, why? Because they give you golden moments to DHV without having to resort to routines, they are freebees! 1. What if she tells me to go away when I open. Eject in a good way and be really nice. You can now show to the rest of the sets that you are the more social savvy guy and man you just owned them. 2. What if she finds me boring. Almost all guys out there are boring, be playful, be different. Pass this difficulty and you have playfulness for free. 3. What if there is another guy in the group. 4. What if she is not alone. These two are more or less the same. If you think about it, the more people there are the better social skills you need. If you pass this difficulty you have social proof and leader of men for free. 5. What if she tells me that she has a boyfriend. So what, it is a shit test most likely. She is telling you, ok, you may want me just for sex and will be scared of by the bf crap. Will you apologize and back off? No, why would you do that? You are not just talking to her for the sex, you have to figure out who she is first. Pass this shittest and you have avoided to seem needy and you have passively demonstrated that you are not afraid of the competition from her BF. You just demonstrated leader of men. 6. What if they all know each other and I come in as a stranger. Again, survive and you have social proof and leader of men. Entertain and you have playfulness. 7. What if she realizes that I try to pick her up. So, you are a PUA, you admit it and you knowledge about human relations is more or less chick crack anyway. You admit to being a womanizer and by that also that you dont care what she thinks about it. You demonstrated preselection and leader of men. 8. What if I get AMOGed. You dont, a guy enters and you deal with it, leader of men again. 9. What if she asks me to buy her a drink. You dont, she will respect you for it. 10. What if she negs me back. This is useful, she tells you that she enjoys the challenge, you are strong enough to take it (if you pass) and interesting enough to waste time on. You can use this to get an our world conspiracy going, internal jokes, show dominance, build a connection, more or less anything. When she negs me back, I know that the game is on! So to sum it up. A shit test for me is not a bad thing. It is the way a girl communicates the things she is curious about. Most shittests can be related to an attraction switch, most likely dominance and leader of men. What she really says is: Hey you are interesting but in order for me to get with you I need to be sure that you have this quality, do you? And you say: Yes, I do. Simple as that. Different girls value different attraction switches differently. She is basically telling you what is important to her and how you should play the game. It is like a poker player showing his cards. She wants you to win! Ezo |
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| Author: | trixsta [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 8:26 pm ] |
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Great post Ezo; I am starting to see challenges as opportunities now without having to tell myself I do. |
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