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| Author: | VEE [ Fri Aug 03, 2007 9:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Masculinity attracts Femininity & vice versa |
Recently I’ve taken a simple approach. I’ve looked at men who are muscular and with higher testosterone levels. Now I’m the opposite of them because I’m skinny and barely work out, and nap all day until now. I’ve seen many cases where they attract women based on their looks. I’ve seen them do hardly any work and close while I’m left with fat girls checking me out. I know what you’re thinking right now. “Dude you don’t need money or looks! That’s just social conditioning. All you need is solid game!” And I understand but here me out. I think the community has over looked this confidence builder. I don’t believe it’s a confidence creator because looking at it in that frame makes us dependent on it and makes us only work on it to build our egos. I’m sure women will beg to differ though. “He’s so sexy!!” Anyway what I want to emphasize is that when a man works out his body he ends up attracting women. It’s like when a woman with double D cups goes by. We can’t help but stare and some AFC’s even become her orbiters. I’ve seen the same looks from women when I hang out with my ripped big bro and past experiences with my buff best friend in high school. The women I approach end up asking about them and glance frequently at my worked out male friends. Example: One night I was partying in my fraternity. Some girls come to the house. My big bro is talking to a group of people while I’m sitting and watching the beer pong game. This cute white girl who I’ve nicknamed as cat woman goes over to my big bro. He see’s her and introduces him self to her. She ends up telling him how cute he is. Long story…short…He gets the number and ends up fclosing a week later. Now some people would rationalize on a number of factors for his success such as his looks or the girl was just horny. Perhaps that might have been true but I know this guy and he can consistently pull woman into his reality. Here’s the next example: my HS friend who I’ve dubbed as J for privacy reasons. J and I were hanging out one day. (In HS I was still learning game, that time I was usually KJ) We walked past the girls and they stared his ass down. These women seriously looked at his body as a piece of meat. A couple days later they try to become “his friend”. They “bump” into him in a lunch line. They act “dumb” and ask him where things are located around school. The reason why I described these examples was because the attraction built by my friends was purely on physical attraction. It’s seems like more girls become lusty after big guys. (Its like we got boobs now and were shoving it in their faces! Muahhaha!) Now I know it is important to work on your game (social skills, mind and personality) but I think some of us have lost sight that we can also get women purely on our looks alone. Plus you get more try-outs from women when you work on your body and style. I’ve been so caught up on learning so much that I’m taking a break and now starting on my body. When I get a muscular body I’ll be sure to tell you my results and findings as a big guy. I’ll be using Anthony Ellis program and try to gain 30 pounds of muscle mass in 3 months. It’ so simple and I can’t believe I didn’t see it before. Nature has always shown us the way. The more masculine and manly you are the faster you attract really feminine women. |
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| Author: | diapente [ Fri Aug 03, 2007 11:56 pm ] |
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I don't really disagree with you, but I think you're looking at it from a *guy's* perspective and not a *girl's* perspective. I work out pretty religiously and have a decent body. I've had random girls grab my chest and what not while walking down the street - random girls saying "you're hot!" - but all this does really is get you a free opener. If you don't have any game, then it isn't going to get past this initial stage. Not saying that you shouldn't work out since it obviously has its benefits. I just think that the benefits aren't what you think they are. Strengthening your upper body affects your posture, which obviously improves your body language - which is good for attraction. Also, working out makes you feel better about your body type, which gives you confidence - confidence is also obviously necessary for attraction. What having a decent body is NOT going to do is get you from opener to fclose all by itself. That only works for girls. An attractive guy that has absolutely no game is only going to get laid by the lowest tier HBs, and not the high quality ones that we want. Masculinity is not about looks but inner game. I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's the fucking truth. |
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| Author: | VEE [ Sat Aug 04, 2007 12:13 am ] |
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my homey you assume to soon... thats why i said its a confidence builder not a creator. I already stress the importance of game. This post was an attempt to make skeptical puas who live on a strict game diet to think about working out. I didn't say it was a way out and you can fuck hella girls just on your looks. But hell it is possible...Women want sex if not more then men do. The looks just gets you prescreened and more of a choice if you know how to use it... i agree with you on masculinty coming from inner game...but i've studied testostrone and seen the behaviours that come with it. A guy with more testostrone is usually out doing something having to do with action... |
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| Author: | Riceforlife [ Sat Aug 04, 2007 10:14 am ] |
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There are many points on there that I agree with Vee, but some that I have to side with diapente. Im pretty set on working out as well, in fact i been working out on and off for about 2 years. This past month ive been going intense as shit because for me: Working out strengthens my inner game/confidence. Working out improves my attractiveness, without the need to spit any game whatsoever. Working out is my side hobby. All the smart puas know that you cant dedicate your life only to sarging. You must have other qualities. Body builder / education / sports all these can contribute. In fact, when we focus on these other hobbies, instead of focusing so much on sarging, thats when we have something to truly offer to women. So yes it is true that women are attracted to looks, but as diapente said, it will only take you so far. In order to fclose a girl, you must have game in order to take you from the opener to the fclose. From personal experience... I used to get random girls hitting on me before i knew about this community. Guess what bro? We would get as far as opener to transition, but as soon as she saw I had no game it was over. But yes, going to the gym will definetely improve your game by leaps and bounds. It will raise your confidence, your sex life, your attractiveness, etc. You will get girls to be more responsive to you when you open them if they see you as an attractive man. Bitch shields will be easier to break, and you dont even have to spit perfect game to fclose. Seriously, to all aspiring pua, please make working out a priority, dont sit on your lazy bum reading this shit all day. Do something else. |
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| Author: | Methuselah [ Sun Aug 05, 2007 7:24 pm ] |
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Obviously having a great body helps you. Having game is not just about your witty one-liners and social skills, its about the entire package. |
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| Author: | smokedoutabear [ Sun Aug 05, 2007 8:18 pm ] |
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Interesting... A good body is a benefit no doubt about it. Its a symbol of good health, good breed, and sometimes a symbol of power. All of which women find attractive in a mate. It wont hurt to have a good muscular body. Most of us know that girls can get incredibly turned on over a guys body. Stilll, having other attractive traits is sometimes necessary. Anyone ever seen the cartoon johnny bravo? Yea dont end up like that guy. |
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