I totally agree with you Dolf. Men have to realize that women want sex just as much as men do, and some even more.
But I also find that women have to justify what they do, especially when it comes to sex. No women wants to come off as a slut. There is a thought process going on in there. Where as a man can take one look at a women and know right away he would sleep with her.
Once the justification is there, women will go to great lengths to get what they want.
And if men can recognize the signs once the justification has been made, don't give in too easily, build some anticipation and escalate the sexual tension. Then you will really see what I mean by "they will go to great lengths to get what they want"
I'll tell you a story
I went to a party, and I was just being myself, confident, funny, just joking around with a bunch of friends i hadn't seen in a while. I wasn't running game on any of the females there apart from flirting because it's a second language to me, but i wasn't trying to meet anyone. Now all night i noticed that where ever i went this girl would follow, she was dating someone who was also at the party, so obviously i wasn't gonna try anything (yes i have morals). So i went home at the end of the night without thinking anything of it.
A couple of days later she added me to her msn, which i didn't give her. I added her and we chated that week and there was some obviouse flirting going on on her part. She later told me that she was intrested in me and wanted to hangout.But I kept telling her, that she had a boyfriend so i wouldn't hang out with her, and as long as she had a boyfriend it would remain that way. (i.e not giving in too easy)
She then started justifying why she shouldn't be with her boyfriend anymore, cause she wanted to hangout with me. And sure enough she broke up with him.
The day she broke up with him she sent me an msn message saying "it's over...i broke up with him", we talked for a bit then out of nowhere she asked me to come over for a hot tub.As much as I wanted to I couldn't give in or at least appear to give in, I replied I will come by but the hot tub would be trouble.
I went over and had a few classes of wine, i could read her body language like a book, she was also wearing a zip up sweater and as the night progressed the zipper just kept getting lower and lower. We started talking about sex and i was teasing her saying she was trying to get me drunk to seduce me cause I told her that we couldn't have sex. (still not giving in). After that was said she tried to seduce me with a message and once her hands went below the belt I pulled her hands away and said lets go back to the kitchen for more wine, she followed as I lend her to the kitchen, then as soon as we got there i turned around put my arms around her, and kissed her, it was on...i then led her to her bedroom..and you can guess the rest...I gave in
She later told me that she wanted to from the minute i got there but was unsure because of the fact she just ended a relationship, and by me not giving in and building the anticipation and sexual tension it made her want it more and make her justifications to sleep with me more valid.
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