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| Author: | Mech [ Tue Jul 31, 2007 10:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The after-effects of a f-close |
I met someone in june, f-closed after two days, and she got ahold of my email address. It's not important how, she has it now. She's sending me a 5-paragraph email more than once a week, and I feel obligated to reply to each one. I think she's trying to turn a one-night stand into a relationship, which I have no interest in doing (with her). It was a fling, we met while we were both on vacation, and now that we are both in our respective homes any relationship would be a long-distance thing. Can anyone suggest a polite/classy way to make it clear that I have no desire to be pen pals? Maybe it's too late to be classy with this one, but how, in the future, can I make sure that a HB doesn't try to turn a night together into a full-blown relationship? I'm a firm believer in mystery's "leave her better than you found her" concept, so simply telling her to back the fuck off is not an option. Thanks in advance. |
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| Author: | xLINKx [ Tue Jul 31, 2007 11:46 pm ] |
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"back the fuck off .... please?" Just kidding. Just tell her simply how you feel about it and be straightforward. There's no simple way to do it. |
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| Author: | Monkey [ Wed Aug 01, 2007 3:57 am ] |
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S. O. I. Make your intentions clear from the beginning. I don't know how many times I've been forced to re-post this very simple concept... |
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| Author: | veryEnglish87 [ Wed Aug 01, 2007 6:53 pm ] |
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Yep. SOIs!! And make sure your SOIs don't change after the f-close. If it was a ONS don't let her imagine afterwards that this has changed because of the fuck! |
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