is vastly underestimated IMO. You lead the men, you get the women because it's about as alpha as it gets I would think. I go out alone & much of my game has become walking around opening dudes & using them to spring board off of. It also just seems like you are the life of the party just being social with everyone.
Dudes are easy as hell to open too, as most are very beta's & especially if they see you open or even just have the balls to confidently speak to a girl before you open them. All you have to do is comment on how hot some girl is when you open & that pretty much will get you in a conversation with them & quickly disarm them because they know you aren't gay.
If you have a confident & fun bravado talking about women or they have seen you try, even if not successfully, most seem to latch on to me thinking IMO maybe I can help them get a women. I'll even offer to wing them if they need help distracting an obstacle after we chat a bit, although most pussy out or are to proud to ask me to open so I never have to put much work in. Most of these chodes have such poor body language all you have to be is very comfortable have great be non reactive look cool & lock in. Once they start reacting to you women in my experience really start noticing.
This weekend I specifically opened & made casual conversation with a guy that looked like a body builder. Probably had 70 lbs of muscle on me good looking guy, had a girl & buddy with him. Kind of guy that gets lots of attention from women but doesnt recognize body language. I just leaned back & conveyed I was the cooler of the the 2 of us while he made a scene & exaggeratedly laughed at my jokes, & I looked around & could see girls from all over checking me out.
Everywhere I looked I would see about 4 sets of eyes looking at me, but almost always out the corner of their eyes while they were standing or siting at angles away from me & they would quickly just dart their eyes away from me when I scanned by. Would be hard to catch if there is only one but when you see 3 or 4 at a time doing it in unison every where you look you know you are doing something right. Probably wouldn't have even noticed otherwise.
Most of these women I find make it very available for me to talk to them later by giving me long looks or even open me at some point later. The rest of the time many of these guys I meet will introduce me to girls they know I think sometimes to show they know "cool" guys, or I suspect some of those girls make them introduce them or just come over and say hey to that guy they know & pawn off them to get intro me to which makes it everything really easy. Lot of times I'll in turn say, this is a cool guy & pump him up giving him value to come off to the girl like Im the judge.
I walk into bars I have done this in a lot now and many times guys run over to me or slap me on the back when I walk by or wave at me or point at me as I walk by & it makes for a big scene that immediately pumps my state & gives me lots of social power in the bar. Everyone should practice game on getting just as good with guys too IMO.
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