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Author:  Fu$$ [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 7:17 pm ]
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Hello fellas, Im questioning myself at a huge point in all my social circle.

Is best to keep a great social circle, where you know a large group of people, but dont know them really well (my actual situation), or a small social circle, where you always hang out, with the same group of people?

Of course this question refers to the best way to get laid. So, whats the best choice: a great or a small social circle?

Fu$$
Author:  SexDrive [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 8:16 pm ]
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You probably want to have a balance between both.

A smaller, more comfortable social network is good. This is a place where you can be relaxed and yourself, whithout trying.

A larger circle is great for meeting new people and filling the empty slots. These circles will help to increase the amount of girls you meet, and ultimately lay.

What I like to do, is bring them both together. Take some of the close friends out, introduce them to a larger group. Take some new people you meet, bring them into your smaller circle. It also shows the girl(s) you are with that you can be comfortable, fun and exciting in all situations, combine that with your seduction skills, and bam!

This also makes you the focal point of every group because YOU brought them together. Its not you going with your friends or larger circle, you bring them together, you run the show.
Author:  tutankamon [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 8:57 pm ]
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your social circle is never good enought and big enought.....constantly improve it...get rid of the dead wood and add better people.
I take it as a life process that never stops.
Author:  Ezo [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 9:23 pm ]
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I have a few selected friends who are the core of my being, the ones I really care for and really would do anything for.

Then there are the ones that are quite important, the ones who havent gotten into the core yet, my inner circle.

And then, the loose contacts, the ones you meet occationally and are happy to meet. The ones that you can drink with, have fun with but sometimes have to fake remembering their names...
Author:  Fu$$ [ Fri Jun 26, 2009 8:42 pm ]
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Nice guys, good points. Thanks.

Fu$$
Author:  Pepsi [ Sat Jun 27, 2009 5:41 am ]
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I have a few selected friends who are the core of my being, the ones I really care for and really would do anything for.

Then there are the ones that are quite important, the ones who havent gotten into the core yet, my inner circle.

And then, the loose contacts, the ones you meet occationally and are happy to meet. The ones that you can drink with, have fun with but sometimes have to fake remembering their names...
Me too. A medium and semi-personal circle is good in all regards. But I have a small group of people I wouldn't even call a social circle; I would just call them friends :). I think that's important to remember.
Author:  tutankamon [ Sat Jun 27, 2009 8:32 pm ]
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once i read a great statement regarding your social circle.

take a piece of paper...put down 7 names of the people who you hang out mostly in your life or talk to mostly ....your core social circle

and that lust us your future. :)

so i change it all the time. The 7th name always ready to be replaced.
Author:  Fu$$ [ Sat Jun 27, 2009 8:37 pm ]
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Good one, but what about me, that study in a college since one year ago, 200 km far away from my best friends. Im building a new social circle.

Thanks

Fu$$
Author:  Ezo [ Sun Jun 28, 2009 12:11 am ]
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I see what youre getting at. I have moved around quite a lot and also started new social circles all over the world and I think that I might be able to help you out.

You are approaching it as if it would be something you plan. Just try to get along with the people you meet, you PU skills should make this easier. Befriend everyone you find interesting, guys, girls, anyone. This is your "connections pool".
From that you can try hanging out with a couple of the ones you like most, the more time you spend on them the better you will get to know them. Some you might like and others not. But still you know them, they will become your "inner circle". The ones that you do get along with from the inner circle becomes your core friends.

Basically, meet as many new people as you can, eventually you will find people you really like and wanna have in your life. And you practice social skills and build up a good network and social proof as you do it. And dont be afraid to dump people who hold you back...
Author:  Fu$$ [ Sun Jun 28, 2009 6:43 am ]
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Thanks Ezo for the reply.

Could you set a good example of how you started a new social circle?

Fu$$
Author:  Ezo [ Sun Jun 28, 2009 11:06 am ]
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I started out by being generally fun around where I work, started hanging out with these people and their friends... Plus, I went out to a few bars and had some fun. One example, I did not show any interest at all, this way I was safe even when her BF showed up, I made him my friend and number closed both of them. So the target became the way into a new social circle.
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