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Author:  Constantine00 [ Sun May 24, 2009 4:29 am ]
Post subject:  Aww man, I think I fucked up...

Ok there is this amazing hb10 that I'm friends with but I've wanted to bang her BAD for so long. Tonight there was a text exchange and here's how it went
hb:hi are you alive?
me: no
me:so what is my fav lil brat up to tonight haha
hb: I figured haha...i'm going to monica's
me:word
hb:what is my fav asshole up to tonight?
me: you have a pottymouth lil girl n i think you need to be spanked! lol probably nothing. I'm broke and I need sleep.
so then there is a pause for a minute and she texts me back
hb: talk dirty to me
Man, that caught me off guard for real. I didn't know if she was serious or joking around so i texted back
me: Haha! This is the last weekend I'll have to be broke...
Well, now she hasn't texted me since (that was like 2hrs ago) so does that mean she WAS serious when she said "talk to me dirty"? I would think so but I can't say for sure. We're close friends but I've never been able to tell if she wants to be more. I could've played it out for a while but I was stunned. Did I fuck up and if so how can I fix it? Thanks

Author:  Roy Hobbs [ Sun May 24, 2009 8:25 pm ]
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Whether she was serious or not, you shouldn't enter her frame. You also shouldn't ignore what she said in this situation.

HB: Talk dirty to me.
PUA: I don't do favors. Earn it.

Really, she probably hasn't replied yet because she feels like an idiot for saying it now that you blew off what she said. However, you run the risk of her not wanting to say stuff like this again, in fear that you'll ignore it again.

-Roy

Author:  Constantine00 [ Sun May 24, 2009 9:51 pm ]
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Whether she was serious or not, you shouldn't enter her frame. You also shouldn't ignore what she said in this situation.

HB: Talk dirty to me.
PUA: I don't do favors. Earn it.

Really, she probably hasn't replied yet because she feels like an idiot for saying it now that you blew off what she said. However, you run the risk of her not wanting to say stuff like this again, in fear that you'll ignore it again.

-Roy
I know man...I was going to reply with "I dunno, you're such a nice girl" and maybe "I don't know if I want to pervert you with my depraved mind" or something but I DID ignore what she said and I KNOW that I shouldn't have ignored it but stupidly I did so what do I do now?

Author:  Aprilyapalovera [ Mon May 25, 2009 7:26 pm ]
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text her back!
Yes I want to talk dirty to you :) (with smile symbol)
sorry i was not able ect... (make alibi)
if she wont reply, text her back again
Just Kidding ect...(open with a nice topic)

I'm not an expert but i know it will work.
Its up to you whether u try it or not..

Author:  Antithesis [ Tue May 26, 2009 12:18 pm ]
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Quote:
text her back!
Yes I want to talk dirty to you :) (with smile symbol)
sorry i was not able ect... (make alibi)
if she wont reply, text her back again
Just Kidding ect...(open with a nice topic)

I'm not an expert but i know it will work.
Its up to you whether u try it or not..
Naw, the window of opportunity has passed. A reply like that after the fact will make him seem desperate. You've already potentially bruised her feelings. Give it a few days and send her another text.

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