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Author:  Flexx6 [ Sun Apr 26, 2009 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  how to handle my situation???!!?!
ok so my situation is as follows

i met this girl and ive been texting her lately and talking to her the usual i feel like shes into me cuz of the way we conversate and how she kept saying she wants to hang out and stuff so im like ok yeah thats good....so we decided we kinda decided a day to hang out cuz a party was getting cancelled so im like are u free that day? and shes like yeah we can hang out you could bring some people and i can bring some people

i was hoping to hang out just with her but idk wat should i do in this situation? i mean i can still talk with her and stuff like that when were hanging out ill just need to isolate her and get her away from her friends or the group w/e and with me[/i][/u]
Author:  callmecaptain [ Mon Apr 27, 2009 3:46 am ]
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Hey man.

I wouldn't ask her "are you free tonight". I'd just give a command in a text.

something like "hey my buddies and I are going out tonight. Come meet us!"

Then later you can say they flaked. Something like "well buddies got too drunk to go out. I guess you can entertain me."

Obviously this is a cocky funny thing to say. Just work with it from there.
Author:  half_natural [ Mon Apr 27, 2009 4:32 am ]
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There's a line in Seinfeld:

"Why play man to man when you can play a zone?"

In my experience, it is probably easier to do a lot of pickup stuff if you start off as part of a group then go to isolation, than if you start with isolation. Great way to demonstrate your Alpha-ness and get her really into you.

Just because she comes with friends doesn't mean she's going home with them.
Author:  Flexx6 [ Mon Apr 27, 2009 10:28 am ]
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very true i totally get wat ur saying...thanks alot guys : )
Author:  Reo [ Mon Apr 27, 2009 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle my situation???!!?!
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so im like are u free that day? and shes like yeah we can hang out you could bring some people and i can bring some people
Don't fall for her Trap!! Its a female safety shield which does not benefit you at all

Anytime a girl wants you hang out with her and her friends its not going to go well for you. She's putting you on stage for all her cock blocking friends to form all sorts of opinions of you and then feed it back to her which will cause her to second guess you and see as someone she doesn't want to have sex with. You'll be out all night from 10pm til 3am trying to look cool in front of her friends and she's not going to leave them to go home and have sex with you.

Now Lets say you bring your boys and meet her girls then you got a major problem.
You're faced with her girls not liking your boys(for whatever reason, which will cause the girls and your target to suddenly need to leave or take a defensive position). Or the judgement call has been made your a complete douche bag, but your target thinks your friend Greg is Sexy next thing you know drunk Greg is making out with your drunk target(I have witnessed this in real life lol). Cock blocking from both sides insues. I can go on with the list of problems you'll be facing.

Meet the girl on your terms one on one or not all.

Only time you should be meeting her group of friends is after you've had sex with her.
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