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| Author: | xfman [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 1:53 am ] |
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<font size="4">BE SOCIAL</font></u></b></p> <p> </p> <p>By XFMAN</p> <p> </p> <p align="center"> <img src="http://www.tribute.ca/tribute_objects/i ... lfie23.jpg" width="361" height="238"></p><p><br></p> <p>Imagine yourself entering a big party; you can see all the interactions going on as you look around... </p> <p> </p> <p>You have three guys walking around checking out girls, you have a group of girls talking in a corner, some girls dancing, guys in the bar, some couples sitting down and a bunch of people in the dancefloor. <br></p><p><br></p> <p>Since the first moment you appear in that door, people checked you out. The girls dancing, the group of girls talking also checked you out, but probably you didn't realize this. <br></p><p><br></p> <p>Every time you go out and enter a venue all the persons will check you out is a common reaction (it has to do with feeling secure of who is coming in and who is around). You can walk around and check who is in there; you can follow these guys around and check all the girls in the place. What should I do? <br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p> <p>First of all to have a great party day you should have the mood, you should feel the vibe every time you enter a venue where you know you will be checked and you should know that every time you go out is a chance to change your life completely.</p><p><br></p> <p>Really think about it you are going to a place that can change your life forever, you could met the love of your life, the best girlfriend, the best lay, the best night out ever... I think going out is like going to VEGAS, but at least here you don't lose anything... and you have more control of the outcome. <br></p><p><br></p> <p>When you go in... you know it, you can feel it, the energy goes from your toes to your head, the blood rushes through your body and your heart starts to beat faster ... Do you know what to do next?</p><p><br></p> <p>I will invite you to the mind of a woman for a short time so you can understand what's going on.</p><p><br></p><p align="center"><img src="http://www.tribute.ca/tribute_objects/i ... lfie12.jpg" width="241" height="261"><br></p><p><br></p> <p>Women go out to have fun with their friends, go dancing and maybe find a cute sober guy and have a nice chat (or maybe more, but she doesn't think like we do ("Let's go out and get some girls, so we can ... f..."). She will go out and dress to feel sexy and impress other girls, she will go out and check every other woman in the place to see how they dress and of course she will look around for a cute guy. <br></p><p><br></p> <p>Suddenly she looks around and finds a decent guy with his shoulders back, well dressed walking in with a SMILE, he slowly walks (alone) but after 5 seconds he turns around to a group of girls and starts talking to them. She thinks that he might be with those girls and either he is going out with one of those girls or he is a really good friend (or maybe gay... you never know), anyway she, at these point, know three good things about this guy. </p><p><br></p><p align="center"><img src="http://bp3.blogger.com/_6Kz8MMIeVKQ/RjQ ... 04jan2.jpg" width="235" height="292"><br></p><p><br></p> <p><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style=""><font size="1"> </font></span></span>He is a confident guy (he is smiling and has good body language.)</p> <p><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style=""><font size="1"> </font></span></span>He seems social and happy (and not drunk, BELIEVE IT or not they do care.)</p> <p><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style=""><font size="1"> </font></span></span>His social value is above average (EVEN that he was ALONE now he is talking with some girls.) <br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p> <p>She realized all that things by looking at you for 5 seconds... now she is back to her chat with her friends.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p> <p>Now you can understand what you should do every time you enter any venue:</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p align="center"><img src="http://www.tribute.ca/tribute_objects/i ... alfie1.jpg" width="284" height="190"><br></p><p><br></p> <p><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style=""><font size="1"> </font></span></span>SMILE</p> <p><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style=""><font size="1"> </font></span></span>Feel like you are in VEGAS and you want to have fun</p> <p><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style=""><font size="1"> </font></span></span>Imagine all the possibilities the night has for you... It's in your hands!!!</p> <p><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style=""><font size="1"> </font></span></span>Stand up straight, chest out and good body language (Hold eye contact)</p> <p><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style=""><font size="1"> </font></span></span>Open a set as you go in (even if you aren't alone), it doesn't matter if they are good looking or even guys... but BE SOCIAL, and you will have more chances of getting that girl.<br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p> <p>This is the first part of these week tips on been social... <br></p><p><br></p> <p>SUCCESS,</p><p><br></p> <p>FOR YOU,</p><p><br></p> <p>XFMAN.</p> - > Sorry for the weird format... Source: www.thepualife.com |
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| Author: | simondigital [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 4:36 am ] |
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Awesome post man... It made me realize that more often than not I'm going out without the mentality that I have to live tonight like its my last. It's funny; those two words 'be social' have been, either directly or in my subconscious, constantly bumbing around and crowding my mind for the past few years, ever since I decided to stop being so introverted and to grow a pair. I've definetly come a loooong way since then, but haven't reached my destination. I like how you put pictures of Jude Law; I know its not from the movie Alfie, but man his charisma in that movie is perfect. Ya, and you nailed the mentality of a typical good looking girl. |
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| Author: | simondigital [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 2:25 pm ] |
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Awesome post man... It made me realize that more often than not I'm going out without the mentality that I have to live tonight like its my last. It's funny; those two words 'be social' have been, either directly or in my subconscious, constantly bumbing around and crowding my mind for the past few years, ever since I decided to stop being so introverted and to grow a pair. I've definetly come a loooong way since then, but haven't reached my destination. I like how you put pictures of Jude Law; I know its not from the movie Alfie, but man his charisma in that movie is perfect. Ya, and you nailed the mentality of a typical good looking girl. |
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| Author: | expat_of_love [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 9:30 pm ] |
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Just be you. Hardest thing to do. |
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| Author: | mike22 [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 10:54 pm ] |
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I liked that post |
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| Author: | Sixady [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 12:58 am ] |
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nice post |
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