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Ok last week I got invited to go to an 18th that was on last night, I asked my GF (been with her 3 weeks) and she wanted to come so I made the effort to get her invited, we went into town the other night to find something for her to wear, then went back to hers and had a cuddle on the bed blah blah blah whatever, anyway to cut a long story short I was texting her friday night and told her that I would text her the next day once I'd finished doing things I needed to do. So I did about 5 PM and the party starts at 19.30, and I said "I dont feel so good today" she said "Im ill just been sick" so i said "ah well if your ill its not such a good idea we go" she claimed she was feeling better after she'd been sick. So I told her we'd go and if she didnt feel well then we'd go back to mine. She didnt text back, so it got round to about 18.45 and I decided to ring her, she picked up the phone and sounded ill so I said if your ill lets leave it for tonight, then said do you fancy coming to mine.. my parents are out.. she said "ring me in an hour"

well Im annoyed at the fact I had to ring her and find out whether she was coming or not.. and it was left to the last min.. I felt pretty let down and then she tells me to ring her in an hour..

In the end I didnt bother.. im not chasing her, i got some mates over and we had a laugh in the end. But still how should I handle this? Im currently not texting her till she texts me.. but I want to nip this in the bud before it gets more frequent if you catch my drift.

Cheers lads

Author:	Luca_J [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 8:48 am ]
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Ok last week I got invited to go to an 18th that was on last night, I asked my GF (been with her 3 weeks) and she wanted to come so I made the effort to get her invited, we went into town the other night to find something for her to wear, then went back to hers and had a cuddle on the bed blah blah blah whatever, anyway to cut a long story short I was texting her friday night and told her that I would text her the next day once I'd finished doing things I needed to do. So I did about 5 PM and the party starts at 19.30, and I said "I dont feel so good today" she said "Im ill just been sick" so i said "ah well if your ill its not such a good idea we go" she claimed she was feeling better after she'd been sick. So I told her we'd go and if she didnt feel well then we'd go back to mine. She didnt text back, so it got round to about 18.45 and I decided to ring her, she picked up the phone and sounded ill so I said if your ill lets leave it for tonight, then said do you fancy coming to mine.. my parents are out.. she said "ring me in an hour" well Im annoyed at the fact I had to ring her and find out whether she was coming or not.. and it was left to the last min.. I felt pretty let down and then she tells me to ring her in an hour.. In the end I didnt bother.. im not chasing her, i got some mates over and we had a laugh in the end. But still how should I handle this? Im currently not texting her till she texts me.. but I want to nip this in the bud before it gets more frequent if you catch my drift. Cheers lads

Author:	Cocaine Bell [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 10:41 am ]
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Quote: Ok last week I got invited to go to an 18th that was on last night, I asked my GF (been with her 3 weeks) and she wanted to come so I made the effort to get her invited, we went into town the other night to find something for her to wear, then went back to hers and had a cuddle on the bed blah blah blah whatever, anyway to cut a long story short I was texting her friday night and told her that I would text her the next day once I'd finished doing things I needed to do. So I did about 5 PM and the party starts at 19.30, and I said "I dont feel so good today" she said "Im ill just been sick" so i said "ah well if your ill its not such a good idea we go" she claimed she was feeling better after she'd been sick. So I told her we'd go and if she didnt feel well then we'd go back to mine. She didnt text back, so it got round to about 18.45 and I decided to ring her, she picked up the phone and sounded ill so I said if your ill lets leave it for tonight, then said do you fancy coming to mine.. my parents are out.. she said "ring me in an hour" well Im annoyed at the fact I had to ring her and find out whether she was coming or not.. and it was left to the last min.. I felt pretty let down and then she tells me to ring her in an hour.. In the end I didnt bother.. im not chasing her, i got some mates over and we had a laugh in the end. But still how should I handle this? Im currently not texting her till she texts me.. but I want to nip this in the bud before it gets more frequent if you catch my drift. Cheers lads Your military. 18.45. 19.30. Open your options. Go out. Dance. Have fun without her. Forget her. Remember her. Kiss other girls. Call her. Laugh alot. reduce stress. Tell her how you feel. Tell her nothing. Play hard to get. Let her win you over. Dance with friends. You need more options. Build a social life. Game On.

Author:	Luca_J [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 11:55 am ]
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This hasnt really answered my question. But thanks anyways Should I call her today? Ask her how shes feeling? Anyone else?

Author:	Luca_J [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 5:08 pm ]
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Anyone?

Author:	tyhj [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 5:30 pm ]
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its kind of confusing bro

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Author:	870 [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 5:47 pm ]
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Quote: well Im annoyed at the fact I had to ring her and find out whether she was coming or not.. and it was left to the last min.. I felt pretty let down and then she tells me to ring her in an hour.. In the end I didnt bother.. im not chasing her, i got some mates over and we had a laugh in the end. But still how should I handle this? Im currently not texting her till she texts me.. but I want to nip this in the bud before it gets more frequent if you catch my drift. Stop playing these stupid head-games with her where you feel like you need "power" or "control" in the relationship. This isn't just some random chick you're fucking, this is your girlfriend we're talking about. There's nothing stopping you from saying, "Hey, I realize you're feeling bad but you've been acting a little weird lately. What's up?" Maybe she'll say nothing. Maybe you'll find out exactly how she's feeling. Maybe you guys will break up. Maybe you'll become closer than ever. That's the beauty of communication: it creates possibilities for growth, both in yourself and your relationships. Your boy, 870

Author:	R.G. [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 6:06 pm ]
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^Couldn't have said it better. My boy, 870.

Author:	Luca_J [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 8:42 pm ]
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yeahh thanks 870.. ive gotta stop seeing this as a game...

Author:	Reo [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 9:24 pm ]
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I've seen a few of your postly recent and they're all noob quality there is a newbie section for these type of questions find it. You let the simplest stuff piss you off, stop getting so over-emotional over complete nonsense

Author:	Luca_J [ Sun Mar 29, 2009 9:45 pm ]
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Reo if you was in my position I'm sure you wouldnt be able to deal with it in the way you claim to be so cool about. If a girl let you down like this you'd flip im sure.

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