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Author:  l0ck [ Wed Mar 18, 2009 11:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Cougar help..

Alright sat night I met a hb9 cougar and number closed perfectly. While we were in set she said she had a son in college but didnt want to tell me how old he was at first. She then told me he is the same exact age as myself (25). I have followed up with her and the convo and rapport building has been great. My only issue I can see is that if I try to make plans or kiss close she might say its weird because I am her son's same age. How am I gonna get over this age difference thing in her head?

Author:  JSmooth [ Wed Mar 18, 2009 11:16 pm ]
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Alright sat night I met a hb9 cougar and number closed perfectly. While we were in set she said she had a son in college but didnt want to tell me how old he was at first. She then told me he is the same exact age as myself (25). I have followed up with her and the convo and rapport building has been great. My only issue I can see is that if I try to make plans or kiss close she might say its weird because I am her son's same age. How am I gonna get over this age difference thing in her head?
You have to qualify that age is just a number, and also convey that you've had older girlfriends as well. This will help her feel more comfortable with the idea, but there is nothing you can really do about her son's age. She knows it won't be a 'realationship' and you can convey that too, it's just for 'fun' or sex. Keeping it sexual keeps it away from being too friendly.

Good luck on this one but if you ask her too many more times I'd probably give it up.

Author:  l0ck [ Wed Mar 18, 2009 11:20 pm ]
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great advice, thanks smooth

Author:  JSmooth [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 12:00 am ]
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great advice, thanks smooth
You're welcome.

Author:  kingcarmelo [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:41 pm ]
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When a cougar is always saying "your too young" etc she is just trying to convince herself that you are when deep down she wants u. It's the same when you need to go to ur friends for their approval or to reassure yourself of something, you just need to hear others say it's ok and back you in. However the cougar cannot do this , so she questions herself.

Personally when i get the "your too young" line I look to respond with the following; "I've heard that from women before, funny thing is I still wake up next to them in the morning"

Author:  l0ck [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:20 pm ]
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Not bad at all man, I like the cocky funny

Author:  regulus [ Fri Mar 20, 2009 9:20 pm ]
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:wink: perfect reply.

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