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Author:  PUAdave [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 8:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Making a girl Nervous: Nervous good or Nervous bad?
Not sure really how to read it.

Good friends with a HB9.5 who before I got in the game thought I would never have a shot with … 2 weeks ago she broke up with her BF & my AFC bud already went after her, with no luck. Her best friend said she thought “she was more into me” than the AFC dude, & has asked me twice what I thought about her, like IMO she was gathering info. I played cool & said she was attractive but like my little sister not to give much away cause I know it would get back to her & land me in with the chump.

Anyway, I did a couple little push pulls lines on her & I’m pretty sure I caught her checking me out twice, so I figured it was on so I let her bust me a couple times checking her out & went in to some heavy teasing push pull routines.

Now this girl had been 100% comfortable to me, & I have never seen her nervous around a guy, infact she tools the hell out of most chumps for attention which I never let her me. After I started teasing & had busted her checking me out & returned it, she couldn’t even make eye contact when I talked to her & got really nervous & quite around me.

Now I want to take that as a very good sign I got something going in her since I had never seen her like that, but I guess there is a chance I creeped her out too. Also if you think there is attraction is there enough in your opinion to try to esculate it. The plan is to never tell her just kino & go for a make out. Then again if she shuts down like last week it wont be easy.
Author:  R.G. [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 10:41 am ]
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Yeah she likes you man. If you're not sure you should always assume so anyway. Just go for it. Isolate, escalate and go for it.

The worst thing you can do right now is wait it out or pussy out like an AFC. Be the man, lead and escalate. Set up a date if necessary. You should do this before her feelings take a turn. It's all in the bag.

Happy sarging!
Author:  IcemanPUA [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:06 pm ]
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I agree with the above poster. She's DTF, Just hang out one on one and start escalating ;)
Author:  Dr. Gruuve [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 3:01 pm ]
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I agree with the above poster. She's DTF, Just hang out one on one and start escalating ;)
What's DTF mean?

Gruuve
Author:  PUAdave [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 8:55 pm ]
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I think it means "Down to fuck", & interestingly I think she was just that this weekend. We went to get some beer she was like "are you crashing at Jessica's house, I need a couch buddy". We normally hang out there & have passed out on the couches before but she almost always has a ride if she wants it. Unfortunatly she had been up very early & got tired & left the bar early. See how it goes next week.
Author:  Sardonyx [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 9:43 pm ]
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DTF = Down To Fuck

Why the hell didn't you leave the bar with her?? Prime opportunity there. Also, if you're out in a group situation, just isolate her to a dark corner of the bar and start making out with her. Once you get the kiss out of the way, it will be less awkward to escalate going forward. Right now, that damn kiss is just hanging over your heads like a weight waiting to drop. Be the alpha male, and get it done!
Author:  PUAdave [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 12:55 am ]
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Fuck me! No doubt she was DTF now. Infact her best friend texted me & told me she fucked her ex-BF today that she just broke up with because she was so horny. :x

I'm re framing this as positive though because I have no doubt she is into me & will fuck me at this point. I still had a lot of doubt prior to if it was in my head & was worried about making the friendship weird if I was wrong & even being expelled from the group like the other guy because she is one of my best friends & has been excellent, excellent social proof for my game. Fuck all that though if it doesn't work out, this was probably the best turn of events though.
Author:  PUAdave [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 2:14 am ]
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DTF = Down To Fuck
Why the hell didn't you leave the bar with her?? Prime opportunity there. Also, if you're out in a group situation, just isolate her to a dark corner of the bar and start making out with her. Once you get the kiss out of the way, it will be less awkward to escalate going forward. Right now, that damn kiss is just hanging over your heads like a weight waiting to drop. Be the alpha male, and get it done!
Keep in mind I have been working out of the friendzone because she had a BF until recently even though I was never LJBF-ed. Still wasn't totally sure & hated risking a best friend & my best social proof until I was.

I constantly disqualify her, but recently after she broke up started implanting mixed messages, push/pull like

"you're hot, to bad you are like my little sister"

"to bad we could never work out, you got anymore friends to set me up with"

stuff like that. More recently I have been at the bar & stopped talking to her mid sentence to open other sets (which as hot as she is worked great) on purpose to create a jealousy plotline. Trying to create the image I was the prize. That's the stuff that got me to that point IMO. AFC friend is better looking & poured his feelings out there, & got no where, even though she had kissed him long ago back before she knew he was a needy chump.

Probably overthinking it at this point though . When she asked me to to be her "couch buddy" I even said "nahh, I want to sleep on my on bed, you should ask the AFCfriend" ,but I had full intentions to end up there.

Things were going well, but we were at the bar she just all of a sudden got really tired & kind of shut down, which was understandable because she had driven back early from her home hours away from spring break.

I asked her before she left the bar if she was still crashing at the friends house, but I fucked up because I didn't relize another guy in our friend group was standing there "& she was like no I'm driving home when I get back".

I felt like it was to needy at that point to leave, & the shit just needed to happen with no pressure, & the mood was killed. I even got up & opened a set in front of her hoping it would get her woke up & fired up, but that just made her leave. I thought I played it right, but I wish I knew then what I know now.
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