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| Author: | wisconsinman [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | I don't know where i went wrong... |
Whatsup guys, ive been active in the community for about 3-4 months and at first it was going great, just when I started I kiss closed/makeout session with a girl and then a few other minor kiss closes but nothing serious and I feel like shit got worse. Now I feel depressed like I have no friends, or no social life. I don't know whats wrong with me, but I feel like if my game was better I could get some girls and id feel better, but im even failing in that area too. |
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| Author: | Pool Shark [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:21 am ] |
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From the looks of it your doing fine. This isn't going to happen over night. It's easy to stick to this stuff when every thing is going fine, it's when shit gets hard that you have to tough it out and decide if this is what you really want to do. If it is then just keep going and push through the hard parts cause there's going to be good after that |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 1:11 am ] |
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some people are having these problems...negativity can mess up your entire game try fixing parts of your life you haven't been focusing on. Or do something to dramatically change your lifestyle and bring positive vibes back into your life. |
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| Author: | l0ck [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 1:36 am ] |
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sometimes its a rollercoaster man, ups and downs.... just keep at it and never give up |
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| Author: | daggaz [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 7:53 am ] |
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sounds to me like you are going thru a minor depression, which has nothing really to do with how hot your game is. Why do you feel like you have no friends? Either you have them, or you dont. Lots of times, people "feel" like they don't, because the friends they do have aren't going out of their way to call them up and hook up all the time. Well I will break it to you. Your friends have lives as well, and just because you are their friend, doesn't mean you are at the center of their life. If you feel like you are being "left out" somewhat, it is entirely up to you to get yourself included. Call them up. Go out of your way to hook up. Start parties yourself. Doing this will not only result in you getting feelings of acceptance from your friends, but it will also end with you being thought of more often, so you do start getting called up in reciprocation. Thats just how people work. Sit around in your basement moping to yourself, and that is exactly where you will stay. As well, there is a pretty high chance that your feelings are shared to one extent or another by at least some of your other friends, so by doing this, you are helping them out as well. Your feelings of social inadequacy will evaporate once you take care of the friends issue. And it is important to do this. Inner game, your frame, your internal happiness level, this is what your entire game rests upon. It is the very foundation of whether or not you will score, so it is of profound importance that you clear this shit up with yourself first. If you dont, even if you score some hot chick one night, you will ultimately feel worse about yourself because of her. Remember, its not about the girls we bed, its about how happy we are about ourselves while doing it. |
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