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Author:  Luca_J [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 10:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Why does she never text or call if I ask her?
Guys ;) Wondering if you can clear up a curiousity of mine..

I've been seeing this girl a while, we enjoy each others company and she acts like my GF, for example in the mall some girls were checking me out and she got jeleous so she grabbed my hand and we held hands haha.

She texts me saying I love you :) and Loveeee youuu at the end of some texts, where as I put nothing lol. We're straight up with each other and I'm planning on going to the capital with her this weekend, and telling her that I want our relationship to be exclusive.

But my question is, out of the blue she texts me and displays interest, but why when I ask her " Text me later " "Call me in abit" why does she never do as I ask?

Does she forget? I doubt it but I don't know why not.
Author:  Luca_J [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 7:12 am ]
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Bump
Author:  daggaz [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 8:12 am ]
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lol, i think you will get a much better answer if you just ask her. WTF do we know about what exactly is going on in her mind? All you will get from here is guesses and random interjections.

I would say, how important is it to you that she complies in this manner? You say you feel you are a couple more or less, how sure of this are you? She gets jealous of other girls (Personally, I think this is a bad trait), so is that because she is actually into you and is just insecure, or is she just trying to "own" you?

If I were you, I would try to figure some of this stuff out for sure. Either by asking directly, or by careful judging of her responses to certain situations, and by just listening to what comes out of her mouth all the time.. As well, you could try to run some more compliance tests on her, and see where her limit is.

Maybe you guys are pretty ok happy as it is, and she just spaces it off or has some reason why she doesn't comply on the phone issue ("I dont want him to think I'm too needy/clingy/whatever my gf told me") or maybe your relationship isnt all that you've worked it out to be.

Good luck, man.
Author:  Solomon II [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 9:19 am ]
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Either she's playing games with you, or she just thinks "ok" and plans to text you later but forgets. It's very easily done... her life doesn't revolve around you, y'know. Who cares anyway? You only wanna talk to her about boring shit like each others days and make small talk, which would be better in each others company, so it's not a big deal if she doesn't call you or whatever. The only time I'm talking on the phone or texting is when I'm making or discussing plans... I save most of the chatty stuff for when I'm actually with the girl.
Author:  l0ck [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 1:34 pm ]
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Either she's playing games with you, or she just thinks "ok" and plans to text you later but forgets. It's very easily done... her life doesn't revolve around you, y'know. Who cares anyway? You only wanna talk to her about boring shit like each others days and make small talk, which would be better in each others company, so it's not a big deal if she doesn't call you or whatever. The only time I'm talking on the phone or texting is when I'm making or discussing plans... I save most of the chatty stuff for when I'm actually with the girl.
Sumed up very nicely... Who cares really? And don't let her know it bothers you, because remember IT DOESNT!! From now on don't say txt me or call me later... Just end the convo and don't call, I bet you she will call you...
Author:  kasabi [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 2:15 pm ]
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All of this depends on your age and whether you fucked her yet.
Author:  Luca_J [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 7:09 pm ]
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Yeah your right tbh guys, bit of silly question on my behalf haha, Just a curiousity I guess and generally just wanted some input.

Well I'm 16 and no I havent yet haha, so I guess its all good anyway.

Take it as it comes, Im an easy going guy, and yeah I havent text her as a subtle punishment ;) and she will end up texting me I guess.

Cheers fellas.
Author:  T8SIG92 [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 9:04 am ]
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how often does she call you? a lot of girls refuse to call the guy, like its some age old rule.

OR she might be thinking u are turned off or mad when you say "text me later" or "call me later" or she thinks ur too busy


btw there are no stupid/silly questions, just stupid forum members that give u crap for the kinds of questions u ask
Author:  Luca_J [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 11:20 pm ]
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Hahaa cheers fella, ah yeah never really thought about it like that :P good one ;)

Omg she came over tonight, my mum invited her over, and she met my parents, is that bad? I mean she loved it, my mum sat and chatted with her for ages and they had a real good connection, of course i couldnt get a word in edge ways, then dad and me took her home in our porsche lol and she just text me now lol
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