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Author:  Patrick_Bateman [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 11:27 pm ]
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Hey broskis, I've been living life and haven't posted here in a couple of months, but my life has really taken a turn for the better in terms of everything but one thing.


I'm in college at the moment and I've been meeting some quality girls lately, and especially one that I can see myself having a relationship with. However...most of these girls have boyfriends and its just pissing me off. This one girl that stands out in particular to me; she has a bf and I feel as if she may have feelings for me. Anyway, the problem is, I don't want to be a homewrecker, but I believe that I that I have the right to the girl just as much as anybody else does as long as she has the same feelings back for me.

If a girl cheats on her bf, then they shouldn't have been together anyway and I basically did a favor for that guy. Of course life doesn't always work like that, but I digress.

I guess ultimately, my question is ... does anybody have any tips on girls with bf's? It's a touchy subject but any help would be appreciated. Thanks.
Author:  mercer [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 12:05 am ]
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Ive been with girls with boyfriends, i think its cool to sleep with them but i wouldn't want a relationship with one of them. If she cheats with you then she'll cheat on you!
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 12:06 am ]
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Tips for if she has a BF...

Boyfriends are simply objects that can removed with the proper game.
Author:  JSmooth [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 12:08 am ]
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Ive been with girls with boyfriends, i think its cool to sleep with them but i wouldn't want a relationship with one of them. If she cheats with you then she'll cheat on you!
My marriage ended that way with my wife cheating. I don't really blame the guy, I blamed her. It's up to her to be accountable for her actions. I tend to agree with mercer up there. Then again some women are begging for a good guy to come along so they can leave, many women just don't want to go through being single.

Touchy subject. I really don't like teaching BF destroyers and that sort of thing for this reason. It's too touchy a subject. My rule has been this.

If she doesn't tell me she has a boyfriend then I have no responsibility in the matter. I'll never know the difference. If she mentions him then I would make a judgement call, most of the time finding another set.

Anyways that being said I'm in my LTR now.
Author:  Patrick_Bateman [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:45 am ]
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Ive been with girls with boyfriends, i think its cool to sleep with them but i wouldn't want a relationship with one of them. If she cheats with you then she'll cheat on you!
My marriage ended that way with my wife cheating. I don't really blame the guy, I blamed her. It's up to her to be accountable for her actions. I tend to agree with mercer up there. Then again some women are begging for a good guy to come along so they can leave, many women just don't want to go through being single.

Touchy subject. I really don't like teaching BF destroyers and that sort of thing for this reason. It's too touchy a subject. My rule has been this.

If she doesn't tell me she has a boyfriend then I have no responsibility in the matter. I'll never know the difference. If she mentions him then I would make a judgement call, most of the time finding another set.

Anyways that being said I'm in my LTR now.
Sorry to hear that, and I completely agree with you. I wouldn't blame cheating on the other guy, I would hold the woman responsible.

Leprechaun, your comment is completely useless, I was looking for actual normal advice, not some robotic PUA answer that you can find in any crappy e-book.

Mercer I see what you're saying, I guess thats a good way of looking at it, but what if she just likes you a lot? Idk.

Does anybody else have anything?
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:54 am ]
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Leprechaun, your comment is completely useless, I was looking for actual normal advice, not some robotic PUA answer that you can find in any crappy e-book.
Tell me what damn book has that line in it... I would like to know seeing how
I heard this from a friend who is a natural.
Author:  mercer [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:47 am ]
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It is a hard one and it all comes down to circumstances i guess, each situation has to be evaluated separately. I've always had that view that if she can cheat with you then she can cheat on you. But then i guess if you do end up in a relationship with her then just make sure she has no reason to want to cheat on you!
Author:  Chief [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 8:46 am ]
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Here's a Lay Report of mine that details how I've seduced a girl with a boyfriend:
lr-girl-with-bf-vt37623.html

Here's a Field Report of mine detailing my current seduction of another girl with a boyfriend:
fr-hbgaybrother-vt40172.html

Hope that helps. Generally speaking, you'll want to follow a general rule of "out of sight, out of mind" rule when it comes to boyfriends, as if they don't even exist. Don't forget to lower that ASD.
Author:  Locke [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:43 pm ]
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I agree with Chief, to an extent. There are many many people in this world who have boyfriends and girlfriends... just because. Maybe they are just dating to get to know each other. Whatever. On and on. There are so many reasons to have that other girlfriend or boyfriend.

So what I would recommend is setting up your own basis of guidelines or moral rules for yourself. Like, if the relationship has been a certain length of time, and she is happy...then make it off limits. If she is married, make it off limits. If she really likes her boyfriend and talks about how she sees a future with him...make it off limits. I am obviously not telling you what to make off limits, but those are some examples of respectable mentalities that I support.

If she has been dating the guy for six months and you have been able to push him out of the picture really easily? Then...not off limits. :)

It's a matter of what you are willing to find okay, and what you are not.
Author:  Charlie0 [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:35 pm ]
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Agreeing with several people here, what I would personally do is continue to game the girl like usual until she says no.

Women in healthy relationships that they enjoy will not cheat. Women who aren't getting what they need from their man will, for the right guy.
Author:  Patrick_Bateman [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 10:28 pm ]
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Thanks a lot guys, this stuff really helped a lot. Chief, it seems like you know what you're doing after reading the links you posted. Props.

So to summarize what I've somewhat learned from your responses, is to have certain boundaries, and also basically ignore the fact that the girl has a boyfriend.

I guess I have one more question..how would you handle a girl that you like that has a bf but if she were to reject you, you wouldnt mind being friends with her because shes a cool person without making things weird?
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