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Author:  Luca_J [ Thu Feb 05, 2009 2:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Can I Have Her Best Friend?
Ok two best friends lets call them B and L, I have made out with B on my bed and in her room with her parents at home lol but didnt escalate for a few reasons, I get the feeling L likes me who is her best friend and I really dont feel attraction for her which is a shame, but I want to keep her as a friend, now only really just got speaking to L and I think B either feels jealous or maybe wants to hook us up :S

I want to flirt with B and do things with her without her backing off because of her friend, can I say that because L likes me that I have preselection with B?
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 05, 2009 6:48 pm ]
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You want B but feel L is an obstacle...

Well, as long as you DO NOT DO ANYTHING with L, then you still have a
chance with B.

Just tell B, "I think L likes me, but I don't like her like that. How can we tell
her that I am not attracted to her romantically, without breaking her heart?
I only like her as a friend."

B should give you some ideas, or she will say that she can tell L for you.

If you can get B to tell L that you don't like her like that, then all the better.

But, if she just gives you ideas on how to do it, take her advice.

By using the line above on B, it tells her that you "care" about L's feelings, and
don't want her (B's) friend to be a total wreck when she finds out that you
don't like her the same way she likes you.
Author:  Bonita [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 12:56 am ]
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If B has already done stuff with you, she isn't going to back off because her friend may like you. I would say this would be a different scenario if you didn't make out with B and such, but in a way she has already marked her territory...it is L's job to back off now. That is girl code.
Author:  flypapermeems [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 5:08 am ]
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have to agree with bon here. if you've already made out with B, not just once but several times, then by girl code - ESPECIALLY best friends - L is off limits and you are off limits to L.

however, definitely a good idea to mention in to B. it does point out that you do care about L's feelings, just like you would any friend.

and let us know how it goes
Author:  Luca_J [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 5:23 pm ]
Post subject: 
Thanks for the replies yesterday guys :)

well i went out with them and we messed about in the snow, and i flirted with B all night, but not so much that L got pissed off, then we walked L back to her house which is a while away and B stayed with me near my area! we walked around and held hands all night, big amount of kino from both of us,

then... how romantic is this? we sat on a bench by the lake with snow surrounding us and watched the stars, she had her hand on my lap and we we're cuddling, then i turned to her and said, look in my eyes, she did and she said why? i said im looking to know what your thinking, she said what? i said come her and i'll show you.. K-close :D :D

so now i really want to make us an item.. i think she really likes me, but im not really sure how to go about it?

I know i need to see more of her...

thanks :D
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