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Author:  sfpsb10 [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 5:25 am ]
Post subject:  Bad Habits to Watch Out For
What are sum..........

how do i avoid them..........

(thought this would be a good question)
Author:  C-Diesel [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 5:57 am ]
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-Don't put the pussy on a pedestal...there's more out there!

-While it's good to make sure you know your game, don't spend too much time thinking of it or dwelling on it!

-Have fun! Cause it's a win/win situation! You have fun...The women see this!

-Be outgoing to everyone!

-Don't get emotional...keeping your cool is a big part of PU!

-Crain Diesel
Author:  Ezo [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 11:06 am ]
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Remember that most of the stuff you know about social interaction and attraction is wrong.

Your mother taught you how to talk to people (that you only want to be friends with and how to make them like you). Yes that sucks since... You are reactive to them, you give them the power, you accept their frame. Sure they are gonna see you as their "friend" as a nice guy, a beta male. Most people are betas, this is how society works, you like betas since they are non threatening and you do not have to care about them. Forget that!

Donald Duck and Hugh Grant taught you how to court women. Flowers, presets, buying their love by showing your willingness to invest in them. Ok, most girls will say that they appreciate when a guy gives them presents. Yeah, I also like it when people give me flowers and cash. But I do not respect them or feel attracted to them for this. Stop caring about what women want and start caring about what attracts them. It is a big difference.

The rest of the world has taught you that they appreciate you when you do not invade their space. Physically and socially. Do not overstep your boundries, do not interrupt, do not bother anyone. Basically apologize for your existance. FORGET THIS!
Never feel less than anyone else! Push the boundries! Engage strangers in conversation! Of course people like it when you let them be top dog! Of course they like it when they remain unchallenged! But that way you will accept your position as underdog!

Ezo
Author:  Fin [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 8:05 pm ]
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1. Avoid removing emotion and being "boring" (Just to be a dick :P)

Learn to be emotional in your expression, women LOVE that, similarly don't get put out of whack by Shit Tests. Have a powerful frame and stick to it.

2. Ejecting from the set the second she becomes negative.

Hang in their, it could be a ST and in this game 99% of the time resilience in set pays off.

3. Leaning in and figeting.

4. Looking at their mouths rather than their eye's.

5. Speaking too fast.

I may be back if I can think of more.
Author:  stevo91 [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 8:25 pm ]
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Quote:
Remember that most of the stuff you know about social interaction and attraction is wrong.

Your mother taught you how to talk to people (that you only want to be friends with and how to make them like you). Yes that sucks since... You are reactive to them, you give them the power, you accept their frame. Sure they are gonna see you as their "friend" as a nice guy, a beta male. Most people are betas, this is how society works, you like betas since they are non threatening and you do not have to care about them. Forget that!

Donald Duck and Hugh Grant taught you how to court women. Flowers, presets, buying their love by showing your willingness to invest in them. Ok, most girls will say that they appreciate when a guy gives them presents. Yeah, I also like it when people give me flowers and cash. But I do not respect them or feel attracted to them for this. Stop caring about what women want and start caring about what attracts them. It is a big difference.

The rest of the world has taught you that they appreciate you when you do not invade their space. Physically and socially. Do not overstep your boundries, do not interrupt, do not bother anyone. Basically apologize for your existance. FORGET THIS!
Never feel less than anyone else! Push the boundries! Engage strangers in conversation! Of course people like it when you let them be top dog! Of course they like it when they remain unchallenged! But that way you will accept your position as underdog!

Ezo
excelent post ezo by the way where did all u guys get the cool avatars. anyway heres a few of mine.

be confedent and bold - tell me if a hot girl just came up to you one day on the street and started talking to you about something you liked and seemed interesting would you tell her to leave?
Hell no!!!
if anything i would try to keep her as long as possible
so why would it be different for her.

Have fun - name me one girl who doesn't like a fun guy.

relax - at the end of the all your doing is talking to someone you think is pretty its nothing to get embarrassed about and if she does leave you theres another billion girls in this world meaning theres bound to be a good 1000 to 10000 your gonna like.
Author:  Sexcellent [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 8:43 pm ]
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ezo and fin really gave some great tips here.

the best tip i could give to any pua is don't over neg or become insulting. understand negs, and how to use them properly!
Author:  pedro2385 [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 11:23 am ]
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Personally my biggest problem when I started was leaning in and raising my hands like I was praying. The hardest part was catching myself doing it.

Once you have realsied a problem you have to conciously try to stop yourself doing it. It took me a few attempts but I do not have that problem anymore.

SO just remember if any of the above tips have hit home you can sort them with a little bit of effort. :D
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