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Author:  Fin [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 4:25 pm ]
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If you were to give three peices of advice that could transform someone else's game... ....give them now!!!!

Three Rules Of The Thread.

1. Keep it origonal.

2. No bickering about incorrect advice, realistically it would be preferred if posters ensure that their advice is true and accurate not just theorised.

3. If you want to post in this thread you HAVE to tell us your three things.

Here are mine, just of the top of my head.

1. Understand that most attractive women will have an idea of why you approached them, many transition in indirect game are clunky and not very smooth, but women don't really care as long as you transist with charm on your side.

Don't be scared to transit becuase it will "blow your cover". Women will not care about the strangeness of the situation; provided you are doing well. :D

2. Live in your own world, if you find a joke you told funny; and she didn't. Laugh!

You barely know her, you should still be in your own independant world, not clinging to hers for approval.

3. Dress to impress, seriously good grooming and a decent sense of style can MASSIVLY improve your looks.

Consider dressing formally if you want to be seen as high value or if you want to hold "social influence" at an event. Studies have shown people respond and listen to requests made by someone in a business suit MUCH better than they do talking to someone in stained over-alls.

Going to a school re-union and are worried about your old school palls acting up? Being a little bit more formally (or sometimes just better) dressed and carrying yourself with that bit of authority, can get roudy alpha's to sit down and listen to you.
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 4:33 pm ]
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My Three Main Rules

1. No matter what just have fun! It's amazing how others want to join in. Likewise, if you're not having a good time doing this, she senses it and you're history.

2. Stop thinking out there, and more action please. "We have identified the enemy, and they, is us." Going into your head in field creates problems. Think while sitting at home, or other places. When you're out it's time to act.

3. Having a Positive Mental Attitude is everything! Create it, keep it flowing, and then protect it from others that want to bring it down.
Author:  soup [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 4:49 pm ]
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1. Be socialable all the time (well more often than you currently are)
Humans are social creatures, we love to interact, its our nature. So if society wants more interaction guess what they're gonna get.

2. Try to bring out the best in other people.
Girls, strangers, your more unsocial friends, bring out the personality in them and your halfway there.

3. Read less go out more.
Its not original, but Its something I am as guilty of. Nonetheless once I brought it upon myself to change this I have got so much better
Author:  revolver [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 5:05 pm ]
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1. Get confidence!
If you want to know what I define as confidence, go to the natural section and look up natural confidence

2. Give confidence!
Let her feel your passion, share your vision and take massive action through investment.

3. Life is Win / Win !!!
There is no reason to see any negativity in life. Everything is a hidden opportunity. Stay positive!


Additionally, the advice given in this thread so far is really good. I hope that everyone takes the time to read what the others have written instead of waiting for their turn to write.

revolver
Author:  870 [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 5:16 pm ]
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1) The best way to pick up women is to have something better to do than pick up women. Going out to "sarge" puts too much pressure on the night and, honestly, is a bit creepy. As others have said, go out to have a good time and then give some new friends an opportunity to join in.

2) Women want you to succeed in seducing them. Remember the line from Hitch where he says, "No woman wakes up saying, 'God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today.'?" Truest piece of dating advice Hollywood ever put out.

3) Whatever it is, it's not that big of a deal. The AFC cares way too much. The PUA pretends not to give a shit. The guy who is really successful actually doesn't give a shit.
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 5:43 pm ]
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3) Whatever it is, it's not that big of a deal. The AFC cares way too much. The PUA pretends not to give a shit. The guy who is really successful actually doesn't give a shit.
Thank you.
Author:  madals [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 5:54 pm ]
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Madals 3 Top Tips of the day
1) Each night, before you fall asleep imagine what the perfect guy would be like, what he would do, how he would stand, how he would act etc etc. Try not to think about physical things hight or looks but attitude. Once you have thought about how he would do things, compare it to how you do things.

2) The best compliment I have ever been given is "You have this amazing ability to instantly make women totally comfortable around you". After further questioning about it the HB told me its because there are no insecruities about me, no fears for the girl because she knew that when she was with me nothing mattered but me and her. All while she was with me she would be fine. If you can get rid of all your own insecrities, and start making people feel comfortable with themselves when they are with you people will want to be with you!

3) Always look to improve! Constantly try to find ways to improve things your great at and get better at things your bad at. Take critism and advice and make yourself the best you can be. To help you achive this rather than thinking of the final step think in smaller steps.
An example of this is thinking of going from not being able to talk to a girl to being the centre of attention at a party, its a goal that seems unreachable. Instead, set mini-goals on your way, in this situation start by smiling at everyone and make EC, then say "hi" then ask the time building up at a steady rate and consitantly improve

I might add some more top tips later. A request to all females, if you could add to your advice the top 3 attractive things for you it would be great, like fashion sense, BL etc etc.

Madals
Author:  C-Diesel [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 6:02 pm ]
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1) Take everything, positive or negative, as a learning lesson and something to grow on!

2) Women LOVE being told about body language! As long as it's their body that you are talking about and in a positive manner...And I don't mean compliment them! Tell them how having their arms crossed or being slouched over is bringing down the mood in the environment!
*Hint* This 9/10 works better when the woman is showing negative BL, but it still works for positive as well :wink:

3) Walk Away!!! Just say one thing that will make an impact on her in a fun/mysterious way and walk away without even waiting for a response! I like to think of it as a pre-opener because it almost guarantees she'll want to talk to you more....just make sure you go back and talk to her!! Duh!!

I hope that's all original...I've never read or seen this anywhere!

-Crain Diesel
Author:  Bonita [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 7:13 pm ]
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1. Choose a style and game that fits your personality. Don't force yourself to be someone you aren't because some guru says you have to be a particular way. Use your unique traits to your advantage.


2. Learn when to walk away. You can't get every set but there is a right way and a wrong way to eject. Learn how to eject with class, learn from the experience, and then stack forward.

3. Know that sometimes you just have to think for yourself. It is fine to ask questions now and then...that is how people learn. But don't rely on everyone here to give you every answer. YOU are picking up the girl not them. Sometimes you just gotta try something and see if it works. If not, oh well...now you know.
Author:  Chief [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 8:07 pm ]
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1. The things that separates the boys from the men in this game is SEXUAL FRAMING. Always frame interactions between you and your "targets" as sexual.

2. Lead with your masculine essence and have your logistics prepared. Take her hand and be the man who guides her with warm dominance to a world of pleasure in your bed. This escalation that YOU must lead applies not only to logistics, but to both conversation and kino as well.

3. Abundance mentality. 'Nuff said.
Author:  V1V [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 10:50 pm ]
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1. Be congruent. Try not to lie, especially with DHV. Make your stories true, and really improve your lifestyle, not just your game.

2. Connect creatively. Many people dont bother with the connection phase, and if they do, they do it rushed. Anything that you both contribute towards an outcome together makes an emotional connection. My favourite is cooking with my girl.

3. Have your own game. You will have many people telling you that NLP is best, no rsd is best MM etc. Learn as much as you can and adopt the parts which you think will best influence your game.
Author:  George Best [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 12:15 am ]
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1. be well groomed . look at people your age on tv i.e the guys in hollyoaks or the o.c or whatever and look at the current fashions and styles they wear

2. dont get drunk when sarging , you know your own limit

3. remember even when a nites saring goes bad with no closes of any sort as long as you improved on one area of your game i.e. your posture when in the club or remembering to pause when delivering then you did sarge well . its not about closing its about learning this skill and that takes time
Author:  Plethora [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 2:54 am ]
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be
1. Positive
2. Perceptive
3. Persistent
Author:  Sun of Nothing [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 4:18 am ]
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1. Be bold, daring, et cetera.

Approach girls you at one time "thought you couldn't have."

2. Value girls for more than just their looks.

Its true, girl can be interesting and actually have an attractive personality.

3. Find out what you're good at and use it to your advantage. If you're not good at anything, well change that.
Author:  expat_of_love [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 4:48 am ]
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1) Spread
2) Love
3) Always

Focus on spreading love. Focus on spreading love. Focus on spreading love. Focus on spreading love. Focus on spreading love.

Cultivate love from within and you can burn the furry hats and $1,000 courses. You will be your own greatest lover.
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