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| Author: | Fidelity [ Wed Jan 21, 2009 4:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Game Plan! |
Hey, well I've read couple books and watched couple of videos and I really got into this game and world of pick up. I haven't actually delivered or went to any clubs b/c Im still too young to go to any and I've realized that most of the material only works for night club game. But how about day game? Any way, here's what I put together. Lemme know what you guys think of this. Any tips, more tips, what I should expect etc... Would this work for day time too? Thanks! --- *Have a positive, fun, outgoing attitude. *Be easy going, fun, leader, dominant. *Good posture. (Be leaning back, leaning into her and leaning back to see if she will so some IOI by coming back to me and so on...) *Be cocky funny. *Use push pull here and there. *DHV some stories here and there naturally. (Leader of friends [pre selected], being protective, standing up for myself) *Enter sets or target with equal or a lil higher energy with them. *Calibrate and groove! 1. - Open. If the girl is by herself, I'll do the real hair color neg. - If their is a group, Ill open by using the dental floss opinion opener. Then walk away (push/pull) and turn around and ask how long they have known each other. Then slide into the Best Friends Test. If its 2 girls, I'll do the cologne opener. 2. Play 5 Lies and get her going. 3. Play the Subconscious Game to get to know her and WOW her. It usually works and its fun. After I do this game, I may move to another spot to add some time distortion. 4. Then ask if she is adventurous and let her talk... Then say she must be a spontaneous person and let her talk... Doing this, I'll get some commonalities, talk about myself, let her talk about herself etc... Ask her if she has ever been cubed. Then play The Cube. After I complete getting all her descriptions, I'll tease her that I made it up and get her to be like OMG WTF! And then get her back and say Im just kidding. (Push/pull). Then I'll tell her the meanings and put some playful teasing in. 5. By now, we should be on a good positive level. I'll smoothly play the Three Smiles Routine. 6. Tell her to let me see her hands. Complement her on her hands, but cut her off before she says thanks and tell her that I can palm read. I tell her I can read her palms and tell her about her future and stuff. Then point at a line and say thats her gullible line. And throw her hand down and laugh etc... (pull/push). 7. Then tell her I met a have a friend at (the name of college Im going to right now) who was very spiritual and slide into the Ring Finger Routine. (Doing this, it should suggest that Im going to college and I know interesting people.) 8. Ask her what she likes doing in life, like what would make her feel accomplished. Then slide into Styles EV Routine. (Qualification) 9. If I haven't already during in between these steps, I would throw some DHV stories. Then let her talk about her experiences and qualify at the same time. Also I would put lil games like the dime, nickel, penny trick. Then do that trick were you write PEN15 on her hand as playful teasing. 10. If she has been showing IOI's, Ill feel confident enough to tell her that she's taking the trust test. Then I'll let her talk once again... 11. Tell her she seems a bit tense and let her be like WHAT?! Let her talk... Then slide into the Tension Test. After I tell her if she fails or not, I'll let her keep her hands on my neck. 12. Do some triangular gazing, then do Mystery's Kiss Close. Im guessing that even though it looks like not much steps, it is way different in reality. I will let things flow, which usually means she'll be talking and Ill slide in some of those routines to make it interesting. Here are some side notes on how I would tolerate and portray: Qualification, Push-Pull, and DHV'ing. ---About qualification [tips from Kalel]--- Well it is, but sometimes you have to exaggerate the fact that your qualifying her a bit. But before I get into that, it's important to look at it from the woman's perspective. Imagine that your a hot woman and you know that men want to sleep with you. If a man starts show interest without knowing anything about you at all, it obvious that he is only interested in the sex and not you as a person. So what you have to do as a pua is simple, don't telegraph so much interest right off the bat. Question her (not like an interrogation, but simply as part of comfort building), mention qualities or quirks about her that you like or you think are cute, then just gradually show more interest in her as you find more things about her you like. This way she feels like your interested in her as a whole and not just as a hole. Also don't be afraid to verbalize your gradual acceptance, use phrases like "You're kinda weird, but I like that", "I like that in a woman", "I really respect that", "Wow, I'm impressed". These phrases are like rewards for good behavior, so only give them for things you really like. People will readily modify their ego to impress other people, so if you say you like certain things about her, she will begin to accentuate those qualities when she is around you. It is also very important for you to disagree with her a little during this process. Remember if you're qualifying her, then you shouldn't be trying to impress her with how similar you two are, that's her job in this scenario. Feel free to express your own opinions, she will respect you more for it. ---Push Pull [tips from Kalel]--- The push-pull really isn't a routine it's more like a honed technique or skill. The idea behind the push-pull is that people don't value things that they don't have to work for and that they can't lose. Do you value air or gravity, no because they are a given in your life; but you value money because you have to work for it and it can wasted easily. The push-pull simply gives your seduction value in her eyes. If she feels like she's invested some effort in winning your approval and if she's afraid she might lose it, she will value you much more than if she had done nothing to get you. You can communicate a push or a pull in any number of ways. A lot of guys do it non-verbally, they lean in and look attentive to pull, and lean back and appear aloof to push. A push can be a neg, or a sudden coldness, or withdrawal of attention, or anything that communicates disapproval. A pull can be flirting, showing interest, looking at her seductively, or anything that makes her feel like your interested in her. There is a timing and a rhythm to this as well. When you push, she will try to pull you back in, then you can pull a little. Then you can just repeat this sporadically throughout the date. The idea is to let her think she has the power to control your attraction for her, if she thinks she does she will try harder to impress you and win you over and she will be involved and invested in the seduction. Your game, in this situation, is to make her think she is the one with game. Make her think she seduced you and not the other way around. The push-pull is not easy to master, because it requires a lot of mental control over yourself. When we are interested in a woman, its very hard to withdraw attention, its unnatural. But you have to learn how to appear disinterested or neutral, when your overly interested on the inside. It takes a lot of practice to master a cool and calm exterior persona and it only comes with experience and practice. ---DHV [tips from Kalel]--- Yeah that's pretty much the idea, but most puas try to tell stories that trigger certain evolutionary switches in a woman's mind. For instance they will tell stories involving them being in charge of other people because it will trigger the leader or men switch. Or they will tell stories about hanging out with lots of friends because it triggers the pre-selection switch (if other people like you, then there must be a reason). They also tell stories about how they are protective of others or how they have the means to provide for the future. The trick to telling a good dhv story is not to force it, just let the conversation happen naturally, and get in the habit of recalling your own experiences in a dhv mindset. You can make almost any story a dhv story if you know how to phrase it right. For instance I never say "My friends and I went", I say "I took my friends to". Also when you're telling the story make it exciting. The problem most guys have is that they picture the story in their head while they are telling it and they forget that other can't see what's in their head, so they don't describe anything in detail. To tell a good story, you have to paint a mental picture for your audience. A lot of the times the details are more important than the story. Describe what you sensed (smells, sights, sounds), and describe how things made you feel. And don't be afraid to embellish the story a little for entertainment purposes, it just make the experience more enjoyable. Also be emotional when telling a story. Be excited and be involved in it. If you're not enjoying telling the story, the audience is probably not enjoying listening to it either. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Wed Jan 21, 2009 8:17 am ] |
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One of the worst things you can do when it comes to picking up girls is to have a game plan of any kind. As it is not flexible and you can not really adjust to what is going on with your set/target. Plus it assumes things will go according to plan. Nothing goes according to plan. What if the girl throws up a bitch shield on you? What are you going to do then? Or what if you get the mother hen? What then? You never know what can happen when you are picking up girls. Which is why it is best to not have a game plan and just go with the flow. |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Wed Jan 21, 2009 8:25 am ] |
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You made a thread like this 2 weeks ago. TWO WEEKS and you're still sitting writing up game plans, asking what we think of them. Everything that was said in your last thread about having plans like this still applies - it's too complicated, too linear, and too dependant on certain reactions or responses. It's plans like this which cause guys to stand with their thumbs up their asses all night running through everything in their heads, analysing every possible outcome, instead of walking over there and just doing it. This is not what you want to hear, but you've been sitting for the past 2 weeks and what have you actually done? Get the fuck outside, stop thinking so much, and have some fun. |
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