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OBJECTION!
while i see what your saying, thinking of getting a full close while you approach seems like a long long way away. However, if you break it up into #-close, k-close etc etc it's a series of smaller achivements.
This makes you feel good when you get the #, your getting 1 step close. k-close, yes, another step closers. This way, each achivement gives you a boost.
This is why people who split a large task into small sub-tasks get it done better, rather than trying to do it all at once.
This is a really bad explination, but i think what i am trying to say is clear.
I see what you are trying to say. That breaking things up into smaller goals help in the achievement of the larger goal and gives you a boost. while i see what your saying, thinking of getting a full close while you approach seems like a long long way away. However, if you break it up into #-close, k-close etc etc it's a series of smaller achivements.
This makes you feel good when you get the #, your getting 1 step close. k-close, yes, another step closers. This way, each achivement gives you a boost.
This is why people who split a large task into small sub-tasks get it done better, rather than trying to do it all at once.
This is a really bad explination, but i think what i am trying to say is clear.
That makes perfect sense! I agree they are "mile stones" in a sense and good to have on your PUA checklist in field so to speak. A kiss or number is better than a swift kick in the balls but it's still not a close!
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If you have solid mid-game, maybe then getting a # or kiss close may actually mean something because you can actually take it somewhere depending on what your goals are.
True, if you have solid mid-game then you know it'll come out to being the other stuff. Like I said before I'm not saying it's not an accomplishment or you guys shouldn't feel good about yourselves because you should. I felt good getting a kiss or a #. Still it's not a "close" to me. It's an accomplishment sure, but again it's the "means to an end" not the "end itself."
