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Author:  Zarathustra [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 11:40 pm ]
Post subject:  HELP! HB9 has 2 kids
Long story short:

-closed a HB9 last weekend
-meeting her again this weekend
-like her personality
-have IOIs
-she just texted me saying I have 2 kids does that bother you?

What should I do in this situation?
Any advice or help would be very much appreciated. Note that my number one priority is to leave her better than I found her.
Author:  Yillan [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 12:26 am ]
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Well, does it bother you? You haven't said what your goal is with her yet.
Author:  sfpsb10 [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 12:27 am ]
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yea, idk tho, 2 kids, wat a drag
Author:  J1f [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 1:31 am ]
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Yeah the question is what do you want?
A lay report
A GF
A quick lay ?
what?
I got an instant family that way and now she is my ex and is willing to wing me ! :shock: 8)

Does her having kids make her less than she was before you knew about her kids?

With power comes responsibility as you say you want to leave her better, maybe she just wants a bit of fun or is she after a BF or more?

If you feel like SFPSB10 then dont pursue her cos thinking like that and continueing will only leave her worse afterwards.
You chose, but remember SHE may be more than you want. Maybe she is what you need right now, so be careful what you ask for.. after she could be a good friend if you are more than just some one liners and PU material.


J1f 8)
Author:  Zarathustra [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 8:30 am ]
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nice one dudes.

I slept on it, and feel a lot better.

Whilst I respect her for raising 2 kids and having a job, I don't think I'm ready for kids at all in my life. I originally wanted a lay report, but I've decided that I'm gonna do my very best to show her a good time, then subtly break it off in a few weeks. That way I may not necessarily get laid but at least she won't have a bad time or feel that I'm not interested in her because she has kids.
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 12:14 pm ]
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One of the biggies when you run into a single mom (which there are loads of today), is that you are not just dating the mom but her kid(s) as well. So its a package deal.
Author:  Stygian [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 2:24 pm ]
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Well does it bother you? Use your answer to gauge how you should handle this. If it scares you off then don't go any further with this woman but keep her as a friend. If it doesn't bother you then do what you were going to do before you found this out.
Author:  practice [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 3:27 pm ]
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Quote:
nice one dudes.

I slept on it, and feel a lot better.

Whilst I respect her for raising 2 kids and having a job, I don't think I'm ready for kids at all in my life. I originally wanted a lay report, but I've decided that I'm gonna do my very best to show her a good time, then subtly break it off in a few weeks. That way I may not necessarily get laid but at least she won't have a bad time or feel that I'm not interested in her because she has kids.
you do realize this attitude will make her want you even more.

maybe you should 'ungame' her and act like an AFC so she can make the decision to drop you rather than vice versa.

This will make it much easier on her.

Remember, leave her better than you found her.
Author:  Blanc [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:40 am ]
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depends what you want from her. if your comfortable with it then go for it. it you have any doubts i wouldnt do it cus those small little doubts may get bigger and bigger when you get into dating.
Author:  V1V [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:12 am ]
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As long as your sure it isnt a shit test ;p.
Comes down to what you want. Choose. Do you mind having kids in your life? Pick yes or no, and then decide the ins and outs.
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