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| Author: | SKY007 [ Thu Jan 01, 2009 4:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | about scanning rooms, scanning HB10's and inner game |
I thought I was out of AFC land… But I am still AFC. Today I was introduced to a genuine HB10 by a female friend of mine and I fucked up. (the real deal genuine HB10 that makes your heart pound). I thought I acted cool and did my normal game, but somehow she didn’t respond. I didn’t get it at that moment. But now I traced it back and I know I actually wasnt cool at all, I’ve been a major AFC. This is what I did: I get introduced. And then I scan her body up and down several times while I say hi. I thought I didn’t, but I probably did this instinctively because she’s so hot, the proof of it: how else can I know that she’s so hot??? (So the trick is not to look, so you won’t even know that she’s hot and thus it wont affect you). Then I tried to neg her, but I was already too late, I fucked up by scanning her body and looking at her with BIG EYES, as if I want to fuck her on the spot (which I honestly did want to do of course). So I telegraphed major interest and that’s why every neg after that was incongruent/try-hard and every high octane routine after for damage control seemed try-hard as well So.. how to solve this: 1. When I go to a party I will not judge girls on their looks and thus will not scan any lady’s appearance. 2. I will talk to all people (UGs, HBs and men) in proximity for the reason of having fun only. Regardless of looks (and even regardless of sex, otherwise I will still look like a shark if I cold-approach girls only, and talking to men makes me “leader of men” which flips attraction switches in girls) 3. I will initially judge people by their personality first… 4. Stuck up bitches that are un-openable or no fun at all will be disregarded automatically no matter what their appearance(HB or not). I can’t have them anyway, no one can, they are just no fun and not worth the hassle. (if anyone can, it’s the guy who didn’t even see them and is unaffected, which I will be. So if I cant open them at that moment nobody can). 5. If I’m talking to a girl for more then a minute (beyond the “not facing her” initial open stage, when I have hooked and face her mutually), only then will I slowly notice her appearance (because im talking to her), then I might notice that I can neg her on some attribute of her appearance and then I will say so. Thus I will automatically never open with a neg about appearance because I wont even have noticed her until I have already spoken to her (because I don’t scan ladies in advance). So negs will flow naturally during the conversation, only then will I actually notice these things to neg about. (A neg as an opener is try-hard - as if you prepared it for an hour, which AFC do in some cases -, a neg that you suddenly notice while already talking is what girls really dig and thus the way to do it) 6. HB’s will be drawn to me, because I am totally not scanning the room like all other AFCs and am just having fun, leading conversations and being the center of most of the fun in the room. I will be an HB(high value man) to the HB itself, she will come to me. (I don’t need to scan the room/find her) 7. I really have to stop scanning rooms, because I always do this to spot the HB and then to work in her proximity on other sets. But the whole “I want you” strategy is what is actually blocking me. The hardest part is that I seem to enjoy scanning rooms and really enjoy making my top 3 candidates of the evening, which I have been doing and enjoying since I was a child actually. I should stop enjoying that, because it leads nowhere. STOP SCANNING AND MAKING A TOP3 LIST OF CANDIDATES!!!! EVEN IF YOU ENJOY IT TOO MUCH!! ITS SELF-SABOTAGE!! FROM NOW ON I WONT ENJOY SCANNING ROOMS ANYMORE! I SHOULD FEEL THE PAIN OF LOSING HB10's BECAUSE IM SCANNIGN ROOMS AND I SHOULD FEEL THE PLEASURE OF WINNING HB10's BECAUSE I AM NOT SCANNING ROOMS (talking to myself here) 8. If I do it right: Basically I display all alpha characteristics (leading the fun in the room, being natural: no act “as if I’m not interested while I am actually interested”, because I don’t even look, thus I will really NOT be interested, because I haven’t even really seen her!) and attract the ladies to me (because I’m the center of attention) instead of hunting down the ladies (acting on sets in proximity then acting on her, pretending not to be interested) . Why do ugly girls like me so much (no matter how bad I game)? Because they are ugly and cant get any better?? No! they like me because I’m doing things right on the UGs: I don’t show interest ( I don’t even bother to look at them because they are ugly anyway, it will only turn me off to look at them.) And I will only be nice to them i they earn it (reward). THe comparison: Why do AFC guys like hot girls so much? Because those AFCs have no game?? No!! its simply because those hot girls do things right (she dresses hot and takes care of her appearance to make it sexy), regardless of whether the guy has game or not! Why pretend not to be interested and go act all that hard stuff (which wont work anyway, because the truth will shine through), if I can be natural because I really didn’t even notice that she;s hot! So in perfect situation: I wouldn’t have noticed the HB10 is hot, I would have just run normal game on her and then while gaming, slowly noticing that she is indeed hot, but only after a few minutes of talking (after the conversation “hooked”). But then I would have already hooked and the HB10 would have instinctively known “that I was not affected by her beauty from the start”, but I seemed to like her more after talking to her! And then she earned that, it was a reward for her: only after she turned to me / the conversation hooked (=she showed some small interested in me). So how great is that? Lesson learned, I won’t scan rooms anymore and I wont scan hot bodies up an down > I will have fun without even noticing HB's because I am naturally congruent with that from now on!! |
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| Author: | SeanMessenger [ Thu Jan 01, 2009 4:12 pm ] |
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You're fine. You're learning. Next time, just do this ONE thing. Look her in the eye, and nowhere else. that's all it takes. |
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