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Author:  R.G. [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 5:05 pm ]
Post subject:  The girl's behaviour depends on your behaviour.

I was looking back over parts of the blueprint decoded seminars I have today when Tyler said something in passing that really hit me. To paraphrase:

Girls have multiple personalities. They have one they show to attractive guys, and one they show to non-attractive guys.

(Note, this may be obvious but by attractive we are not meaning ‘good looking’). During my time in PU I’ve had a few ‘one-itis’’. And I think it’s actually a delusion. My one-itis’ all have one thing in common – they respond differently to my style of PU. 95% of girls, for me, act in a certain way whilst I’m picking them up. When a girl starts to act this way, I know the close is inevitable so long as I continue to sarge well. So I guess this is the woman’s “I’m attracted to you personality”. Now the other 5%, most of them seem to become my one-itis at some stage, haha.

But what I have realised, is that THEY ARE NOT ‘DIFFERENT’. I am fond of them because I tell my wings, “this girl’s different, I really love her, she’s so cute.” BUT THEY ARE NOT DIFFERENT. They are actually the girls I fail at sarging. And they SEEM different, because I have failed, and so they show me their pre-programmed personality that they display to AFC’s or non-attractive people.

This even makes sense in a recent case study, where I pretty much failed at sarging HB9.5 (a while back - man, she is hot), but recently I’ve had strong success with her. Back then I thought she was ‘different’ from the other girls and became a little obsessed. Now that I’ve had more success with her, she’s acting like all the other girls, she’s showing me that personality.

So I’ve kind of figured this out whilst writing it, but do you find this to be true? If a girl seems ‘different’, or uninterested, IT IS NOT THE GIRL who is ‘different’ or uninterested, it is YOU who is sarging badly and you’re UNINTERESTING. And this is what enables PU to work. If the girl's behaviour did not depend on our behaviour, we would have no power or influence to make them attracted to us.

Author:  GrannySnatcher [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 5:24 pm ]
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it's human nature. we crave what we don't have, and neglect what we do have.

that is why gratitude is such a powerful tool. my friend said something that really stuck with me not too long ago. it was along the lines of:
"how can one expect to get more when he does not give thanks for what he already has?"

the power of appreciation ... 8)

Author:  Lucky D [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 8:38 pm ]
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Damb GrannySnatcher!!
You got it all down! That's what it's all about. The power of appreciation!
I'm sure you got an incredible friend, someone who can appreciates and can make you feel appreciated...

Also, for Rafiel Gamble, I think it makes a lot of sense what you're sayin'. Before I had any "game", I found a lot of girls special, different, etc. But ever since I got them at the tip of the finger, the same girls don't seem special anymore... When i read your post & think of it, the only one-ities are the girls I don't game right.

Once again, SHoutout to Granny snatcher & his friend!!
Merry Christmas

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