PUA Forum :: How should girls open guys?

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Like zip said, eye conctact along with breaking it is a good way to get a guy to apprach her. But she shouldn't worry about approaching guys. The key is that she needs to have the ability to walk away...or appear as if she will walk away. So basically get the guy hooked, and then make him chase you. Chances are he will try and close her so that he doesn't lose her. Then she can make him work for her number.

Now here's what I wanna know. Why do all that? Why getting guy to approach, hoping that he notices the invitation, instead of approaching yourself? Why hope the guy will chase? Why "make him work" for your number?

This is just so alien to me... but then again, I'm just trying to get laid, and I've got a hippie-ish "free love" ethos to this whole thing.

Author:	kowalski [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 9:25 am ]
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To the girls: My FwB is a smoking hot ex-model. Guys check her out all the time. Thanks to AA multiplied by how hot she is, they don't open. How can she open them without massively lowering her value? Or, how can she make steps to be opened by these guys? She doesn't want them to think she's easy or desperate because she is'nt, she's absolute class. She thanks you in advance for your help. Peace

Author:	Swoop [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 10:11 am ]
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I need a male opinion... lol.

Author:	Jaybot [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 10:57 am ]
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I think for women it is easier a little bit of eye contact across the room then walking over and saying hi will usually work.

Author:	kowalski [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 12:17 pm ]
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Hey Swoop. I know you're joking, but the 'male opinion opener' could work. Assuming the opinion requested sounded genuine and was WAY under the radar.

Author:	Gay [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 7:16 pm ]
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Or she could just go "I saw you looking at me.... im going to have to charge you, 5$ dollars please"

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Author:	VanHaven [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 7:22 pm ]
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She could always just say hi and introduce herself. The oldest opener in the book

Author:	Artax [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 7:50 pm ]
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If she's really as hot as you say there is almost nothing she can do to lower her value. It may be a bit of a demonstration of interest, but if she's interested it is warranted. A DOI doesn't mean the person doing it is interested in sex. It means they're interested in the target. It's a distinction we often ignore. Any man who thought less of her for approaching them is not worth her time, and in that way she can use it to screen the men she meets. I'm really starting to hate some of the lingo as it isn't all as common as some of you think. FwB?

Author:	Stormy [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 8:19 pm ]
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FwB = Friends With Benefits. Also, "hi" is fine. This girl doesn't need openers. Can you imagine her getting blown out, no matter WHAT she opens with? Didn't think so. She's probably operating from a screening frame, so all she has to do is rock up, say "hi," and start asking questions. No need to "game" the guys. She just has to decide if she likes them. If she does, she just has to tell them that she likes them. Make sure there's no miscommunication.

Author:	Zip [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 9:38 pm ]
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this is what works for me. eye contact, break EC, EC, break EC, smile the guy then comes over to me

Author:	vitaminc [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 10:07 pm ]
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the problem with girls just giving eye contact is that a lot of guys still wont act on it, even after the 3rd or 4th time. situational or observational things would probably work best, though i dont think a woman's value would drop if she approached me and just introduced herself. it shows confidence, which i like. and she wants to talk to me instead of the other guys, which i like again. but yeah, situational and observational openers would also work: "hey, who's the dj tonight?" "i like your shirt/hair/whatever" you get the idea.

Author:	Stormy [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 11:33 pm ]
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I think a woman's social value is completely independent of that stuff. They have to walk on eggshells and "run game" around other girls, but guys tend to be a lot more forgiving.

Author:	Artax [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 12:10 am ]
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Quote: this is what works for me. eye contact, break EC, EC, break EC, smile the guy then comes over to me Yeah, that practically screams "COME TALK TO ME!" If a guy doesn't get it she's probably better off, but then some guys are pretty slow.

Author:	Bonita [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 2:48 am ]
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Like zip said, eye conctact along with breaking it is a good way to get a guy to apprach her. But she shouldn't worry about approaching guys. The key is that she needs to have the ability to walk away...or appear as if she will walk away. So basically get the guy hooked, and then make him chase you. Chances are he will try and close her so that he doesn't lose her. Then she can make him work for her number.

Author:	Stormy [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 6:13 am ]
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Quote: Like zip said, eye conctact along with breaking it is a good way to get a guy to apprach her. But she shouldn't worry about approaching guys. The key is that she needs to have the ability to walk away...or appear as if she will walk away. So basically get the guy hooked, and then make him chase you. Chances are he will try and close her so that he doesn't lose her. Then she can make him work for her number. Now here's what I wanna know. Why do all that? Why getting guy to approach, hoping that he notices the invitation, instead of approaching yourself? Why hope the guy will chase? Why "make him work" for your number? This is just so alien to me... but then again, I'm just trying to get laid, and I've got a hippie-ish "free love" ethos to this whole thing.

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Author:	Chief [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 6:20 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Like zip said, eye conctact along with breaking it is a good way to get a guy to apprach her. But she shouldn't worry about approaching guys. The key is that she needs to have the ability to walk away...or appear as if she will walk away. So basically get the guy hooked, and then make him chase you. Chances are he will try and close her so that he doesn't lose her. Then she can make him work for her number. Now here's what I wanna know. Why do all that? Why getting guy to approach, hoping that he notices the invitation, instead of approaching yourself? Why hope the guy will chase? Why "make him work" for your number? This is just so alien to me... but then again, I'm just trying to get laid, and I've got a hippie-ish "free love" ethos to this whole thing. Making the approach and taking the proactive risk for rejection aligns with the masculine essence. The feminine wants to be opened up as light.