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Author:  gyarados [ Sat Dec 20, 2008 10:17 pm ]
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hi guys just got back into the game after a long relationship and had 2 one-night stands 8) I've noticed when you say a different age to people they seem to be more interested, even though Im lying through my teeth, we're niot talking a couple of years here, I mean I've added or taken away 4 or 5 and I am quite young looking,

is it a DHV if I lie and make myself younger ?? I've lied 2 a few girls and they ended up sleeping with me, and others have thought I was immature for my age if i told the truth, and didnt seem interested.

I mean, it doesnt matter what age i am, but I feel less confident in my real age, and in my mind im younger.

and if girls found out (they've gone through my wallet and Id be surprised if they havent seen my licence but havent mentioned anything) just dropped hints to me.

does anyone else do this??
Author:  Ezo [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 12:29 am ]
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I just tell them my age. It doesnt matter really in my opinion!
Author:  xeroxed88 [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 2:23 am ]
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When a girrrrl asks my age, I lie in a joking way or maybe say, "Guess". If they're correct I will neg them slightly, "Ah, you're smarter than I expected." or something similar... (Always do this with a smile on your face!)

I look quite young for my age (I'm 20 and could easily pass as a 17 year old). So I say, with a cheeky grin, "I'm 43!"; which most of the time gets a laugh cause they know I'm bullshitting.

Age means shit in my opinion.
Author:  SeanMessenger [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 10:23 pm ]
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i'm 38.

everyone thinks i'm 28.

my ID not only proves my age, but has the most awesome bearded photo in the history of bearded photos, so no one believes that either.

my girlfriend is 20. and it was never ever ever a big deal.

don't ever lie about your age. it's like a girl lying about her bra size. you know the truth anyways. age difference is only a big deal if it's a big deal to you, and you and her have nothing in common.

if there's chemistry, age is irrelevant. plus, girls LIKE guys older than them. enjoy it!
Author:  xRyanx [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 6:26 pm ]
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if you just want one night stands then sure lie about your age/car/job/etc. but you're just selling yourself short in the long run, you should be comfortable with yourself.

like another poster said, age doesn't mean shit...some women are going to use it agasint you, but they are prob sluts and low value females anyway

GL
Author:  Killians [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 6:39 pm ]
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If you feel younger/immature with your real age then you will show just that. The only reason that girls are more drawn to you when you lie is because YOU reflect the age you say you are. BELIEVE you are mature, don't lie about your age and you'll receive the same results.
Author:  Fame2Advancement [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 9:22 pm ]
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hi guys just got back into the game after a long relationship and had 2 one-night stands 8) I've noticed when you say a different age to people they seem to be more interested, even though Im lying through my teeth, we're niot talking a couple of years here, I mean I've added or taken away 4 or 5 and I am quite young looking,

is it a DHV if I lie and make myself younger ?? I've lied 2 a few girls and they ended up sleeping with me, and others have thought I was immature for my age if i told the truth, and didnt seem interested.

I mean, it doesnt matter what age i am, but I feel less confident in my real age, and in my mind im younger.

and if girls found out (they've gone through my wallet and Id be surprised if they havent seen my licence but havent mentioned anything) just dropped hints to me.

does anyone else do this??
Im 27 years old. I felt very "old" in some nightclubs whereby the local female populace averages 18-22 years old.
I felt I'd "missed the boat" and shouldn't be toying with such girls.

In fact I believed I had to tell the girls my age every third sentence in after giving my name as I thought the girls didn't realise how old I was.
I look about 22 years old according to some girls however I always say 27 years old and proud.

The only gripe I've had with age is one girl in a top London Nightclub critisised my career achievements (or lack of) when I mentioned what I do. She said I better get some by age 30 (this brash statement is a whole new thread in itself).

The bottom line is Men Value Youth and Beauty (Soft Skinned, Silky Haired, Youthful and Beautiful, Hip to Waist Ratio)
A woman on the other hand will date a guy (realisitcally speaking) up to about 10 years her senior for the relationship to work long term, providing
she has a reason to "invest" in him if he's older.

In fact a global study by David M Buss (a sexual evolution and human relationship expert) found that men desire Looks, Health and Beauty in a woman, whereas women look for Social Status, Social Connections and Alliances, Achievements, Access to future Resources, Protection, Shelter etc.

The above in itself is not undermining Pick Up, but even Neil Strauss said, even the most charming of PUAs will eventually get dumped, if a guy has no ambition or future careers lined up.
Author:  SeanMessenger [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 7:32 pm ]
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A woman on the other hand will date a guy (realisitcally speaking) up to about 10 years her senior for the relationship to work long term, providing
she has a reason to "invest" in him if he's older.
That number gets bigger as you get older.
Author:  EastCoastBeauty [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 4:27 pm ]
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The above in itself is not undermining Pick Up, but even Neil Strauss said, even the most charming of PUAs will eventually get dumped, if a guy has no ambition or future careers lined up.
Yep, the big pick up companies rake in the dollars by denying this truth. Many of their customers would be better served by investing that $5000 and working on getting a better job. Tom Leykis's radio show is free and gives better advice than any of these PUA clowns.
Author:  Fin [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 9:50 pm ]
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The above in itself is not undermining Pick Up, but even Neil Strauss said, even the most charming of PUAs will eventually get dumped, if a guy has no ambition or future careers lined up.
Yep, the big pick up companies rake in the dollars by denying this truth. Many of their customers would be better served by investing that $5000 and working on getting a better job. Tom Leykis's radio show is free and gives better advice than any of these PUA clowns.
Well that wasn't an ignorant statement in the slightest.
Author:  expat_of_love [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 10:22 pm ]
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Roman Polanski didn't seem to have any trouble with his age in America :lol: Damn, I am funny.
Author:  chuckyhol [ Mon Feb 02, 2009 11:22 am ]
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(they've gone through my wallet and Id be surprised if they havent seen my licence but havent mentioned anything)
You have bigger problems than lying about your age.
Author:  daggaz [ Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:12 pm ]
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I usually get them to guess and thank them when they invariably chop a few years off. Then they ask if they are right, and I smile and say close enough, and that is that, something else for them to wonder about. =)

Or I give them my best babyface (32 but look a lot younger) and say "I'm 32, but its ok, Im still a virgin. Im saving myself for Jesus, so you are going to have to try real hard if you want me.. I'm practically a nun."
Author:  jurupa [ Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: lieing about age BIG QUESTION
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The bottom line is Men Value Youth and Beauty (Soft Skinned, Silky Haired, Youthful and Beautiful, Hip to Waist Ratio)
A woman on the other hand will date a guy (realisitcally speaking) up to about 10 years her senior for the relationship to work long term, providing
she has a reason to "invest" in him if he's older.

In fact a global study by David M Buss (a sexual evolution and human relationship expert) found that men desire Looks, Health and Beauty in a woman, whereas women look for Social Status, Social Connections and Alliances, Achievements, Access to future Resources, Protection, Shelter etc.

The above in itself is not undermining Pick Up, but even Neil Strauss said, even the most charming of PUAs will eventually get dumped, if a guy has no ambition or future careers lined up.
In general this is certainly true for both sexes. You do have abnormals tho, like older women going after younger guys, 50 year old plus guys going after 20 something girls, gold diggers, materialistic girls, etc.
Author:  crucifizzio [ Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:11 am ]
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im 36 i look 26...i dont lie because if she is attracted to you it wont matter...if it does you should be glad she told you...
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