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| Author: | Fin [ Sat Dec 20, 2008 12:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Three steps to AWESOME game in 5 days! |
HOW TO GET HOT SUPERMODELS AND ADULT FILM STARS IN YOUR BED WITHIN 5 DAYS! Hopefully you will realise the irony of the above title/s once your done reading this post. Truth is there is no list of tricks, which will make you better and give you the sexual social and romantic lifestyle of your dreams. Every time I meet someone who doesn’t know I do PU, when they find out, their first question is inevitably. “So how do I go about getting a girl to sleep with me/be my GF/other general question?” They expect me to lean over and whisper in their ear, “Eat more garlic, the chicks will love you?” It sounds ridiculous? So why do so many of us always expect a thread with this above title, to be a complete revelation, or to shine more light on a subject that has had us puzzled for so long? So many guru’s, teachers, PUA’s and masterseductionsuperOWNZORZ, are infatuated with rambling about how simple this is. I also fall for this particular sin as well. The horrible thing about PU, is that once you understand it, it all becomes incredibly easy, until then your struggling to keep up with comfort, getting rapport, building attraction, developing a sexual frame, ensuring your inner game is in check, wondering when to close, panicking because you are not using Kino enough then spending hours pondering over that AMOG who wanted you to hold his drink. Here’s the honest truth, PU is vague, it’s esoteric it’s conceptualised it’s full of paradox’s and razor edge balances between factor A and Factor B. It’s pumped full of one person telling you one thing while another shouts something different. PU is a huge topic, there are an infinite number of ways to approach the subject, and many different variables that you will have to remember. And that’s why there is no secret potion. No tip that will change it forever.. …TRUST ME THERE ARE NONE. My inbox has been flooded with PU newsletters telling me they’ve found the number one secret way that will change the face of pick up forever, and guess what, it’s never anything new, it’s just simple game. So why do some people find it effortless, and others almost impossible? I think it lies in the understanding of concepts in general, the internalisation, see once you understand the idea’s of PU, not the details, but the general outlines of it, then things become a lot easier. So next time you have a problem… “Comfort isn’t working out for me?” “Why am I getting LMR?” “How should I deal with people in set being rude to me?” “Why isn’t she attracted to me?” Think less about what words you say, or even how you say it! First think, what is attraction/comfort/whatever? Where does it come from? How is it created? THAT! Is the important part. THAT! Is what PU is based on, not clever words or lines, or striking Tyler Durden Macho Man poses; but concepts, theories and idea’s. Look at those first. Then look at the details of putting them into your game, this thinking is what I base my learning process in ALL things on, whether that is PU or whatever. Trying to jam clever lines and witty push/pull routines, is pointless is you don’t have a grasp of the basic building blocks. Look at the basics; then move to the intricacies involved in applying them. Try it out you will learn and progress much faster this way, I promise. |
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| Author: | madals [ Sat Dec 20, 2008 4:36 pm ] |
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Quote: So many guru’s
LMAO! (dont worry if you dont understand)This is the honest truth, once you understand something, it becomes easy. Any1 can remember stuff, few can understand. Madals |
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| Author: | DB2012 [ Sat Dec 20, 2008 4:40 pm ] |
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nice thread.. |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 12:12 am ] |
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Great post man! I agree with Madals, it is sad how fast we forget how it is to be completely new at something. I feel like I can tell someone everything I know about pickup in 2 hours when in fact that would be all the stuff I do not need anymore. The true learning (understanding) is the one that you dont know that you get. We develop a new social programming, we unlearn all the truths that our mothers taught us. We develop our frame, our reality changes. Things we take for granted now took us hours to work up the courage to do before. Today I negged (cocky-funny stuff) a girl without thinking about it. Yesterday I was on a public transport making conversation with a girl I did not game, she suggested that we should exchange phone numbers in the end. I didnt do anything. Game has become our natural way of behaving. It feels natural because we are loaded with new understandings of what is appropriate and not. We know the rules of human interaction. And we could not explain these things to someone else even if we tried. We have understood our roles in creation etc... This is why the PU gurus teach routines. They give us tools to discover the mysteries that only we can find, through experience. BTW ever attended the ball of Inverness? Love Ezo |
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| Author: | supern00b [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 9:11 pm ] |
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Seriously though, you should tell someone something crazy like, if you eat more garlic or wear stuff with purple in it you will do better. Its a mental thing. I heard this story once about this salesman who wasn't really paying attention in his meetings and he thought he heard that (not sure exactly which month) november was the best month to sell their product. In fact, it was the worst month of sales every year, and he ended up shattering all records and becoming the top agent every month after that. But I do agree with the part you guys are talking about. Honestly, I came over wondering what this is and thinking about ripping it apart because 5 days ...is not a lot. |
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| Author: | Fin [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 8:19 pm ] |
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Quote: Great post man!
Cheers man thanks for the kind words.I agree with Madals, it is sad how fast we forget how it is to be completely new at something. I feel like I can tell someone everything I know about pickup in 2 hours when in fact that would be all the stuff I do not need anymore. The true learning (understanding) is the one that you dont know that you get. We develop a new social programming, we unlearn all the truths that our mothers taught us. We develop our frame, our reality changes. Things we take for granted now took us hours to work up the courage to do before. Today I negged (cocky-funny stuff) a girl without thinking about it. Yesterday I was on a public transport making conversation with a girl I did not game, she suggested that we should exchange phone numbers in the end. I didnt do anything. Game has become our natural way of behaving. It feels natural because we are loaded with new understandings of what is appropriate and not. We know the rules of human interaction. And we could not explain these things to someone else even if we tried. We have understood our roles in creation etc... This is why the PU gurus teach routines. They give us tools to discover the mysteries that only we can find, through experience. BTW ever attended the ball of Inverness? Love Ezo And no, no I haven't, care to explain? |
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| Author: | A Minor [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 7:39 am ] |
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I enjoyed reading every word of that. I'm not MPUA but its become obvious at this stage that this is more a mater of naturalization than learning more and more lines. I look forward to the day where it is all internalized and natural... and I don't have to ponder, for even a split second, as to when I should call/what I should text. |
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