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| Author: | Eminem [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:20 am ] |
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This girl I met on the internet. Ok she has a boyfriend and she wanted to hang out with me and sled.. k well i guess i took too long, w/e i prolly did but i was just chillin and i didnt think there was a hurry. anyway so she getsher friend and a guy friend. then im on my waay n it turns out the place they wanna sled is closed... k so we hang out at dennys. and her other friends sho up. im just chillin talkin a bit to everybody but they just being weird like girls are havin their own convo n shit. i didnt think it ws a fiar situation cuz she knew this guy friend from hangin out with him a few times n havin a class with him. so they have way more rapport than me and her. she dont talk much to me, but she dont talk to other guy much either bein all distant n shit. well we move to smokin area to meet up with more of her friends. n shes all close with her friend talkin 1v1 with her. me and hte guy n her other friends all talkin. I guess I coulda somehow isolated her but the premis of me bein there was to be her friend and I didn't know what to do. anyway it was lame. so she has to take her friend home (legitimately i think) n i was like i gave her a hug. w/e we talk afterward n she wants to go to the club with same four of us. Idk, i need to get her alone.. she said she wants to hang out with me alone n get to kno me better. idk i dont feel like goin to the club is a great idea. i need to get her. she thinks she can be frisky with guys but then not fuck, but she said she dont regret if shit goes down. but i felt crippled to make moves on her in front of all her friends who know shes taken. im kinda really puzzled about what i did wrong and what i should do. im sure ull need more info.. i kno i made mistakes i just really dont kno what they were and what i shoulda done differently... |
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| Author: | Eminem [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:24 am ] |
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what i said about her sayin she thinks she can be frisky we actually talked about. she has cheated on her boyfriend with the same guy like 3 times. but she says she dont wanna do it anymore. i think the logical part of her brain wants us to just be friends but she obviously really wants more but she also wants more from this other guy and i think thats fucked up that shes gunna invite us to hang out together... i kno she wants me to be her friend no doubt, but we need to get to the sex i need to make a move on her, i just dont kno when. i guess ill just do it at the club no matter whos there.. but she seems to think she can do everything like play pediddle and shit short of sex and its cool. so i need to make sure im escalating up to sex and shes ready for it so i dont get resistance if that makes sense. im kinda lost here guys plz help i think when im makin moves on her i need to do something that u would not do if ur just getting frisky with a friend.. maybe like a meaningful kiss or dance with her more intimately. u kno the difference between her bein caught up in the fun vs bein caught up by me and want to fuck me. i need to separate the fun and get her escalating for sex in her mind.. |
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| Author: | Eminem [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 7:29 pm ] |
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bump. shit i got a pretty damn good answer on the new questions relating to this situation (i just briefly asked if there was such a thing as a frisky friends zone) but could someone give me the breakdown of the actual scenario n what to do? |
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| Author: | Lucius [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 2:39 am ] |
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I dont know bro, seems like an easy situation for me, she wants to go to a club, great...Take her there chat a little, say some funny shit, make her laugh, she will get little tipsy, then take her to dance floor, grind on her, talk with sexy voice, if possible make out, if not just leave the dance floor take her in a place where there is no friends/guys she knows and run a DIRECT game on her. Then qualify her right after you do it, tell her something about herself that you notice and really like, tell her something about herself that she might not know but its true. Talk emotions and after you notice that she really likes you, you can go on and talk about other shit, but when she gets home she will be thinking about the things you said to her. Just make sure when you run direct to be little more serious so she doesnt think you just trying to be funny again or confuse her... |
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| Author: | Eminem [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 3:57 am ] |
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thanks. I'll try to do that. I don't go to clubs so it will be different for me but ill get it |
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| Author: | Nogame [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 6:27 am ] |
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I met this girl on the internet ....thread over |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 9:31 am ] |
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Sounds like a whole world of head games. Yes, you could make a move at a club and probably get somewhere but why? is she hotter than other girls that will be at the club? I'm guessing not and so instead of bogging yourself down with a whole world of BS I would just go after other people. The jealousy plot may get you the result you wanted anyway. Im pretty sure by the "but we need to get to the sex" line that is what you are interested in but I'll ask anyway, what is it you want from this girl? |
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| Author: | Eminem [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 9:10 pm ] |
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i try to respect that this is a PUA site with pua advice. and therefore when i get advice i try not to mix it up with other shit but me? what do i want i want he to be a fuck buddy cuz she seems cool well... i guess she SEEMED cool. now i just want to fuck her? i think. but you're right its become complicated and it shouldnt. |
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| Author: | invincible77 [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 9:51 pm ] |
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Be cocky and funny with her!!! You will perk her interest if you are. Go to the club with her. For 1 you will have been pre-selected since you are going to the club with other girls. This gives you an excellent opportunity to open new sets because of your increased value. She will see you talking to other girls and it will only propagate her attraction. Bust her balls. Laugh at her. After you guys develop a level of comfort together... isolate and escalate.  Good luck |
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