I was just wondering, do you think it's REALLY a sign of impending mental collapse to speak to yourself aloud?

What's been the biggest realization for you in regard to pick up and how did it affect your success?

I have lived a terribly crazy interesting life... yet I still seem to be uninteresting when I talk about my life (I've learned only talk about it when asked) I can't seem to express myself without completely alienating my fellow high-schoolers?

How do I become interesting (to the kids, the parents love me) when talking about myself, and these experiences that I love to share?

Johnny, to me you come across as an incredibly honest, sincere, caring guy who really gives a damn about what women think.

What gets me is that 9/10 of guys who tend to behave like this get dumped into the friends zone.

What you appear to be able to do, to connect with women while fulfilling yourself sexually, never fails to amaze me. It's what actually separates you in my mind from the other gurus, that while you all might share a real love for women, it seems like you don't have to 'fake it' in the process: act disinterested, play hard-to-get, etc. Which I find very odd given some of the more classic ideas about seduction.

So did that always work for you, or is the fact that you're able to behave so sincerely and have enormous success with women due to the lifestyle and identity you've built for yourself, and the value that's consequently demonstrated from it? In other words... teach me. Please?

Ok, first off, I can relate to all of this except the part where you WANT to be dealing with high-schoolers? When I was in high-school, I was only interested in college girls or at least high-school grads... the high school kids were virtually ALL DULL.

The easiest way to 'become interesting' to anyone is to ensure you LISTEN TO THEM, and frequently encourage them to tell you more and more about themselves and their experiences.... Being CURIOUS is insanely powerful, because it allows you to be a 'great conversationalist' - ie, someone who lets them talk about themselves

If you want to share things with fundamentally dull people, you need to frame your stories in ways which can involve them - try to ensure you continually check back with your listeners to ensure they are still with you, and ask them intermittently if they've has experiences like this themselves - AND THEN LET THEM TELL YOU, before you continue with your own story.

Best of luck with it!

Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy

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Hey Johnny, I've been watching your videos and I'm half-way through all of it. You'll be sure to get a P.M from me in the future.

Your joke question inspired this question that I have been thinking about for quite some time. I never had the slightest clue to ask this until I saw your post. More often than not I, without even realizing that I'm doing this, start pretending to have a conversation with a certain person that I imagine myself talking with. It really ranges from friends, girlfriends, to girls that I wanna make friends with. I do this at random periods like when I'm showering, cooking, and even driving. Eventually I interrupt my train of thought and think to myself "What the hell am I doing?" I then feel pretty ashamed because I find it odd that I just end up pretending to have a conversation. Most of the time, I usually say something that I would like to tell the person with the perfect timing. I'm asking you: is this normal? or have I gone completely mental?

Hey Johnny.

You speak alot about inner game, and how doing nice things for people will brush off on other people but do you play the soft friendly type?

I guess my main question is in regards to other forms of Pickup, do you still use techniques from other forms of pick up such as negging and opinion openers and all that bollocks?

Or are you just completely honest and straight up with the girl and simply tell her how sweet she looks and that your interested.

It's hard to know what works and what doesn't when you see so many contradictions on this forum ya know?