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Author:  anutharound [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 11:56 pm ]
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I have had sex about 7 days in a row with 4 different girls. Sounds great eh? It's alright I guess, but I have a problem. I am getting bored with sex. Today I barely even had the motivation to sleep with a girl even though she wanted me super bad. Does this happen to anyone else or is it just me? I really love women, but I think I'm going to start having problems enjoying them as much as I normally do if this continues. Any questions comments would be very welcome.
Author:  Plethora [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 12:59 am ]
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I feel really sympathetic for you man, must be pretty tough.
Author:  trackjunkie [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 2:52 am ]
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i know what you mean

I had sex 39 times in 8 days. the skin behind my balls was gone from hitting aganist her vagina, it hurt to walk, go to the gym, and I was starving and sleep deprived.

I told her i can only have sex once a week, maybe twice if she earns it, she is going bonkers as I type.

Sex is fun in moderation, as with anything.

As for advice, I'd just have fun with them, sex once every few nights is okay.
Author:  GrannySnatcher [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:20 am ]
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the skin behind my balls was gone from hitting aganist her vagina
lol dude
Author:  anutharound [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:25 am ]
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I feel really sympathetic for you man, must be pretty tough.
I think you are being sarcastic, but it really does suck. Like back when I was more afc I thought almost that sex would fulfill me Maybe that's the problem is I'm realizing that it doesn't its just a pleasure. I guess my question then is how can I learn to enjoy life in all its facets more?
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Sex is fun in moderation, as with anything.

As for advice, I'd just have fun with them, sex once every few nights is okay.
I think this could be good advice maybe I'm overdoing it. It's kind of hard to enjoy alot of life when you in a bed with a girl an extra 4 hours every day.
Author:  The Wild One is back [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:27 am ]
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I have had sex about 7 days in a row with 4 different girls. Sounds great eh? It's alright I guess, but I have a problem. I am getting bored with sex. Today I barely even had the motivation to sleep with a girl even though she wanted me super bad. Does this happen to anyone else or is it just me? I really love women, but I think I'm going to start having problems enjoying them as much as I normally do if this continues. Any questions comments would be very welcome.
haha nope never ever been bored with sex I'm addicted to it. I could have sex forever it's the ultimate high! The only problem I have is finding time to sleep. Also dude it's an amazing workout the more sex you have the more cut up you get.
Author:  anutharound [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:36 am ]
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Also dude it's an amazing workout the more sex you have the more cut up you get.
lol that's hilarious. Maybe I should have more sex and not workout. I'm curious though what is so good about it? Like I will admit the first few times were amazing, but after awile it has just become more and more routine ya know?
Author:  Mr. Fickle [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:48 am ]
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I'm no expert actually I'm quite the opposite. Is there a possibility that you are looking for something more emotionally fulfilling like a dare I say long term relationship?


idk look at the heirarchy of needs a figure out whats missing. you are in the perfect position to self-actualize
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow_hierarchy_of_needs


maybe see a psychiatrist for guidance?
Author:  The Wild One is back [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 5:01 am ]
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Also dude it's an amazing workout the more sex you have the more cut up you get.
lol that's hilarious. Maybe I should have more sex and not workout. I'm curious though what is so good about it? Like I will admit the first few times were amazing, but after awile it has just become more and more routine ya know?
Well right now I have a few g/f's my favorite is a total bombshell, and bi-sexual. She owns her sexuality and we can experiment in the bedroom. She brings over girls and her best friend who's also into me usually stay at my place. The sex life I have is amazing man I don't ever get bored I love going x-mas shopping with them and watching them pick up new kinky things to spice up our love life. Sex is awesome, and not only that we are all good friends so we have a great emotional connection. I wouldn't quit my normal workout routine but add allot of rigorous sex into the mix and your going to be pretty cut. O yeah FYI one of these girls also models underwear! Maybe your girl is just boring in bed, and doesn't have a high sex drive or maybe you don't have a high sex drive.
Author:  Swoop [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 9:12 am ]
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Maybe your girl is just boring in bed, and doesn't have a high sex drive or maybe you don't have a high sex drive.
This is what I was thinking too. I recently stopped having sex with this one chick because she was just lame! It was like working with the handicapped. (no offense to anyone that might be handicapped)

If its not the girl/girls, then its YOU! You may need to unfuck something going on in your head. Also, if getting laid is always an option, take breaks. For example, I don't roll on Shabbas. And the best part is, I'm not even Jewish!
Author:  Plethora [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 9:31 am ]
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I feel really sympathetic for you man, must be pretty tough.
I think you are being sarcastic, but it really does suck. Like back when I was more afc I thought almost that sex would fulfill me Maybe that's the problem is I'm realizing that it doesn't its just a pleasure. I guess my question then is how can I learn to enjoy life in all its facets more?
Look on the bright side. What would your old AFC self tell you if you were to tell him this problem right now? This is quality problem man.

Women enjoy the act of sex much more than men (hence all of the moans and 'earthshaking' orgasms), but men like the feeling of having sex more. I know it sounds odd, but sex is more emotional for the man than it is for the woman. Sure it feels good for us, but the major motivator isn't the sensation, it is the validation and sense of being that alpha male.

If you took a steep climb to get to where you are at right now, then you probably had a gaping hole of sexual validation that your body was craving. Now that you have attained that validation, the motivator to having sex is gone. You are now in the alpha male's realm, and sex should be for fun and just a part of your life, not a holy grail that you once thought it was.

IMO, to get the fun back, you're first option would be to really bond with one of the girls and have fun outside of sex. For me, when I've hung out one on one with a girl before, sex is so much more fun than a ONS, or even a fuck buddy. If you don't feel a connection, then go out hunting for new talent, that will get your juices flowing again. We are not programmed to settle. We are meant to spread our seed with as many genetically gifted ladies as possible, especially now that you have this better map of reality where picking up girls is easy. I would either go the route of promiscuity, or the route of companionship.
Author:  anutharound [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 5:23 pm ]
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hm I like that way of looking at it pleth. I think I know what I need to do, thanks for the replies guys.
Author:  Fame2Advancement [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 6:12 pm ]
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Raise your standards man! From the tone of your thread and its titled (bored with sex) it sounds like you have a "quality problem". Are the women average looking, fat, ugly, crap in bed, one night stands- if so start working your way up the leagues.
Don't be dismissive of things you don't currently have and start laying MLTRs. I mean if you are getting HB8.5s, 9s and 10s then you should be an instructor!

I love sex, the only thing I like more than sex, is sex that is equal to or better than the last girl I slept with. As it is 50% Physical Sensation and 50% Psychological.
If you aren't physically attracted to the girls you're laying then as far as I'm concerned you're failing your own desires.
Too many guys project far too much Physical Value onto women that arent that hot.
Author:  anutharound [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 6:58 pm ]
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it was 3 7s and an 8. I have no problem going for the 10s, but it is possible that I am settling personality wise. It's like I never wanted to be that guy that gets with a girl once and leaves them, but when I get bored with them even when I sleep with the the first time its pretty damn hard. Maybe I am settling on personality more than looks. It's just really hard to find a girl that actually fits up to my standards personality wise.
Author:  Rye Lee [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 7:45 pm ]
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If you were really into the girls that you were sleeping with, then you wouldn't have this problem. You need to be getting together with girls that you have deep connections with. When you are with a girl that you are absolutely crazy about, then you'll be able to go at if for 7 days straight, to the point where you are getting chaffed and in pain, but you still want to keep going at it because you want to be so close and intimate with them.
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