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| Author: | GATA [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Stuck between a rock and a hard place |
So for the past few weeks my game has been on fire, my numbers in every aspect (#, k, and f -closes) have increased significantly. But despite all of this, I'm fucking single and it's starting to pissing me off. I think part of it has to do with the fact that I used to be the guy who fell for certain girls hard and fast, and when I got into PUA I may have re-wired my brain to remain as emotionally detached as possible. It's gotten so bad that after they begin to have an emotional connection with me and express interest in going further than just sex, I don't know how to deal. I don't even think I know how to take it to the next level anymore. Girls see me as cocky, arrogant, self-centered, overly ambitious... but they still want to fuck me....and nothing more. I also think part of the problem is that I AM overly ambitious when it comes to my career and anything else in my life... "I want what's coming to me... the world and everything in it." I want the best, and my ideal girl that I would go into a relationship with is perfect and will drive me to success... Like they say "behind every good man there's an even better woman." Everyone should expect the best, don't get me wrong, but the problem is that everytime I get somewhat close to a girl I find her little faults and I am turned off by them immensly. How do you guys deal with this? |
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| Author: | Stetson [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 3:52 pm ] |
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By time. As the time passes with a certain girl, you get more attached to her. You start to notice that all her before so big flaws are not a huge factor anymore. You feel love. |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 3:55 pm ] |
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I would try looking in different places, you are unlikely to find a gf in the same place you would be getting f-closes etc and the guy above is right you will have a girl rise to the top of the pile (god what an awful choice of phrasing lol) but you know what I mean, girls will come and go one or two will be special pursue these and there is your gf material |
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| Author: | GATA [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 4:07 pm ] |
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Quote: I would try looking in different places, you are unlikely to find a gf in the same place you would be getting f-closes etc and the guy above is right you will have a girl rise to the top of the pile (god what an awful choice of phrasing lol) but you know what I mean, girls will come and go one or two will be special pursue these and there is your gf material
Well see I really don't like clubs per se, and when I go to bars it's usually just to have a few beers with the guys and nothing more. I don't like the type of woman I meet in a club or bar and my game isn't really strong in these places anyway, so I don't try.I run most of my game on campus. Intelligent women are my weakness. The problem doesn't lie with the type of women that I meet... I'm attracted to the 'girl next door' look, you know the one, the type of girl you can take home to mom and dad... the girl who you would never expect to be wild. Basically, I go for the Jackie's, not the Marilyn's. My biggest difficulty is taking it to the next level. I think I've actually FORGOTTEN how to have a girlfriend. I'm actually thinking about refraining from sex with the next girl I meet until I'm emotionally connected with her. But then I'd run into the possibility of having a one-itis, which was my original problem and why I got into PUA in the first place. [/i] |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Sun Nov 30, 2008 3:40 pm ] |
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ahhh cool cool I think it is about waiting for something to come along (not in an non-pua way, more of a increase the chances of meeting the right girl by continuing to game women). Also no sex is a great idea and a good way to manage expectations, if you tell a girl you don't want to have meaningless sex and want to wait for someone you really like and connect with, then that will weed out one night stand things and let you select from the genuine girls that are left 
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| Author: | GATA [ Sun Nov 30, 2008 5:03 pm ] |
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Very true, thanks jaybot |
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