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| Author: | El Tiburon [ Wed Apr 25, 2007 5:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | A Really Crazy Story Need Help |
So, I have this crazy story that happened to me several weeks ago and I still haven't figured out what happened. Here is the situation and I would really love to get some feedback from real PUAs. So I started working on a school project with this girl (let's call her Veronica), who is freshman in college and I am about 6 years older than her. Regardless, I had to work with her on a social event together. We had to do all the planning, booking venues, promotion etc. The first time we met I though she was kind of cute but I didn't really felt like making a move on her or anything. At this point it was all about work. We start talking first about random things, then about the project, and then since it got pretty late we start talking about about random things again. Then she tells me she is hungry. I tell her "well, let's go grab something to eat". Since she is not from the city she doesn't know many places, so I take her to this Chinese restaurant. We order, eat, talk, she tells me about her ex-boyfriend and how he cheated on her and so on. She tells me how she is very proud and doesn't let her emotions show, etc. Then when she was done with her love stories she pauses and says "So, What's up with you?" giving me a funny smile. Like I said at that point I wasn't into her, I mean I thought she's cute but I wasn't considering dating her or anything, so I was like "well, nothing is up with me." I knew she expected me to tell her if I was single or not, so I didn't do that and instead I lunged into a crazy story I had with an ex who cheated on me. Dinner went really well and during the conversation it came up that she wants to get into med school and that she wants to be a doctor. Since I have a lotta med students friends I told her "I am having lunch with a whole bunch of people from med school this Saturday. Why don't you come along to meet some of them, get a feel what med school is like." She was hesitant at the time but I didn't pressure her for an answer either. Anyway, dinner was done, I picked up the bill and walked her home. Before we parted she gave me a hug and thanked me for the food. Then I left and went home. On the next day I get an email from her telling me she wants to meet again because this other girl we were working with couldn't make it the night before and she wanted to meet me. I was like - sure, why not. So, we met, meeting went fine, nothing interesting really. Anyway, end of the week comes and I get a hold of Veronica to find out if she still wants to come for lunch. I told her I need to know so that I chould tell my friend how many places to reserve at the restaurant. She agreed and we made arrangements when to pick her up. I picked her up, we went for lunch and even though she was kind of shy I though she had a good time. I wasn't surprised she was shy because she practically didn't know anyone else but me and they all were graduate students. Lunch was done and since it was a great weather outside I didn't feel like going home and I asked Veronica what she wants to do. She told me she didn't know, which to me means - you decide for me. So, I took her to this coffee shop place, really nice place. We grabbed some coffee (mind you so far I'd been paying for everything) sat down and started talking. She started telling me how zealous of a Christian she is, how she doesn't believe in sex before marriage and stuff like that. While we were talking she kept reading an old newspaper which I found pretty annoying. She didn't want to keep eye contact but then we were sitting next to each other so it's not like we were facing each other. Anyway, 3 hours later, we decide to leave and on the way back she tells me she is hungry and that she feels like African food. We stop by this African place eat, talk about random stuff and then I noticed she was looking at me kind of weird with a strange smile on her face. She was looking at me with this glazed look I didn't quite get at the time. So, I asked her "what are you smiling about?" She said "Only heavens will say..." I was thinking - what the hell??? Why don't you tell me. So, she doesn't tell me what's up. We start talking about othe random stuff and she tells me how she wants to lose weight. Since I go to the gym a lot I told her I was gonna go that evening and if she wants to come along. She agreed, so we made an appointment to meet at the gym around 9. I walked her home, no hugs or kisses or anything. Again at this stage I was not into her. I was like - ok, it's kinda weird that I spent a whole day with her but whatever, we are just friends. Slowly however I started feeling like I was getting into her. Anyway, I went to the gym and she showed 10 minutes later. Since she doesn't know how to do almost any exercises I show her a couple and how to do them. I practically abandoned my own workout to teach her how to do the exercises right. I didn't mind because I was getting into her and thought she's kinna cute and that maybe I can do something with her...what that something would be - I wasn't sure. About an hour later we were done and left the gym. She told me she is hungry and that the place where she ate on campus is closed. So, I offered to go to this Iraqi restaurant which serves great kebobs. We stopped by my house to grab my wallet, grabbed a cab and went straight down there. While she was in my room she looked through my books, I played her some music, it was all good. Mind you at that time I was stupid enough not to make a move. We had a great time and really felt like we were bonding fine. This is when I started getting really into her. So, we had dinner, she loved the place, had some random talk about her family, family business and then I caught her looking at me with that same look like she wants to tell me something. I didn't ask her anything but somehow in the conversation came up what she thought of me when she first saw me. She said she couldn't tell me. I was like - cmon you gotta tell me, I don't care if it's bad. She was smiling all cute and then said I'll tell you by the end of the night. So, I left it at that. I picked up the bill again and we left. I walked her home and I was supid enough just to let her go, no kiss goodbye, no nothing. That didn't matter to me that much because we had made plans to go to her church tomorrow. So, we went to her church, she had a good time, I was kind of bored but didn't show it. Anyway, church was done, she said she had homework to do, I told her I admired her passion for Christ and anyway that was that. On Monday we had to get the project shit popping and I asked her to meet and talk about it. By that time I had made up my mind and wanted simultaneously to take her out for dinner and close her. Too late for that though because she turned 180 degrees on me. Ever since then she started treating me like a total trash. She would refuse to meet with me for whatever reason, she would be bitchy, complain, whatever. Whatever went wrong with the project it was my fault. I was like ok, whatever, but it bugged me she changed so much. So next time I met her she was a total bitch - really cold, distant, didn't even want to look at me. When I asked her what's wrong, she would say nothing, it was really fucked up. The event came around and she danced with every other guy but me. Since I was running the party I had to run around all the time and she was having a good time. I don't care, so sometime later she told me she was leaving. I was pissed at her and was like - ok, bye. She then told me she was sorry for being rude. I was like ok-fine. Since then we didn't really had to meet each other but when I occasionally met her she would say hi and was nice. I was thinking she is nuts, I don't wanna deal with her. What is bugging me however is what the hell happened to her overnight and why she turned on me like this. Now I admit I acted like a total AFC and should have made a move earlier. So, it's not like my game was superb. At that time it was lacking to start with. This is the story. Any feedback is welcome. |
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| Author: | ASUstunner [ Thu Apr 26, 2007 11:31 pm ] |
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Bro it sounds like she may have just lost interest. When you meet a girl you definetly do not want to hang with her the whole dam day. Didnt you take her to like 3 restuarants in a day.. that is unheard of. You probable just spent to much time with her. Next time I would limit the date to a hour or two and not the whole day. |
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| Author: | Paetar [ Fri Apr 27, 2007 5:45 am ] |
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I'd say she is pissed at you (so you say it this way ?)because you didn't make a move, so she lost interest. Now it's maybe pretty much blown up, I am actually at the same point with some of mine girls. Lets try to figure this out and share the information, OK? The easiest way out of this point is LJBF. But I hate that, and I guess you do too, so lets try something different. Attract her again. Show her your sexiest traits and make her want you. Chances are you could do it again, its not yet absolutely lost. Also, she was once attracted to you, so it should maybe be easier this time. Keep you posted, keep us posted. Carpe Diem. |
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| Author: | Valence [ Fri Apr 27, 2007 9:44 pm ] |
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It is real simple: When you were not into her, you were a challenge. When you became into, you became AFC. There is never any 'move'. It is the sum of many moves. Read this entire website: http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/ |
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| Author: | El Tiburon [ Tue May 01, 2007 11:52 pm ] |
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I guess that makes sense. It makes a lotta sense actually. Thanks for the input. |
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| Author: | El Tiburon [ Wed May 02, 2007 12:06 am ] |
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I agree the whole day date is a little bit over the top but it wasn't planned like that. It kinna happened. So, it's not like I made a schedule for that weekend. It was just that one thing led to the other. Paeter, I won't see this girl until September, so I guess it will be a fresh start. I was totally acting like an AFC. Now I know better. Now I am trained or getting trained  Will keep you posted on the progress. |
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| Author: | cagewalker [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 1:59 pm ] |
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its september. what's the progress pilgrim? |
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