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Author:  Jaybot [ Sat Nov 22, 2008 12:53 am ]
Post subject:  Influencing positions of people

I wish I could think of a better description lol anyways I went out tonight (yes I have mumps or something and its taking over my torso now :S) nothing major just to get out of the house and to grab a much needed beer.
The illness limited me to not actually being able to breathe directly onto people or near them so essentially all chance at in depth conversation or close proximity was killed. enough back story

Skip forward me and my housemate are in a 2 set and I notice that a cute girl I had said probably 4 words to earlier (I was avoiding talking so I didn't infect anyone) was moving closer and closer. We are talking almost touching type close, so I decided to try something every time she moved in I would move slightly closer to my housemate (we were stood in a square) and sure enough she would move slightly nearer to me. The other girl then began moving in (from her point of view the set was getting closer but she wasn't moving). This made the feel of the set a little more intimate.

That was awfully described but if anyone understands this and can shed some light or similar experiences on this sort of thing it would be good.
Its crazy how when one part of your game (see all of) is missing you can really pick apart interactions also don't worry in a week or two I will be going back for the cutie :P

Author:  Lucius [ Sat Nov 22, 2008 3:33 am ]
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its called proximity, girls who find you attractive or w/e will move closer to you so you would open them, same way you move closer to a girl that you like...

Author:  Jaybot [ Sat Nov 22, 2008 11:14 am ]
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I re-read that this morning and it doesn't describe what I mean too clearly I'll try again.

I think the easiest if I show it in awful paint drawings :P

In this picture you can see me and my wing just chilling at the bar (im on the right), as one girl moves towards me I move towards my wing;

http://img511.imageshack.us/my.php?imag ... entdr7.png

This is slowly bringing the set closer together and making my wings target feel awkward as everyone in the set is getting farther away from her but closer to each other. See below;
http://img179.imageshack.us/my.php?imag ... argkz6.png

eventually the set looks like the one below and the target moves in, taking it from a conversation to quite a sexually tense environment (everyone is almost touching in a practically empty bar);
http://img340.imageshack.us/my.php?imag ... agexj1.png



I really hope this makes some sense to someone. I will continue working on the idea of building sexual tension and changing the feel of sets using this sort of placement etc

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