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| Author: | rdonovan1 [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 6:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Picking up an ex |
Hey guys, I am just wondering as to what everyone might think about me possibly picking up an ex that is married. I've been thinking about this for a long time and for the most part I have pretty much abandoned it, and have just put it into the catagory of learning from the relationship that I had with her, but I still do kind of think about the possibility of picking up this girl. If I wanted to I could go up to where she lives, but unfortuantely I just can't predict as to how she might react if me and her were to see one another again and at the moment I do not really know much about her hubby. I've been thinking about this for a long time and have been trying to determine as to what the differences are between me, her and her husband at the moment I am pretty convinced that both me and her had a lot in common, probably more so than her and her hubby and I'm pretty sure that many of her decisions to marry the guy that she did was because of me and the relationship that I had with her. I know that this girl loved me and I loved her very much, but unfortunately at the time that I knew her I did not know a thing about the game and as to really handle things and if I had known then what I know now and if I had communicated to her how I felt about her at time time, then there is a good possibility that me and her could have gotten married. Over the years since the end of that relationship I have noticed a lot of strange conincidences that make me think that there is a joint pattern going on between me and her, but so far I have never been able to prove it. When I was dating her in 1987 I had a lot of ideas about joining the Air Force and going to the Air Force Academy, but unfortunately my grades were never really up to par and due to my eyesight that was pretty much a bust from the get go. When I was dating her I was very heavy into the heavy metal scene of the 1980's and prior to meeting this girl my whole idea was to get drunk, get high, hang out with my friends, and to get as much pussy as I could possibly get, but after I met her and fell in love with her all of that changed and at one time my mother told me that she thought that me and this girl would probably end up getting married, but at the time I pretty much just discounted what my mother said until I told this girl what my mother had said and her response was 'Maybe'. For the most part the relationship was pretty good the entire summer at least until I went up to the boundary waters with a church group for about a week and then when I came back and called her up on the phone she told me that she was breaking up with me. That kind of hit me like a runaway truck and it took me a while to get over the hurt feelings. Shortly after she broke up with me she started to follow me one day as I was walking to a firearm safety class. In another incident with her I told her one day while we were in school that I wanted to drive truck and live in Colorado. After that I pretty much forgot about the whole thing, but I did see her around Normandale Community College a few times after we graduated from high school, but I never approached her at all. I did however see her in the back of her car with a long haired skinny guy that I think is probably now her husband, but cannot say for sure about that. All that I know is that in the early 90's my mother and my stepfather ran into her one day while she was working at J.C. Penney's and she was asking about me, but I did not find out about that until much later. Shortly before I got divorced from my ex wife I was introduced to the game by David D. and ever since then it has been all downhill from there. After I started driving truck over the road my ex wife introduced me to classmates.com and I tried to look up this girl on there just out of curiousity, but she was not listed there. I did however find a link to a website that helps you find lost loves, friends, family, etc and at that time I got a report back that seemed to indicate that she might be married, but it wasn't until about two years later that I found out both from her mother and from another website that basically did the same thing as the first that she did indeed get married and that she moved to Colorado. From the report that I got I found out that she and her husband are now living in Colorado Springs and and that both her and her husband got married in Minnesota not to far from where I got married to my ex wife exactly one week to the day prior to when I got married to my ex wife and that the guy that she married was from the Denver, Colorado area. Since then I have pretty much forgotten about it except for learning from the relationship, but I still have the feeling that I may end up seeing this girl again as my mother and her boyfriend moved to Albuquerque in 2004 and I followed suit about two years later. Recently my sister and her husband have moved to the Denver area and I have a stepbrother that is supposed to be living in Cheyenne, Wyoming. While my family is important to me, I still tend to think about this girl and as to what I could have done right and wrong and what I could do better and due to both my family and this girl I have thought about the possibility of moving to Colorado Springs, but at the moment I am not quite sure as I am still kind of torn between what happened with this girl and the game and as a result I often tend to wonder as to whether I should pursue this girl or as to whether I should just forget about it and just try to be better than Mystery and Ross. I am wondering what everyone might think about this and as to what other people think as to what I should do about all of this. |
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| Author: | xBossx [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 8:32 am ] |
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Pass. I'm no guru but that sounds like it could screw a lotta people whether she ends up getting back together with you or not, including you |
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| Author: | rexlexia [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 8:52 am ] |
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3 billion and some odd girls out there. Leave this one alone. Not worth damaging someones marriage. |
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