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Author:  Gay [ Sat Nov 08, 2008 3:36 am ]
Post subject:  Why do I always go for ugly girls....?
Im really tired of having this issue.


I find myself sarging the girls that are like 6's and when I see an 8 or 9, I just don't open her.


"Shes got a boyfriend..." "Shes busy"
"She'll think im weird"
"What will i say?"

I mean come on... and then I feel like a 'player' because I have like 3 6's around me.


Then i'm embarrassed, and never talk to the 6's again.


WTF is wrong with me? How do I fix this????


Thanks guys.
Author:  Chief [ Sat Nov 08, 2008 6:06 am ]
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You've got an inner demon that acting as a sticking point. You feel like you don't truly deserve those 9s you're apprehensive about approaching.

Write down a list of 10 reasons why a hot babe would be lucky to be with you. In fact, post those 10 reasons here. Hey, everyone should post their 10 reasons here. I already did it. My 10 reasons are:

1. I can give hot, sexy women multiple orgasms.
2. I can make hot and sexy women feel truly desirable in so many ways on so many levels.
3. I am an endless source of excitement and fun for hot and sexy women.
4. I can make hot and sexy girls feel like real women.
5. I can make hot and sexy women feel better about themselves.
6. I can take the burden of leadership from those poor hot and sexy women.
7. I can give hot and sexy women higher social value just by my presence alone.
8. I look after my girls and care about my girls very much. They are hot and sexy.
9. I am comfortable in my own skin and any/all environments so I can make hot and sexy women feel comfortable as well.
10. I can detach when needed.

Make your list, post it here, and read it to yourself every fucking day until those affirmations become a part of who you are.
Author:  Solomon II [ Sat Nov 08, 2008 6:09 am ]
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You seem to think that the girls are higher value just because they're more attractive. It's a common misconception.

The answer to any question which starts with "what if..." is the same:

Who gives a shit?

As for everything else, like what to say, do exactly what you're doing with the 6's.
Author:  ConvAZN [ Sat Nov 08, 2008 9:49 am ]
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Solomon said it.

Just let yourself go! I can promise you my right pinky that you're not going to end up on the front page of tomorrow's newspaper if you're rejected or have one bad night (or in my case, several) with a girl. Part of PUA is exploring that part of you that you're afraid to let out because you're afraid of what everyone will think and/or expect out of you. So what if you fail, join the club. I've gotten the pleasure of getting a drink dumped on me.
Author:  NonStopReaper [ Sat Nov 08, 2008 11:17 am ]
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you sir sound like a buddy of mine he sorta has the same problem i once confronted him

NonStop: Hey man why do you always hit up on ugly chick? You can do better then that.
Scotty2Hotty: well i wont feel as bad when they reject me.
NonStop: Wouldnt that make it worst? i mean you just got rejected by an ugly chick.
Scotty2Hotty: Shut up man :cry: .
NonStop: hahaha that makes no sense at all.

the reason he said, is that he feels like its easyer to score and pick up ugly chicks, also he had a bad past experiance with a HB9 ex-g/f. He still an AFC and i got alot to teach him. I got him under my wing.

What i'm guessing is that you feels more comfortable hanging out with 6's but in the end you want more. the HB8 and 9 is out of your zone (or you think they are) You need to break out of your comfort zone. You have the game since you are picking up girls but you gotta raise your standards

What i do is i never rate a girl over 9 there all 7 and 8s to me and in my head i want a 9. So i go in already looking for a higher standard girl and just build up myself to that. Walk up to her think she will do anything to be with me .You.. my man you ARE the prize. Dont bring in the "What if's" in fact the "what if" dont exsist. When you doubt yourself is what hurts your game.
Author:  Artist617 [ Sat Nov 08, 2008 4:07 pm ]
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i go for ugly hot sexy whatever it is i dont care
Author:  MrMaker [ Sun Nov 09, 2008 12:45 am ]
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I used to have the same problem. Actually I got a ugly girlfriend first, then a hot one, then a ugly, hot, ugly, hot.. but now ive changed my standards, so most of the time now i dont care too much if i get rejected. Just try new thing and learn from your (and others) mistakes. Thats what makes your game better (like that has never been said before) *giggles*
Author:  Jaybot [ Sun Nov 09, 2008 2:40 am ]
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I had this problem for ages and still do to some degree but what fixed it for me was just biting the bullet and gaming them. In the back of my head I was like "10 seconds till shoot down" lol but you will be suprised how many gorgeous women are literally dying for someone to talk to them and better for us are impressed with guys that do and can hold a conversation, that isn't "You are so hot, let me buy you a drink".

Here is my mission for you, next time you are out pick the hottest girl in the bar and go and make conversation with her, don't aim for anything other than an interesting conversation. You may get blown out but I doubt it.
Author:  smartass [ Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:59 am ]
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Well, your "ugly" is probably a lot better than someone's "hot"....

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthrea ... =111777031

*** WARNING *** DO NOT CLICK THIS LINK IF YOU ARE DRINKING ANYTHING OR IF YOU LIKE YOUR PENIS, BECAUSE IT MIGHT FALL OFF. ****

bwahahahaha... seriously, I haven't laughed so hard in a long time and had to post this somewhere :lol:
Author:  d0nt hate [ Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:18 am ]
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lol smartass

was that serious?

did he think that hb1 was actually hot?
Author:  chi [ Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:47 am ]
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smartass that was mean and you should feel bad.
she probably has some sort of mild genetic birth defect which changed her features.

Though why the guy would post it up without mentioning it is beyond me.
Author:  smartass [ Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:09 am ]
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It was mean and I should feel bad.... but...

if it helps the original poster feel better about himself to go after those 7/8/9/10's...

but IMHO three 6's are better than a 1. :lol:
Author:  Gander [ Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:44 am ]
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What's the worst that can happen? well legitamately happen. You can run situations of oh what if? what if? in your head all day.
You obviously have some game if you can get three girls hooked to ya. So go run some game on someone you wanna have fun with.
Author:  Gay [ Mon Nov 10, 2008 1:49 am ]
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Thanks xD
Author:  FrequentFlyerCA [ Thu Nov 13, 2008 2:26 am ]
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Quote:
Well, your "ugly" is probably a lot better than someone's "hot"....

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthrea ... =111777031

*** WARNING *** DO NOT CLICK THIS LINK IF YOU ARE DRINKING ANYTHING OR IF YOU LIKE YOUR PENIS, BECAUSE IT MIGHT FALL OFF. ****

bwahahahaha... seriously, I haven't laughed so hard in a long time and had to post this somewhere :lol:
What in God's name was that? The swamp monster!?!? Anyways, thanks for making me feel about 10,000x better about myself.
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