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Author:  Temur/Jeskai [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 4:31 am ]
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-All girls are attracted to me,
-Not because I think so or I know so, because I am who I am and that means they are attracted to me
-Everything they do is an IOI
-Everything I do just makes them more attracted to me
-Given that they are attracted, I control the speed of the relationship.

Note: This does not mean you can stop progressing. You must combine everything you know about PU, Seduction whatnot into this frame, using everything you have and are learning. Also, if you want this frame to work, sometimes you must be blatant about how attracted women are to you. Approach every interaction with an HB in a half-serious/half-joking manner (straight from The Game :wink: ). Women may laugh at you and try and strike down your confidence but you cannot let this happen. There is no give here, no flexibility. If you stand up to the challenge that this frame presents, you will go far, perhaps quite fast.
Author:  jurupa [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 4:48 am ]
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It is impossible for every single girl to be attracted to you.
Author:  Enigma037 [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 5:23 am ]
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It is impossible for every single girl to be attracted to you.
While this may be true, I completely understand where he's coming from. Having that mindset is a good confidence boost and the attitude you need to convey while you are out and about
Author:  David~ [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 7:11 am ]
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Juggler goes a lot more in detail about this in his book Conversational Jijitsu.
Author:  Plethora [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 9:22 am ]
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I'll add couple more presuppositions that I feel are beneficial to life in general too:
-The map is not the territory
-Everything is my responsibility
-Nothing is my fault
-There are no failures, only feedback (sig)
-I cause everything in my life
Author:  jurupa [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 11:34 am ]
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-Everything is my responsibility
-Nothing is my fault
These two seem to be a git contradictory to each other.
Author:  Plethora [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 11:43 am ]
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-Everything is my responsibility
-Nothing is my fault
These two seem to be a bit contradictory to each other.
On the contrary 8)
These two complement each other. Fault implies you made a mistake, that there was some wrong-doing. Responsibility means that everything that you see happen in your world, that you made happen. There are no mistakes, there is no fault.

These, coupled together, are two very powerful NLP affirmations that can drastically improve your outlook on life. It allows you to take a lot more control over your existence, and evaluate/learn from everything that happens. It also rids you of guilt. If you truly internalize these, then any outcome you see in your life that is not favorable, instead of beating yourself up over it, you take an optimistic and analytical stance and improve yourself as to produce a much more positive result in the future.
Author:  V1V [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 5:30 pm ]
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its good for your inner game, but no not all women are attracted to you - and itd be a nasty trait to adopt.
Author:  Temur/Jeskai [ Mon Nov 03, 2008 11:56 pm ]
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I agree V1V. This did help me immeasurably over the weekend, read my FR for details. I think that it is good to approach every women like they are attracted to you, even if it is just in a half-joking/half-serious role-playing manner (ala Zan Perrion). It is possible for this frame not to come off too strong. A crucial part of this frame is that you control how attracted they are to you.
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Nov 04, 2008 4:26 am ]
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-Everything is my responsibility
-Nothing is my fault
These two seem to be a bit contradictory to each other.
On the contrary 8)
These two complement each other. Fault implies you made a mistake, that there was some wrong-doing. Responsibility means that everything that you see happen in your world, that you made happen. There are no mistakes, there is no fault.

These, coupled together, are two very powerful NLP affirmations that can drastically improve your outlook on life. It allows you to take a lot more control over your existence, and evaluate/learn from everything that happens. It also rids you of guilt. If you truly internalize these, then any outcome you see in your life that is not favorable, instead of beating yourself up over it, you take an optimistic and analytical stance and improve yourself as to produce a much more positive result in the future.
I didn't think of those two in the philosophy sense. :lol:
Author:  Slickback [ Tue Nov 04, 2008 5:32 am ]
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This just makes you seem cocky to girls doesnt it?

Like i dont mean to make this more redundant but i can see its benefits towards your inner game. But outside you seem cocky and any girl with dignity would hate you simply for knowing your better than her
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:01 pm ]
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This just makes you seem cocky to girls doesnt it?
To a certain extent yes. But part of being alpha male is being at least somewhat cocky.
Author:  V1V [ Tue Nov 04, 2008 5:32 pm ]
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This just makes you seem cocky to girls doesnt it?
To a certain extent yes. But part of being alpha male is being at least somewhat cocky.
not the cockyness its possesing a sense of humor and the confidence.
Author:  madals [ Tue Nov 04, 2008 5:54 pm ]
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I REALLY like this.
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-All girls are attracted to me,
This will stop any worry in your mind, it will make u feel confident.
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Not because I think so or I know so, because I am who I am and that means they are attracted to me
Honesty really is the best way 99% of the time. Be urself (the best you can be ofc) and people generally will be attracted towards you.
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Everything they do is an IOI
Eliminates the question of "is it going well". Ofc take it in reason, if she slaps you and storms off, might not be a good sign but generally speaking it will save you analysing her every move and becoming a social robot.
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Everything I do just makes them more attracted to me
Stops over thinking what you do, makes the interaction more natural!
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Given that they are attracted, I control the speed of the relationship
This takes away pressure, you should never go into an interaction (day 2 or open etc) expecting an outcome. If you do, u will likly try to force it (which will end badly) or when u dont do it kick yourself for it (confidence plumets). This enhances the natural interaction and doing things when u FEEL its right.

Madals
Author:  V1V [ Tue Nov 04, 2008 6:00 pm ]
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I REALLY like this.
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-All girls are attracted to me,

This will stop any worry in your mind, it will make u feel confident
true, but how will your confidence be affected if you find out shes not attracted to you? or your ego which would grow?
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