Just curious, if I'm crazy or it isn't just me.
When I go out I love to talk to anyone. Especially anyone fun w/ great energy and interesting conversation. Intuitively, you would think this be a great asset when it comes to sarging (since it demonstrates I'm not afriad to talk to anyone therefore I must not be hitting on you
), but it actually has the opposite effect.See, let's say I get into a conversation w/ a FUG set, and despite the fact that we could easily be the most fun people at the bar, all potential targets seem to disappear, completely ignore me if I attempt to bring them into the conversation, or half ass it until they can find ANY excuse to disengage.
On the flip side, if I'm out w/ a 9, it's the exact opposite, now everyone wants to know my story, even if we aren't really looking like we've having the best of times. Yet every female gives me the once over as they cop a feel on my soul. Hell, I remember this one time this asian hottie proped my date about having a threeway. That's the same night I found I me and her weren't going to make it down the isle.
So bottom line: is being seen w/ fatties and far-froms have the exact opposite of social proof, and therefore, should be avoided? Are women really this pathetically shallow?
I honestly don't have a clue here...