PUA Forum :: Alpha threatening me

If you're in high school, join the wrestling team. . . really . . .
Not sure the way you look but as you grow older, you will ALWAYS find people who will pick on you simply based on your physical stature. Their methods will change but their habits will not.

Toss the "fight" solution out the window. It's not an option.

"Ignoring" will neutralize the situation.

Done right, amoging the guy will put you 1 step ahead of the guy and make you shine in the eyes of others.

In class, I would have turned, taken the earphones off, smiled slightly.(Think George Clooney's "I understand everything that's going on here but I'm pretending to look confused" Look)

Then I'd just listen. He'd go, "Oh, duh . . . what are you retarded? duh . . blah, blah . . . " - translation = I'm the village idiot with a small penis.

Then motion your hands as if you're asking him to continue . . . he might, he might not. If he does his monkey act again, let him continue. Wait for the awkward silence. Then . . . "Finished now? Feel better?"

He'll cut in RIGHT AWAY, "Blah blah blah!"

Put your finger up and twist your head like you're surprised, "Oh . . .not finished . . . " Continue with the exaggerated (please continue) hand gestures "OK, OK . . .let it all out."

Always wait for the breaks and silence for him to think of another way to announce to the World that he has a short penis.

"You just don't get tired of this do you?" (shake your head like you just saw him pick his nose)

"OK OK . . but I don't have all day." (Look at your watch)

"Did you skip your . . . "SPAM" this week?" (the rabbit quote signs with your fingers)

(Or the simple walk away after the silence . . .but he will always try to say something to your back.) Turn . . . "Huh? I thought you were done. You really crave attention don't you?"

Author:	Nogame [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 7:45 am ]
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Lately this alpha has been threatening me, he wants to kick my ass and shit. All for no reason, just doesn't like me.I dont know if hes jealous or what but this kid is just annoying me. I have no idea how to deal with it, im like 120 pounds, no fighting experience at all. Makes an easy target to threaten violence on. I have no idea how to handle it really. I know that the "make friends with him" strategy wont work. I have no idea where to take it from here.

Author:	madals [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 9:58 am ]
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Ignore it. Dont fear it because it is highly unlikly he will do anything. In the mordern world people dont want to get into fights due to law suits and shit. Now this isnt always true, there are some people who will fight about things but normally not unless you provoke them. Dont let it bother you (at minimum dont show it bothers you). He most likly gets a thrill off scaring people. If you are really concerned and this sort of thing happens oftern go to some self defence training classes. You dont need to be amazing at fighting, but knowing you know how to defende yourself and your loved ones if violence is involved. It will give you a hell of a lot more confidence when dealing with the "big dumb i'm gonna hit you" type of guy since you know you can both out smart him and know if he throws a punch you will be fine. Madals

Author:	V1V [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 11:09 am ]
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Quote: Lately this alpha has been threatening me, he wants to kick my ass and shit. All for no reason, just doesn't like me.I dont know if hes jealous or what but this kid is just annoying me. I have no idea how to deal with it, im like 120 pounds, no fighting experience at all. Makes an easy target to threaten violence on. I have no idea how to handle it really. I know that the "make friends with him" strategy wont work. I have no idea where to take it from here. Madals i love your posts but the self defence thing wont work for shit. i can tell you now that any defence style you learn is completely different on the street. 2 options: 1.be passive and apologise for w/e he thinks youve done and let him have amog. sure its pussy but thers no truble. 2.or knock seven shadeza shit out the cunt. there is a fine line between amogin and just pure disrespectful. if he wants a fight - dont provoke it but man if you have to grab watevers near you and lay him out. 3.smooth talk. he probably sees you as a threat. personally i would only ever go for option 1 if he had a weapon in his hands or he had a few guys. if that dont work and hes gonna hurt you option 2. go for option 3 first. Sorry if anyone disagrees with the violence. its survival of the strongest. whether its the strongest mind or hit. V1V

Author:	jurupa [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 11:13 am ]
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More info would be useful as its hard to tell you how to handle this. The info I am talking about is such things like: Where is going on? In school? (mention if it is in high school or college) How big/tall is the guy? How tall are you? Where and how did you run into this guy? How often does he threatens you? Etc etc But for now I would say to stay way from him as much as possible. Its not worth fighting him, especially since you have no fighting experience.

Author:	madals [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 11:39 am ]
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V1V, the guy said he has no knowlage of how to fight, and things as simple as learning how to take a punch or kick will help! Your only other option is do what i do, i am never going to win a physical fight, ever. However, i am not worried if some1 starts getting aggressive because a) i know it 99% of the time wont end up in a fight cos i can out smart him and b) i am friends with some big buggers who could lay just about any1 out if they started a fight with me. Humans evolved long ago so that it wasnt the biggest guy who had the power, it was the guy who could bring the most people together. Use this to your advantage. Madals

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Author:	supaflya3 [ Mon Oct 27, 2008 8:59 pm ]
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first you should definetly try to outsmart him, if that doesnt work even the odds in a fight by using something as a weapon. Hell hold a roll of quarters in your fist while you hit him, this makes your hand heavier causing most likely a knockout. easy to hide and isnt considered a weapon unless the object is used to strike them

Author:	V1V [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 12:14 am ]
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Quote: V1V, the guy said he has no knowlage of how to fight, and things as simple as learning how to take a punch or kick will help! Your only other option is do what i do, i am never going to win a physical fight, ever. However, i am not worried if some1 starts getting aggressive because a) i know it 99% of the time wont end up in a fight cos i can out smart him and b) i am friends with some big buggers who could lay just about any1 out if they started a fight with me. Humans evolved long ago so that it wasnt the biggest guy who had the power, it was the guy who could bring the most people together. Use this to your advantage. Madals i dont give a shit if he has no knowledge of how to fight. and as for how to take a kick or smack, thats pure determination. you see a bottle, rock, chair, corkscrew or whateva. use it. doesnt matter how dirty you have to get its survival. however. outsmart him. the violence is a last resort - but one that if used effectively is garunteed to work. the mma fighter above - if your any good a fighter you will know that smartness overcomes strength or speed. try and smooth things over. V1V

Author:	Chief [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 4:28 am ]
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There are two ways to be alpha, or out-alpha someone, or to protect yourself from alphas: 1. Physically - Start working out and take some form of self defense. Any man who can't fight should learn how. I'm not saying people should fight, but I AM saying that a man should be prepared to face physical challenges. Bear in mind that this is most certainly a long-term commitment, but take it easy and slow, one step at a time. 2. Socially - This is one of the most evolutionarily advanced functions known to mankind. Who's going to win in a fight and pass on his genes to the next generation: a guy with a 200 pounds of muscle or a guy with 200 other people backing him up? That's where pickup comes in. Get everyone to love you and back you up. Becoming Neo in your social matrix is also a long-term commitment.

Author:	Z.dub [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 4:43 am ]
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Stop focusing so much on the physical aspects of this. It sounds like this is an ego thing, and not a situation where the dude actually wants to cause you physical harm... he just wants to show his dominance. There's a very small chance of him actually following through with his threats, but if he does actually come at you, then yes, like V1V was saying, fight dirty. Use anything you can to defend yourself. But in any situation where someone threatens you over ego, it's all about winning the crowd.

Author:	topliner [ Wed Oct 29, 2008 1:33 pm ]
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Fighting is never the answer, just don't acknoldge he even there if he says anything just walk straight past him, usually he will just get bord and move on to another person. If this does not work tell him you will ring the polive chances are he will shit himself and leave you alone. make love not war!!

Author:	zqawsxedcrfvtbgynhuj [ Thu Oct 30, 2008 1:00 am ]
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I think we could benefit from an example of what happens. If you could give us an example exchange, we would be better equipped to help ya.

Author:	Nogame [ Thu Oct 30, 2008 1:09 am ]
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I dont know, ive just ignored him. I walked out of class with my headphones on today(They were on but not loud enough to not hear things) and he came out of a class across from me. I could hear him out of the back my headphones trying this whole "oooooooo here comes a big shot, look at him he has planes on his sweater! planes!, make way for him!" i straight up didn't acknowledge him and continued walking down the hallway. Then after school im right outside the school trying to get out of a busy parking lot, i have my windows rolled up and my sound system fairly loud, he starts trying to talk shit through the window and i just give him the most solid eye contact and stare at his stupid face while he attempts to talk shit to me. He gets bored and walks off looking stupid as per usual.

Author:	jurupa [ Thu Oct 30, 2008 2:23 am ]
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Sounds like he is either a bully trying to get an reaction out of you to make him self better. Or sees you as a threat and is trying to unnerve you. Just ignore him as you did.

Author:	kasabi [ Thu Oct 30, 2008 3:54 am ]
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If you're in high school, join the wrestling team. . . really . . . Not sure the way you look but as you grow older, you will ALWAYS find people who will pick on you simply based on your physical stature. Their methods will change but their habits will not. Toss the "fight" solution out the window. It's not an option. "Ignoring" will neutralize the situation. Done right, amoging the guy will put you 1 step ahead of the guy and make you shine in the eyes of others. In class, I would have turned, taken the earphones off, smiled slightly.(Think George Clooney's "I understand everything that's going on here but I'm pretending to look confused" Look) Then I'd just listen. He'd go, "Oh, duh . . . what are you retarded? duh . . blah, blah . . . " - translation = I'm the village idiot with a small penis. Then motion your hands as if you're asking him to continue . . . he might, he might not. If he does his monkey act again, let him continue. Wait for the awkward silence. Then . . . "Finished now? Feel better?" He'll cut in RIGHT AWAY, "Blah blah blah!" Put your finger up and twist your head like you're surprised, "Oh . . .not finished . . . " Continue with the exaggerated (please continue) hand gestures "OK, OK . . .let it all out." Always wait for the breaks and silence for him to think of another way to announce to the World that he has a short penis. "You just don't get tired of this do you?" (shake your head like you just saw him pick his nose) "OK OK . . but I don't have all day." (Look at your watch) "Did you skip your . . . "SPAM" this week?" (the rabbit quote signs with your fingers) (Or the simple walk away after the silence . . .but he will always try to say something to your back.) Turn . . . "Huh? I thought you were done. You really crave attention don't you?"

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Author:	jurupa [ Thu Oct 30, 2008 4:23 am ]
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Quote: If you're in high school, join the wrestling team. . . really . . . Not sure the way you look but as you grow older, you will ALWAYS find people who will pick on you simply based on your physical stature. Their methods will change but their habits will not. Toss the "fight" solution out the window. It's not an option. "Ignoring" will neutralize the situation. Done right, amoging the guy will put you 1 step ahead of the guy and make you shine in the eyes of others. In class, I would have turned, taken the earphones off, smiled slightly.(Think George Clooney's "I understand everything that's going on here but I'm pretending to look confused" Look) Then I'd just listen. He'd go, "Oh, duh . . . what are you retarded? duh . . blah, blah . . . " - translation = I'm the village idiot with a small penis. Then motion your hands as if you're asking him to continue . . . he might, he might not. If he does his monkey act again, let him continue. Wait for the awkward silence. Then . . . "Finished now? Feel better?" He'll cut in RIGHT AWAY, "Blah blah blah!" Put your finger up and twist your head like you're surprised, "Oh . . .not finished . . . " Continue with the exaggerated (please continue) hand gestures "OK, OK . . .let it all out." Always wait for the breaks and silence for him to think of another way to announce to the World that he has a short penis. "You just don't get tired of this do you?" (shake your head like you just saw him pick his nose) "OK OK . . but I don't have all day." (Look at your watch) "Did you skip your . . . "SPAM" this week?" (the rabbit quote signs with your fingers) (Or the simple walk away after the silence . . .but he will always try to say something to your back.) Turn . . . "Huh? I thought you were done. You really crave attention don't you?" All that will do is provoke the guy and may make the guy resort to physical contact. Not exactly a smart thing to do.