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Author:  supaflya3 [ Mon Oct 13, 2008 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Too much interest too soon
dont know how to stop this guys, I go out on a great "date" with the girl, have a great time, kiss close, felt her up, she done the same. It was 5 hours in line at the haunted hoochie haunted house thing, we were keeping eachother warm like a couple would, I got her scared by telling the chainsaw guy to chase her.
everything was perfect, dropped her off headed home and I dont know if it was the tiredness or what BUT I asked her out, this was only the second date lmao.

I know HUGE fuckup! she said she'd like too but after a few more dates, today I texted 3 times, 1st was earlier this morning, "up for some starbucks after school" 2nd, end of school day "Nvm Ive got plans"

and the 3rd, "Bro youll never believe what just happened to me!!"
(this is the opener I tried to lead into where I say sorry wrong person and that keeps her wondering)

As for now Im wondering if I should just freezeout or what, please help. I know I definetly need to show some signs of disinterest too.

I dont know guys I am just having a great time and lately Ive been becoming needy how do you overcome this?
Author:  Lucius [ Mon Oct 13, 2008 11:06 pm ]
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"felt her up" huge fuck up right there. You went too quickly, she probably went home and thought of what she/you did and she felt like she was easy. I always say to keep the first day more casual, kiss close thats all, talk about feelings get to know each other, show her that you respect her and you're willing to take time to get to know her. She probably felt dirty after this date, thats just my input, she doesnt want to go out with you again cuz she is afraid something similar will happen and she doesnt want to feel dirty/easy again :)
Author:  supaflya3 [ Mon Oct 13, 2008 11:09 pm ]
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"felt her up" huge fuck up right there. You went too quickly, she probably went home and thought of what she/you did and she felt like she was easy. I always say to keep the first day more casual, kiss close thats all, talk about feelings get to know each other, show her that you respect her and you're willing to take time to get to know her. She probably felt dirty after this date, thats just my input, she doesnt want to go out with you again cuz she is afraid something similar will happen and she doesnt want to feel dirty/easy again :)
no thats not it/ sorry if I didnt sound clear, but she started grabbing onto my cock and shit in line, so it definetly wasnt that, Im talking to her right now I guess her mom took away her phone/ dont know if I buy into that but its possible
Author:  V1V [ Tue Oct 14, 2008 6:04 pm ]
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"felt her up" huge fuck up right there. You went too quickly, she probably went home and thought of what she/you did and she felt like she was easy. I always say to keep the first day more casual, kiss close thats all, talk about feelings get to know each other, show her that you respect her and you're willing to take time to get to know her. She probably felt dirty after this date, thats just my input, she doesnt want to go out with you again cuz she is afraid something similar will happen and she doesnt want to feel dirty/easy again :)
no thats not it/ sorry if I didnt sound clear, but she started grabbing onto my cock and shit in line, so it definetly wasnt that, Im talking to her right now I guess her mom took away her phone/ dont know if I buy into that but its possible
your wrong there mate. if you didnt build enough comfort before it then shes going to feel a slut and regret it. theres a name for it........ ahhhh thats going to annoy me now lol. basically its one of the three main player traps. you shuda just sed - wooo slow this down. and cut it off. two steps forward one step backwards my friend. it kills lmr aswell.
V1V :twisted:
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Oct 14, 2008 10:07 pm ]
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"felt her up" huge fuck up right there. You went too quickly, she probably went home and thought of what she/you did and she felt like she was easy. I always say to keep the first day more casual, kiss close thats all, talk about feelings get to know each other, show her that you respect her and you're willing to take time to get to know her. She probably felt dirty after this date, thats just my input, she doesnt want to go out with you again cuz she is afraid something similar will happen and she doesnt want to feel dirty/easy again :)
no thats not it/ sorry if I didnt sound clear, but she started grabbing onto my cock and shit in line, so it definetly wasnt that, Im talking to her right now I guess her mom took away her phone/ dont know if I buy into that but its possible
your wrong there mate. if you didnt build enough comfort before it then shes going to feel a slut and regret it. theres a name for it........ ahhhh thats going to annoy me now lol. basically its one of the three main player traps. you shuda just sed - wooo slow this down. and cut it off. two steps forward one step backwards my friend. it kills lmr aswell.
V1V :twisted:
I agree. There was no attempt to hold back or show restraint on your part, supaflya3, and she most probably thought you viewed her as meat and not as a person.
Author:  supaflya3 [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 12:07 am ]
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so how would you guys go about fixing this?
Author:  V1V [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 12:16 pm ]
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so how would you guys go about fixing this?
Thats a hard question. even better. more challenge right :D:D? well its pretty much not an option to be on it with her so quickly again. i think you would have to be friends first. yes. its bad. personally id put HER in the LJBF zone. crazy as it sounds - you have a chance to work from inside her. only way out i can think of tbh. youd have to go back to square -1
V1V :twisted:
Author:  supaflya3 [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 7:32 pm ]
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so how would you guys go about fixing this?
Thats a hard question. even better. more challenge right :D:D? well its pretty much not an option to be on it with her so quickly again. i think you would have to be friends first. yes. its bad. personally id put HER in the LJBF zone. crazy as it sounds - you have a chance to work from inside her. only way out i can think of tbh. youd have to go back to square -1
V1V :twisted:
sounds like itd work, how would I go about putting her there though? Its not like shes showing alot of interest as before
Author:  V1V [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 10:06 pm ]
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so how would you guys go about fixing this?
Thats a hard question. even better. more challenge right :D:D? well its pretty much not an option to be on it with her so quickly again. i think you would have to be friends first. yes. its bad. personally id put HER in the LJBF zone. crazy as it sounds - you have a chance to work from inside her. only way out i can think of tbh. youd have to go back to square -1
V1V :twisted:
sounds like itd work, how would I go about putting her there though? Its not like shes showing alot of interest as before
Say youll let her be your friend. you knew immeadiatley that she was a nice - ish girl - but you just want her as a friend. if youve screwed up too bad then she wont even let u be her friend. then your last resort wud be nlp. too much work. move on and learn.
V1V :twisted:
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