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Author:  Mysterious-Mind [ Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:54 am ]
Post subject:  Feeling Like Shit :( Text Advise :(

Hey guys!

I am really feeling like shit after tonight, and all the blow outs I got did not make things any easier. I admit, my State of Game was WAAAAY down below average after what I saw tonight.....

To cut a long story short, the Greek Model I number closed, invited me to a leaving do in On Anon for one of her friends leaving the country. I took along some PuA's.

Now, me and her have been chatting over the phone during the week, and till now I assumed she was 100% single!

Some guy turns up and they start holding hands....ok, just friends I thought.....Inside, the PuA's with me spot her kissing him and warn me......

This seriously upset me to the max. I would be lying if I said it did not.

I liked this girl a lot.....We had a lot in common and we had great chats together....something I want in a girlfriend. It just fucking hurt so much to see her do something like this.

Now, I would love some advice guys. I want to text her, and subtly bring up her boyfriend into the text but not in a way that makes me sound upset.

What do you think of this?

"Hey there! Did not want to disrupt your fun with your boyfriend, so left without saying goodbye :)
Was glad to leave that place! Too crowded and hot in there!"


I know, my Text Game is poor! :-[

Author:  Mr. Fickle [ Fri Oct 10, 2008 2:39 am ]
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i remember this text lucidly because it was the last text i ever sent to my oneitis:

me:omg
hb: no way!
me: so, who's the lucky guy?
hb: what are you talking about?
me: I saw your facebook and it said you's in a relationship now!
hb: oh yah thats mat, we met way before i went on 4 dates with you hahahahah...


(after this point i did not respond)
me (hypothetical if I didnt jjust get my heart ripped out of my chest): so, telll me about him!



this is a slipery road i hope it ends up better for you, man, good luck.

Author:  Reo [ Fri Oct 10, 2008 3:07 am ]
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See... had you told her when you first met her you wanted to get together so you could "Fuck " YOU would have known she had a boyfriend and just wanted to be friends. And you would've wasted no time

Now your feeling all angry and frustrated at the girl because you wasted a week of your life beating around the bush talking on phone, she just used u for some momentary entertainment.

what your about to say to her in that text message will accomplish nothing. She wont' care I guarantee.

Author:  Sexcellent [ Fri Oct 10, 2008 7:58 pm ]
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what your about to say to her in that text message will accomplish nothing. She wont' care I guarantee.
very very true.

Mysterious-Mind,
As a PUA you never want to demonstrate neediness. what do you think that last text is going to do? make you look extremely needy!

it's always a bad idea to send those texts to vent your frustration. you think it will make you feel better, but the truth is that it will make you feel worse when you realize that it makes her lose attraction for you.

instead, send a PUA text saying what an awesome time ywith your friends has doing bla bla bla that night, and she missed out on the bla bla bla. then proceed with some textbook BF destroying tactics. i'm not too experienced with BF destroying, but i'm sure you can find plenty of info here at this heavenly forum.

Author:  Reo [ Fri Oct 10, 2008 10:09 pm ]
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instead, send a PUA text saying what an awesome time ywith your friends has doing bla bla bla that night, and she missed out on the bla bla bla. then proceed with some textbook BF destroying tactics. i'm not too experienced with BF destroying, but i'm sure you can find plenty of info here at this heavenly forum.
That will accomplish nothing either and its a complete waste of time. Just leave the girl alone

Author:  Mr. Fickle [ Sat Oct 11, 2008 1:06 am ]
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instead, send a PUA text saying what an awesome time ywith your friends has doing bla bla bla that night, and she missed out on the bla bla bla. then proceed with some textbook BF destroying tactics. i'm not too experienced with BF destroying, but i'm sure you can find plenty of info here at this heavenly forum.
That will accomplish nothing either and its a complete waste of time. Just leave the girl alone

NEVER! DONT LIVE WITH REGRETS!!!!! I'VE HAD COUNTLESS GIRLS BREAKUP WITH THEIR BF'S JUST TO BE WITH ME.

Author:  Mysterious-Mind [ Sat Oct 11, 2008 4:37 am ]
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Thanks guys for the feedback! :)

I've text her with something else a PuA mentioned to me, but no response haha.

Ah well. I know the night she had no credit, so we'll see what happens :P

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