PUA Forum :: she's 16 im 21 shame on me

the reply above me is a good and interesting point.

listen, the age thing... is a USA paranoia.
im a girl, im 17, and i picked up a 30 year old woman who i had sex with.
whats the biggie...?

age is STUPID! if this girl is mature enough, and is some one fun to be with, and you find it worth it... then what ever.
sadly, most "teens" in fact most people dont have a brain untill they are at least 25. they have hormones.

If you can go out and have sex with 7 older girls in 2 days why is this an issue?

minor, is not a paranoid delusion.

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minor, is not a paranoid delusion.

law is one thing. what you do isnt always with the law. so in case you are like me, and dont worship law...this is what i see.

if the minor "lets say 16 up...because below that is just nasty" is aware of the situation... i mean, exactly aware, and wants to do it, and you also want to do it then why not. if its an immature "please take away my virginity" type then...no! get away. im just saying that at that age i was not a virgin...and i was having plenty of sex.

Right and wrong... looking across at the judge whose about to bring hell upon you for molestation/sex with a minor, is not a paranoid delusion.

if the minor "lets say 16 up...because below that is just nasty" is aware of the situation... i mean, exactly aware, and wants to do it, and you also want to do it then why not.

Author:	trackjunkie [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:40 am ]
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met a girl at a coffee shop didn't know how young she was at the time we talked, she hated me, weird phase girls go threw when they meet me, they hate me at first then really like me. she was no different, asked me to pick her up from school. I knew she was 16 then, so I said ya sure whenever. Not really intending to pick her up ever. She kept asking so I just picked her up. We hung out and actually had a pretty good time. I picked her up from her house a few days later because we were going to go fishing with some of the guys, she had to be home in 20 minutes, so we just went to the park. Apparently she doesn't think it's bad to date an older guy. I'm telling her she's crazy and it's aganist the law. I tell myself I need to stop hanging around her, so I go out and have sex with 7 different girls over the next 2 days just to get her out of my head. didn't work. she really likes me, but even if i touch her she can say it was sexual assault. I have no intentions of having sex with her, or even kissing her. She just brings me back to my highschool days when I would work 48 hours a week to pay for a BMW. Which I finally got, but missed out on my entire highschool life, and for some reason hanging around her brings me back to my childhood. And she's so innocent, no hang ups, no bad experiences with any guys, just no baggage good or bad relationships. She asked me to pick her up from school tomorrow, and I agreed, and her cousin confronts me, and tells me I can't hang out with her, that's she's too young. sooo i still want to be a positive influence on her, I guess I'll just be "busy" when she calls for a week and she'll probably forget about me.

Author:	onato123 [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:46 am ]
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If you can go out and have sex with 7 older girls in 2 days why is this an issue?

Author:	Dre [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 12:55 pm ]
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the reply above me is a good and interesting point. listen, the age thing... is a USA paranoia. im a girl, im 17, and i picked up a 30 year old woman who i had sex with. whats the biggie...? age is STUPID! if this girl is mature enough, and is some one fun to be with, and you find it worth it... then what ever. sadly, most "teens" in fact most people dont have a brain untill they are at least 25. they have hormones.

Author:	A Minor [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 6:57 pm ]
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Quote: the reply above me is a good and interesting point. listen, the age thing... is a USA paranoia. im a girl, im 17, and i picked up a 30 year old woman who i had sex with. whats the biggie...? age is STUPID! if this girl is mature enough, and is some one fun to be with, and you find it worth it... then what ever. sadly, most "teens" in fact most people dont have a brain untill they are at least 25. they have hormones. Right and wrong... looking across at the judge whose about to bring hell upon you for molestation/sex with a minor, is not a paranoid delusion.

Author:	trackjunkie [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 9:04 pm ]
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Quote: If you can go out and have sex with 7 older girls in 2 days why is this an issue? because sex is more to me that just sticking it in. I like to have a strong emotional bond before. I want her to know me and do all the things i enjoy (foreplay). And after we have sex I want to be able to take her out, have a nice conversation with her. It's easy to have sex with girls if your truly disinterested, and there has only been 2 girls that I have enjoyed having this experience with

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Author:	Dre [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 9:13 pm ]
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Quote: minor, is not a paranoid delusion. law is one thing. what you do isnt always with the law. so in case you are like me, and dont worship law...this is what i see. if the minor "lets say 16 up...because below that is just nasty" is aware of the situation... i mean, exactly aware, and wants to do it, and you also want to do it then why not. if its an immature "please take away my virginity" type then...no! get away. im just saying that at that age i was not a virgin...and i was having plenty of sex.[/quote]

Author:	madals [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 9:43 pm ]
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In england its legal Many places its legal. Use ur own judgment

Author:	A Minor [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:35 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: minor, is not a paranoid delusion. law is one thing. what you do isnt always with the law. so in case you are like me, and dont worship law...this is what i see. if the minor "lets say 16 up...because below that is just nasty" is aware of the situation... i mean, exactly aware, and wants to do it, and you also want to do it then why not. if its an immature "please take away my virginity" type then...no! get away. im just saying that at that age i was not a virgin...and i was having plenty of sex. [/quote] Just because I don't always follow the law doesnt mean it is justified if I break it in another way. Worshiping the law or not, I am bound by it. I don't disagree with your point that it has to do with the girl, not the age. The first girl I pulled in after my ex was 39. She was crazy. My ex, who was a very down to earth girl, started dating me at 18 (2 weeks after her bday... ripe baby). Nevertheless, it takes only one slip of the dick to get yourself in serious trouble. With STDs, accusations of rape, etc. out there, I caution adding another element into the mix. I say so with some hesitation, but the dark side of PUA (addiction, stds, etc.) are not discussed enough. My .02 A-Minor.

Author:	Starfox [ Sat Sep 20, 2008 1:59 am ]
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All I can say is too bad you're not in Canada, cause 16 is perfectly legal. Though I personally wouldn't date a 16 year old, at least if a chick lies about her age I cant be charged!

Author:	Mr. Fickle [ Sat Sep 20, 2008 2:14 am ]
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its not like pot posession. we are talking like 18 years in prison. Not a good law to ignore. good way to get over it. get in you bmw, push that gas down and dont let go until you crap your pants. she will be the last thing on your mind.

Author:	BubbaMan03 [ Sat Sep 20, 2008 4:37 pm ]
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Tough situation man, but the law is the law and the worst thing is that it's still statutory rape, whether is consentual or not. I just got done working with a guy that just got out of prison for having sex with a 16 yr old when he was only 19. The grandma turned him in and he ended up getting 15 yrs, he got out after 8, but still he's in his late 20's now and has nothing to show for it. I guess all I can say is be careful, and don't let grandma catch you.

Author:	invincible77 [ Sun Sep 21, 2008 9:39 pm ]
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Quote: Right and wrong... looking across at the judge whose about to bring hell upon you for molestation/sex with a minor, is not a paranoid delusion. +1 Quote: if the minor "lets say 16 up...because below that is just nasty" is aware of the situation... i mean, exactly aware, and wants to do it, and you also want to do it then why not. Because it's illegal and there are serious repercussions for showing blatant disregard for the law. In rare instances, just because something is illegal doesn't mean that it's wrong. But nonetheless, there are laws for it, and whether it's right or not shouldn't dictate if the law should be followed or not. Personally, I see no problem with it. I'm also not the guy in charge. Stay away man... unless you have nothing to lose. It's your gamble.

Author:	zqawsxedcrfvtbgynhuj [ Sun Sep 21, 2008 11:26 pm ]
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Now, I have my opinion on this topic, as does everyone else. My opinion is irrelevant. I do have something to say about the law though. It really depends on where you are located. One of the places I've lived has laws pertaining to statutory rape that are very different than they are in other places. It was something like, if one person is over the age of consent (18 there), then it's statutory rape. However, if there is less than a 4 year age difference, it is no longer statutory rape. That means, that if you were 18, then 14 is still acceptable in the eyes of the law. You're 19, then 15 is OK. Many view that as gross/disgusting/wrong/etc., but it was still legal. There are also some other interesting laws that can be pulled into this, a lot of which are stupid, useless, and make things much more complicated than they need to be, but relevant none the less.

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