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Author:  smiles [ Wed Mar 21, 2007 10:26 am ]
Post subject:  closing at work
a new girl has just started at my workplace, im keen on her we have had a few chats just little chit chats at various breaks, however we dont share our lunch break to gether and i work in the office and she is on the shopfloor serving customers, however i feel like every interaction is good, i get some good eye contact.

just wondering how i should esclate this, any techniques i should use, it is very risky i understand using game skills at work, but hmm she is hb 9.and im real keen...

anyone got some tips, routines! anything....its doing my head in!
Author:  seanjohn [ Wed Apr 04, 2007 1:59 am ]
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I don't think game at work is a good thing... not if you like your job at least. If I were you I'd try and parlay this HB into more HBs by using her to gain access to her friends... Can't go wrong there.
Author:  Slipfinger [ Sat Apr 07, 2007 2:18 pm ]
Post subject:  A few tips
mate..well you like her gaming at work can be nice..just think of those late night office hours where she helps you with diffrent ummmm work activities...try negging alot in a playfull way :) that cant be considierd as flirting ill share the advice I was given sometime ago, be the same towards every girl in the place, which I realized makes stuff more intressting, taken girl will help you reach your objective, single chicks will make you look intressting, neg and flirt with everyone! Be the Rooster in the place, total takeover!

let me give you an example on a neg; there were 2 girls at work helping me with something..so I aproach them from behind; "Looking good ladies..ahh slave labour when it is at its best...wonderfull" They both go; your so mean!..
Me: well todays monday im only nice on tuesdays..sorry *smile*

B
Author:  xray6251 [ Sat Apr 07, 2007 2:40 pm ]
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let the workplace be just that, a work place...
Author:  excitement [ Fri Apr 27, 2007 2:27 am ]
Post subject:  Closing
Hi smiles,
I closed a new office collegue the other week.
This is how i did it.
I walked into her department a couple of times.
The first time i went straight to her collegue, gave him all the attention, he introduced me i said hi to her and went straight back to my convo with him. Then i DHVd. i told the guy in the office i need to show him something later on, in a really loud alpha type way, i then walked out.
The next time i went in she was on with another female collegue, i gave that girl all the attention and left.
The next day there was an work function on (see closing and day 2s) and i played game on her all night and i won!

My Tips:
Portray yourself as the office alpha male the whole time, irrespective of your position. Walk into her area like your the life of the office and tell her or her collegues a story where you lead men. "I was going to go to the beach tomorrow but i have to see one of my friends, cos he says im always too busy for him and he feels rejected".
Neg her. say "you would be gorgeous if you didnt walk around with that hunch" then smile in a devious way.
After running game for about a week with authority give her a pen and tell she seems like fun and insist she write her number down then say "This is such a busy week but im free on tuesday ill show you how to rid the hunch, meet me at 7 at this place"
Good luck smiles
Author:  veryEnglish87 [ Fri Apr 27, 2007 4:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A few tips
Quote:
ill share the advice I was given sometime ago, be the same towards every girl in the place, which I realized makes stuff more intressting, taken girl will help you reach your objective, single chicks will make you look intressting, neg and flirt with everyone! Be the Rooster in the place, total takeover!

B

Excellent advice Slipfinger. It works so well, plus not only do work colleagues start to gravitate towards you, making you look popular, it also disguises what you are doing if the boss catches you. You become just that popular and flirty guy, its your nature, not distracting you from work, right? :wink:

Also, when gaming at work I always find it easiest just to keep things quiet light and make sure to find out something she is interested in, then suggest we do it together as 'friends', then game the hell out of her on the meet.
Author:  smiles [ Sun Apr 29, 2007 9:25 am ]
Post subject: 
thanks for all the advice! well we are still flirting a bit but ive backed off now and maybe just letting it go, because its tough at work, however mabye down the track ill try and set up something formal.

love the advice about being the alpha office and being friendly to everyone!
Author:  Starbuck [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Closing
Quote:
Hi smiles,
I closed a new office collegue the other week.
This is how i did it.
I walked into her department a couple of times.
The first time i went straight to her collegue, gave him all the attention, he introduced me i said hi to her and went straight back to my convo with him. Then i DHVd. i told the guy in the office i need to show him something later on, in a really loud alpha type way, i then walked out.
The next time i went in she was on with another female collegue, i gave that girl all the attention and left.
The next day there was an work function on (see closing and day 2s) and i played game on her all night and i won!

My Tips:
Portray yourself as the office alpha male the whole time, irrespective of your position. Walk into her area like your the life of the office and tell her or her collegues a story where you lead men. "I was going to go to the beach tomorrow but i have to see one of my friends, cos he says im always too busy for him and he feels rejected".
Neg her. say "you would be gorgeous if you didnt walk around with that hunch" then smile in a devious way.
After running game for about a week with authority give her a pen and tell she seems like fun and insist she write her number down then say "This is such a busy week but im free on tuesday ill show you how to rid the hunch, meet me at 7 at this place"
Good luck smiles
I don't recommend this, or run game at work if you like your job.

It worked in this case. But it also might cause you to be looking for another job. Especially if your so called male colleague has friends in high places and resents your effort to intrude on his territory and steal his frame with this chick.

If you like a girl and you don't work with her directly, and your not her boss, or she yours, ask her where she hangs out after work. Or ask her if she'd like to meet you after work for coffee, a drink or something.

This is a common practice in most workplaces today. And it gives you an alibi. Specifically that you don't mix business with pleasure.

Because once you get this label, you will often be labeled as a womanizer, and somebody that can't keep his dick in his pants and for all intents and purposes your ability to advance at that company is over. Especially if the relationship goes south and she complains.

I'm telling you, this is the way executives think. You know the guys and gals at the top of the food chain.
Author:  The Wild One [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 6:55 pm ]
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Gaming at work is not a good idea. Keep it professional.
Author:  Murdoc [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 7:20 pm ]
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he's not asking if he should or should not. he's already decided that he should. if he, like myself, finds a woman more interesting than his job (which may be a high paying career or a retail part time gig) then he needs a new job anyway.
Author:  Roads [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 8:16 pm ]
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Ok this is gonna sound really weird: I ran game on a HB9 colleague when I was an AFC, before I ever read the Game. Unknown to me, I was using all of the techniques on her that I am now able to put a name to. I teased her, negged her, did FD's, push pulled, made great eye contact (something I NEVER used to do with girls), made cleverly disguised sexual innuendos, and generally acted alpha in her presence all day.

Why and how I did this I don't know, it was almost as if I was pushed by another part of myself to act this way with her. I ultimately did not get in bed with her, although by the end of us working together she was practically begging, going out of her way to touch me, holding eye contact for 20 seconds or more, laughing at all my jokes and body language quirks, scratching her wrists, stroking her hair.

...

Oh man. I shoulda closed her. Dammit sometimes timing is everything in this life...wish I'd read the Game earlier...@&#&^!! :evil:
Author:  Starbuck [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 11:35 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Ok this is gonna sound really weird: I ran game on a HB9 colleague when I was an AFC, before I ever read the Game. Unknown to me, I was using all of the techniques on her that I am now able to put a name to. I teased her, negged her, did FD's, push pulled, made great eye contact (something I NEVER used to do with girls), made cleverly disguised sexual innuendos, and generally acted alpha in her presence all day.

Why and how I did this I don't know, it was almost as if I was pushed by another part of myself to act this way with her. I ultimately did not get in bed with her, although by the end of us working together she was practically begging, going out of her way to touch me, holding eye contact for 20 seconds or more, laughing at all my jokes and body language quirks, scratching her wrists, stroking her hair.

...

Oh man. I shoulda closed her. Dammit sometimes timing is everything in this life...wish I'd read the Game earlier...@&#&^!! :evil:
I think we've all been in this position. :lol:

And I'll bet there's a good chance that for many here, that's why they decided to get into this to begin with.
Author:  rogue [ Mon Jan 21, 2008 3:26 pm ]
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I have been in the same position and I’ve managed to be in a relation with a girl from work for 2.5 years (we broke up 1 year ago).

What I did was helping her with various things at work because I was in IT dept and she was an Accountant, so eventually every now and then something would come up, which was a great opportunity to talk to her about stuff and neg her on her computer skills and stuff. Back then I wasn’t into pick up at all but I would always neg, and have no problem being social and everything.

It took me about 2 months to get her to go out with me, after 3 failed attempts I gave up. Then during August most of the office employees were on holidays so it was my chance to talk a bit more. She just wouldn’t give in. Finally one day we randomly left together and met at the traffic lights and just randomly we arranged to go out.

During those 2.5 years a few people found out and it wasn’t comfortable. I had a nice time but sometimes I could “feel” people gossiping us behind our backs.

I wouldn’t attempt it again.
As for your case, closing IN the office is not so easy.. even if she wants to, she’ll be extra cautious not to be caught and stuff. My idea is one day start talking about how tired you are because you were up late partying for a mate’s birthday… ask her where she hangs out, and then tell her about meeting you at a place of your choosing where you’ll be with your friends anyway, and invite her friends as well..

If she comes, you can isolate her there and escalate.
My advice is don’t do it at work….

Yours,
Rogue
Author:  LAMaverick [ Tue Feb 26, 2008 3:52 am ]
Post subject:  bad idea
This kinda breaks the law "don't shit where you eat". Every relationship or one night stand always has an ending and with that ending comes social akwardness being that you will constantly be seeing her at work. And I feel that trying to avoid her usually has the opposite effect in that you'll end up seeing her more. Im in high school and I gamed up a girl in the grade above me, and since we broke up, things have always been akward. For you, the worst case senario is that if you seduce to early, your relationship will become akward or worse, you could see a sexual harassment suit and lose your job. I agree with the other post by saying use her for her friends, itll go alot better.
Author:  ChimeranPanda [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 8:01 pm ]
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Whereas in the field you can take your game to the edge, you can't really do that in the workplace. I work part-time in a hotel, i'm there maybe once a week. One night i got fed up with and wanted to be promoted to bartender. My 2nd indirect supervisor is an 8, 31yrs old, single, so i game her with humor and cockiness, the latter which she obviously is not used to coming from an underling. Closed with her telling me to "mail my resume" to her personal email. emailed:
For your reference, attached is my resume.
And please call before 11 PM because that's when my mom makes me go to sleep. Oh and where can I reach you if i want to call you 10 times a day?
Xargon
(credit to david d)
She writes back oh its so cute ..yada yada yada, don't call her after 11pm b/c then she's usually drunk,etc, adds her cell. Anyways, the point is you can game at work and avoid unpleasant awkwardness if you are the man and take the lead in deciding how you feel about it if it works out or if it doesn't. Im a cocky bastard, i just don't care. So no one else cares either.

You lead one life, women want cock, go give it to them.
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