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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:12 pm ] |
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I thought this was extremely helpful. i really like his approach to pick up. he balances the set routines and philosolpies we all learn with a simpler "natural" flavor. here are the notes: --------Simplifying Game-------- You really don't need to understand attraction at the level that most people expect: The reason is that we are all designed to attract members of the opposite sex ----- You don't need to know EVERY attraction switch ----- The issue is typically procrastination ---------- Ex. Paying for gym membership without going to the gym ---------- This goes hand in hand with a lot of problems that aspiring PUA's have Since this is a business, PUG's will typically help you one step at a time. It helps to be proactive and take the reigns yourself to treat the problem, and not the symptoms 3 things all "naturals" have in common ----- Confidence ----- Ability to sexually escalate ----- Abundance of females These are the three key qualities that you really need to be good at game. Confidence ----- Comes through competence ----- Doing it is the only way to get over it ----- Confront your fears Ability to sexually escalate ----- This usually comes naturally ----- Can be practiced with abundance Abundance of females ----- Does not come from rapport ----- Comes from comfort ---------- "being" an afc is sometimes helpful in this regard ---------- You might seems really cool at first by gaming properly, but if you try too hard you can become annoying. This is not someone she wants to share her life with" --------------- If you are confident enough and then nice enough to make them feel confident, then all you need to do is sexually escalate -------------------- This is because girls seeing you sexually escalate but not try to close, and the girl is not running away, will build comfort ---------- It can be helpful to have your social circle be predominantly female If you want a girl to have interest in you, then you have to show interest in what she's interested in ----- She wants you to listen to her day and give feedback on it ----- She wants to hear about yours Good looks doesn't make good game, but it can certainly help ----- Getting girls' advice helps you start looking better and better Adam: "I CONSTANTLY WORK AT TRYING TO IMRPOVE EVERY PART OF MY LIFE" Looking good demonstrates that you look after yourself and can look after an HB ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------Open discussion on sticking points:-------- Girls guards are typically up in bars because guys have more opening confidence and hit on them constantly For day 2's you need to have a really good justified reason for seeing each other again Adam doesn't like negging, but here's the reasons why it works ----- Causing a more interesting interaction and spark up convo ----- To punish non-compliance Rapport-breaking ----- Theory behind this is only rapport or only comfort does not make her want to sleep with you ----- Breaking rapport makes her work for it a little bit ----- Do not SEVER rapport, breaking it is OK ---------- This is sort of like negging with backhand compliments rather than insults ---------- Negging must fit the frame --------------- Ex. If you are very very handsome, then the neg on her looks might not work as opposed to if you were a little odd looking like mystery. -------------------- This makes her question herself a little more Adding value (to the interaction) builds rapport. Think of it as adding value. ----- Thought provoking openers do this ----- Have them associate feeling good with you ----- Remember to also sexually escalate Specific examples of sexual escalation ----- Check out the dance floor game video on youtube Excellent way to recover from a neg that is not taken well ----- "me and all of my best friends have started friendship after an argument" Good body language is confident and comfortable When setting up day 2 with a group, get them to invite their friends as well With night game, it is important that people in the venue to see that you have social proof Adam's tip for minimizing Flake s ----- Pressure makes it awkward, Make it a low pressure meeting that will make it easy for her to commit to it ---------- Choose better day 2 venue ---------- No pressure date, then to invite her to the original plan --------------- Ex. Icecream -------------------- Keep things fun Adam's tip: Get a minimum of 3-5 female friends that hang out with you regularly |
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| Author: | Chino Kapone [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:31 pm ] |
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Fantastic notes Sexcellent! It was a really good webinar. Adam's methods are easy to comprhend. He was able to break things down easily with out over complicating the situation. I hope we can make this a consistent thing. Thanks again Adam. CK |
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| Author: | AFC Adam [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:33 pm ] |
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Quote: .It was the first time in my life I was jealous of a girl's boyfriend.
LMFAO!!!!Guys thanks so much for having me, I really loved doing it, IF there's enough interest I'm happy to do this more regularly. Just let me know. And Sexcellent...those notes are great... I should copy them and release it as an ebook charging everyone.  AFC Adam |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:42 pm ] |
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This really was (s)excellent, and to think I nearly missed it! I'd love for this to become a consistent thing as CK said. Very informative and the depth in which the questions were answered was superb. By the way I loved the story of that 6'4 polish bird, just capped it off beautifully haha. Kudos on the notes Sexcellent, I can see myself looking back at these often. Cheers Adam, all the best! Musterion |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 1:14 am ] |
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I can't believe I missed the webinar! Would have been cool to chat with adam but I'm sure he'll do it again some time. 
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| Author: | Musterion [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 1:41 am ] |
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Quote: I can't believe I missed the webinar! Would have been cool to chat with adam but I'm sure he'll do it again some time. You were kinda there in spirit bro. If I remember rightly one of the first things Adam mentioned was how impressed he was with that day game post you did.
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| Author: | AFC Adam [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 2:02 am ] |
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Yeah man I did, it was a good post! AFC Adam, |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 3:50 am ] |
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Quote: You were kinda there in spirit bro. If I remember rightly one of the first things Adam mentioned was how impressed he was with that day game post you did.
Yay! I bet he mispronounced my name and everyone corrected him.
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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 6:36 am ] |
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guys FYI, i touched up the notes a bit. i took the notes in word, and used a lot of tabs to outline. since you can't use the tab function in this posting window, i had to improvise a bit so that it makes more sense. this should definately help if there was any confusion before. |
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| Author: | callmecaptain [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 7:09 am ] |
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Thanks so much for your time Adam. Listening to your perspective on PU helped me out to reframe mine. I found myself more motivated today as a result. I'd definately be down to attend another one of these. CPT |
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| Author: | madals [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 9:35 am ] |
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Was that party really worth missing this..... maybe. Are these notes pure money....... definatly!!! Sexcellent, thankyou 
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| Author: | Zip [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 1:58 pm ] |
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Coming from someone who frequently moderates or teaches these "webinars" on the forum, I was hoping that by listening to a man who has traveled the world teaching and speaking, I could get some good clues on improving my own style of getting information across... I learned nothing about that... but only because I was completely captivated by the message, the casual pathos, and the passion that Adam has for helping others. I practically jumped all over my newly painted apartment when Adam dove into "in-field procrastination." You can read 500 books on how to ride a horse, but until you put that shit down, walk outside, get on a damn horse, fall off a few times, find your balance, PHYSICALLY EXPERIENCE the horse under you... you'll never be able to join the hunt. I will say that I am still not 100% on board with some minute details of his message (i.e. his view of rapport,) but does that really matter? I'll have to take off my teaching hat, go out there, and test some shit out. It's pretty disturbing that this guy is lauded as #3, "the new gen. Neil Strauss," etc. ad nauseam, and he's confidently humbler than Mother Theresa. |
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| Author: | AFC Adam [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 2:05 pm ] |
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Guys, thank you so much. Zip I loved what you wrote. Your Horse analogy is EXACTLY the point I'm trying to get out there. Right now I have a student who refuses to approach. He's been on 3 botcamps with other PUA's and never approached on any. He asked me for a bootcamp but I'm refusing to give it to him. Because unless he's willing to push himself no amount of training will help him. So instead were working privately for free for him until he gets around to approaching. Then we can take care of the rest. But we can only help people who are willing to take the first step. Have I ever said how much I love this forum. Those notes are AWESOME. no-ones ever done that for me in such depth before. I usually get. "Adam said some stuff about pre-selection it was awesome!" Hahaha We should record it next time. AFC Adam, |
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| Author: | Zip [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 2:49 pm ] |
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I did record it
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| Author: | madals [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 3:05 pm ] |
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Zip darling what must i do to magically get that audio file?  Madals |
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