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| Author: | madals [ Sat Jul 19, 2008 8:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | C&F attraction, then what. |
Ok, i think i have found a little sticking point. I have a very C&F alpha personality (enchanced by PUA, what little i know of it). This works great for attraction, but what i want to know is when, and how, do you make the transition from C&F to a more friendly attitude. To allow more comfort rather than pure attraction (which has already been made). /madals |
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| Author: | Charlie Brown [ Sat Jul 19, 2008 11:05 pm ] |
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I have your exact problem. I'm seen as overbearing and don't build comfort. When would it be an opportune time to do so? I'm either one extreme or the other between "sweet,caring AFC" and " Caveman Alpha". Medicationn for my bi-polar maybe LOL! |
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| Author: | alron [ Sat Jul 19, 2008 11:19 pm ] |
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usually, i build comfort before i start doing the cocky funny thing. the easiest way is using nlp to build comfort. subtly match posture, breathing patterns, and voice tone while maintaining natural eye contact; fluff, then when you are certain they are feeling you, you can transition into being more c&f. |
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| Author: | slyder2412 [ Sat Jul 19, 2008 11:30 pm ] |
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what would u consider natural eye contact? Everyone has a different pattern which to them is "natural". |
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| Author: | alron [ Sun Jul 20, 2008 5:20 am ] |
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follow visual cues. if they are looking off somewhere while talking, look partly at the direction they are looking off in, whilst partly making eye contact. or if they are using their hands to explain a point, glance at the hands when they make big motions. everyone is different, so use your discretion as to how often and with what timing you should glance back and forth. i trust everyone knows how to maintain natural eye contact if they are not consciously thinking about it. be bold, make eye contact whenever possible, but don't make people uncomfortable and stare. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sun Jul 20, 2008 5:29 am ] |
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I think some honesty and solid kino (with escalation) is enough comfort for this situation. |
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